Restoration of faith and Reconciliation of Marriage

Spruser

Disciple of Prayer
I am asking as many people as I can to intercede on behalf of my Marriage, my husbands faith, and my faith. That my husband would be humbled and do a full turn back to God and the covenant he made to God when we married. That the scales would be removed from his eyes and ears and his heart would be made soft. Rebuke, bind, and cast off the lies he is believing about me and our union that are straight from the pit of hell. That he would see the real truth for what it is and realize that I am not his enemy and he can have sobriety AND his marriage, AND his happiness if he would only just be brave and face the issues that have plagued us for so long. Pray that i will be blessed with endurance to stand for my marriage during this harrowing season and that as I reclaim and grow my faith God would grow me in wisdom and discernment. That i would stand in faith entertaining NO DOUBT that restoration of his faith and reconciliation of our marriage is already on the way in Jesus name! Hallelujah
 
We stand with you in this harrowing season and we honor your heart to stand for your marriage covenant before God. We agree with you that marriage is a holy covenant and what God has joined together, let no man separate, as taught in Mark 10:9 and Matthew 19:6. God hates divorce as Malachi 2:16 declares, and His heart is for reconciliation and restoration, to restore the years that have been lost as promised in Joel 2:25. Your desire to see your husband humbled and returned to the Lord and to the vows he made before God is righteous and aligns with God's will for a lifelong union between a man and a woman.

We hear the spiritual battle you are describing and we join you in rebuking the lies of the enemy. The word tells us that we do not wrestle against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces in Ephesians 6:12, and that we are to bring every thought captive to the obedience of Christ in 2 Corinthians 10:5. We rebuke, bind and cast off in Jesus' name every lie from the pit of hell that tells your husband you are his enemy and that he must choose between sobriety, marriage and happiness. The enemy is a liar and comes to steal, kill and destroy, but Jesus came that we may have life abundantly. We pray that the scales would be removed from his eyes and ears as in Acts 26:18, that he would turn from darkness to light, and that God would remove his heart of stone and give him a heart of flesh as promised in Ezekiel 36:26. We pray he would be humbled under the mighty hand of God, for God gives grace to the humble in James 4:6 and if he will humble himself and pray and seek God's face, God will hear and heal as in 2 Chronicles 7:14.

We also lift up his need for sobriety and for courage to face the issues that have plagued your union for so long. True happiness and peace are not found in any substance but in Christ alone, and we are commanded in Ephesians 5:18 not to be drunken with wine wherein is dissipation, but to be filled with the Spirit. Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20. We pray he will see the truth that he can have sobriety and his marriage and true joy in the Lord, and that he will be brave to confront what needs to be confessed, repented of, and healed. This will require humility, accountability, godly counsel and often the support of the church and trusted help for addiction, and we pray he will embrace that path rather than run from it.

We pray for you as you reclaim and grow your faith and stand with endurance. The Lord sees your tears and your faithfulness. We ask God to bless you with supernatural endurance so that you do not grow weary in well doing, for in due season you will reap if you do not give up as Galatians 6:9 teaches. We pray He will grow you in wisdom and discernment, for if any of you lacks wisdom let him ask of God who gives to all liberally as James 1:5 promises, and that He will guard your heart from doubt. Jesus teaches us in Mark 11:24 that whatever we ask in prayer, believing we have received it, we shall have it, and in James 1:6 to ask in faith without wavering. We encourage you to stand in faith entertaining no doubt while also resting in God's perfect will and timing, casting all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you in 1 Peter 5:7.

We pray together now. Father, we come before Your throne of grace in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Your Son, through whom alone we have access to You and salvation. We lift this dear sister and her husband and their marriage covenant to You. Lord, soften his heart, open his eyes and ears, humble him and draw him to full repentance and a complete turn back to You. Expose and destroy every lie he is believing about his wife and his marriage, and let him see with clarity that his wife is not his enemy but his helper and covenant partner. Deliver him from every bondage and grant him lasting sobriety by the power of Your Holy Spirit, and give him courage to face the deep issues with honesty and to do the hard work of reconciliation. Strengthen this wife with endurance, peace, wisdom and discernment as she stands for what You have joined together. Grow her faith and let her stand firm without doubt, trusting that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask. We ask for restoration of faith for both and reconciliation of this marriage for Your glory. Let Your will be done in this family and let this testimony bring praise to You. In Jesus' name we pray, amen.
 
I am asking as many people as I can to intercede on behalf of my Marriage, my husbands faith, and my faith. That my husband would be humbled and do a full turn back to God and the covenant he made to God when we married. That the scales would be removed from his eyes and ears and his heart would be made soft. Rebuke, bind, and cast off the lies he is believing about me and our union that are straight from the pit of hell. That he would see the real truth for what it is and realize that I am not his enemy and he can have sobriety AND his marriage, AND his happiness if he would only just be brave and face the issues that have plagued us for so long. Pray that i will be blessed with endurance to stand for my marriage during this harrowing season and that as I reclaim and grow my faith God would grow me in wisdom and discernment. That i would stand in faith entertaining NO DOUBT that restoration of his faith and reconciliation of our marriage is already on the way in Jesus name! Hallelujah

I agree in Jesus' Name, Matt 18:19.
 
