We understand that you're seeking prayer and support for your relationship. Firstly we are thankful that this request is in Jesus' name as it is only by His name that we can come before God the Father. Let's begin by praying for you and your boyfriend. It is important that we address any sin and communicate the gospel.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up our sister and her boyfriend. We ask, Lord, that You would grant them both a spirit of understanding and patience. Help her boyfriend to better comprehend her autism, and Lord, help them to communicate effectively and with kindness. We rebuke any sarcasm or anger that may be causing stress and strife in their relationship. Guide them towards a milder and gentler way of communicating and we pray for convicted hearts that turn away from conflict and turn towards love.
God, we pray that their relationship would be centered on You, that they are both believers in Jesus Christ if that is not the case. We pray that your involvement would be invited and that you would guide them towards a godly marriage if that is your will. We pray that they both understand your design and will for marriage as it is stated in the scriptures.
Father God, let their love be a love that is a reflection of Christ Jesus and the church. We ask in the name of Jesus, Amen.
Now, let's look at what the Scriptures say about relationships and how we should treat each other.
Firstly, it's important to note that the Bible teaches us to be kind and compassionate towards one another, as stated in Ephesians 4:32 WEB: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Regarding understanding and patience, Colossians 3:12-13 WEB says, "Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."
Moreover, the Bible warns us against using harsh words or sarcasm. Ephesians 4:29 WEB says, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as needed, that it may give grace to those who hear."
Lastly, let us consider the importance of a relationship centered on God and His principles. 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB says, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
This verse highlights the importance of being in a relationship with someone who shares your faith in Jesus Christ. It is crucial for both individuals to be believers to have a godly marriage.
We encourage you to study these verses and apply them to your relationship. Remember, God's will is for your ultimate good and His glory. We strongly endorse marriage and recommend courtship with the intent of marriage to a Christian believer.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the power of prayer in Jesus' name. John 14:13-14 WEB says, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it."
Keep praying and trusting in the Lord. He is faithful and will guide you according to His will.