We have been praying as we read your request. Standing for your marriage while also tending to your own faith in a harrowing season takes real courage, and we honor the way you are asking God to work in both your hearts.

We hear your longing for your husband to see clearly again, to have a softened heart toward God and toward your covenant, and to find that sobriety and marriage and joy are not competing choices but can be pursued together with honesty and bravery. Reconciliation, when God brings it about, is not just patching what broke but both people actively choosing restoration of love and trust over time. That kind of rebuilding is usually gradual, even when God is powerfully at work.

For endurance in this stretch, it helps not to carry this alone. If you have a trusted pastor, counselor, or mature couple who knows you both, stay closely connected with them for wisdom and discernment as you navigate next decisions. If your husband is willing, ongoing accountability and community support for sobriety can be an important part of healing, alongside prayer. And keep tending to your own walk with the Lord in simple, steady ways that renew strength.

Father, we bring this wife and her husband before You in Jesus name. Soften what is hard, clear away confusion and lies, and draw each of them closer to You. Grant her endurance, wisdom and peace as she trusts You day by day, and work in her husband's heart toward You and toward sobriety. Lead this marriage according to Your will and guard them both. Amen.
 
Your cry for the restoration of your marriage and the reclaiming of faith has been heard, and it is a blessed thing, this faith of yours, not its littleness but its faith. Little faith requires to be tenderly handled and then it will be seen to be a precious thing, for the least faith in Jesus is the gift of God and is like precious faith though it is not like strong faith. If you have faith as a grain of mustard seed, you can do wonders, and that you still stand and still pray and still entertain hope in Christ proves that your faith is true faith, born from above and belonging to the family of the saved.

We will intercede for you and for your husband as you have asked. Our Savior said to Peter, Simon, Simon, behold, Satan has desired to have you, that he may sift you as wheat, but I have prayed for you, that your faith fail not. There is the vital point. As long as faith is safe, the man is safe, for faith is the root of divine grace and if this fails, courage fails, patience fails, hope fails. We will pray that the Lord will hold His shield over your husband's faith, that the scales would be removed from his eyes and ears, that his heart which has grown hard would be made soft, and that he would receive that look of Christ which Peter received, a look altogether between the Lord and the soul, which broke his heart into a thousand pieces with grief that he should have been false to such a Friend, and wrought in him a bitter, salutary, saving repentance without which there can be no restoration. For faith and repentance are twins born at the same time, and that faith which allows a man to think lightly of past sin is not the faith of God's elect. We pray he may be humbled to a full turn back to God and to the covenant he made before God when he took you in marriage, that he would see the real truth for what it is, that you are not his enemy, and that the lies he is believing about you and your union, which are fiery darts of the wicked one, would be quenched.

For we take above all the shield of faith, because faith preserves from all sorts of enemies. Does the dart refer to Satan, faith answers him. Does it refer to wicked men, faith resists them. Does it refer to temptation to strong drink and to despair, faith can overcome that. There is no temptation that can assail a believer but faith can certainly supply an antidote, and that sanctifying faith which saves the soul makes a man say, Lord, thou hast forgiven me my sins, I will sin no more. We will pray that your husband may find that sobriety and marriage and true happiness are not contrary things, but may be held together in Christ, who gives power to live soberly and righteously in this present world.

And be assured that with God there is perfect restoration. If a sinner will come to God by prayer, with faith in Jesus Christ, God will receive him and he shall be as though he had never fallen through his sin. What a wonderful faith this is, to say, though I am black as hell, yet if Thou but purge me with the sacrificial blood of Jesus Christ, I shall be clean, wash me and I shall be whiter than snow. He is the God of peace and He has on His part prepared everything that is necessary for a perfect reconciliation, for God was in Christ reconciling the world unto Himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them, and has committed unto us the word of reconciliation. This is the reconciliation we first need with God, and out of that peace with God, He can work peace in the home. Marriage is His own covenant, the lifelong union of one man and one woman, and He delights to heal and to bind up what sin has torn.

For you, dear soul standing in this harrowing season, we pray that you may be blessed with endurance, and that as you reclaim and grow your faith, God would grow you in wisdom and discernment. Above all, take the shield of faith, and watch in all things, but especially guard your faith. Faith laughs at tribulation from whatever source it may come, and all things are possible to him that believes. Do not cast away your confidence. Little faith shall be tenderly commended by Him who looks at it as jewelers do at some famous stone worth more than they can tell. He will not despise your trembling prayer. Continue to drop down into His arms, for the essence of faith lies there, and He who has begun a good work will perfect it.

We join our prayers with yours, that God would rebuke every lie from the pit, that He would grant your husband repentance unto life, that He would keep your feet from slipping, and that in His own time and by His own power He would bring restoration of faith and reconciliation of your marriage, to the praise of His grace.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 

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