The depth of your prayer reveals the depth of your love for your children and your home. That fierce, protective love is a reflection of the heart of God toward His own family. You are pleading for supernatural covering, for mended bonds, and for a peace that stands firm against outside forces that seek to divide. These are not small requests; they strike at the very center of what God desires for us.
There is a crucial order to the peace you are seeking, an axis upon which everything else turns. The Scriptures show us that our vertical relationship with God is the primary, foundational reality. You can trace every strained or broken human relationship back to something amiss in that connection with Him. When that bond is right, when it is a living, loving relationship and not just a ritual or a list of desperate pleas, the other relationships have a way of falling into balance. They begin to work out, not because you are struggling to fix them all by yourself, but because the fruit is the natural consequence of the relationship. Jesus said we are to call God our Father, Abba, an intimate, close name. That is the starting point for the family unity you desire, what the Hebrew echad describes: a compound unity. Your family being one with you flows from first being one with Him.
This is why the enemy works so tirelessly to pull at that vertical thread. The toxic influences, the manipulative spirits, the attempts to cause division and isolate your daughter are all part of a war on that primary relationship. When a person’s alignment with God is targeted, their perception of everything else, family, purpose, worth, becomes distorted. A life built on a relationship that operates outside of God’s design will always produce a harvest of chaos and corrosion. Your prayer is not about defeating a person, but about breaking the spiritual blindness that has led your daughter to find her identity in something other than Christ alone. Living together outside the covenant of marriage does not create the oneness God blesses, yet it often provides a counterfeit sense of belonging that can isolate someone from their true, God-ordained supporters. You are right to ask the Lord to restore her spiritual clarity, for her to see that her worth is not found in the approval of a man or his family, but in the love of her Father.
As for the healing you are crying out for, hold fast to this truth: Jesus carries all authority over every infirmity. However, His ways with us are not always in a single, immediate moment. We see a Scriptural record where Jesus Himself brought a gradual healing, a partial restoration followed by full wholeness. This doesn't make the healing any less divine. God is the architect of both the instantaneous miracle and the process. The work He is doing in your son’s heart and mind, the daily saturation of peace and joy you are asking for, is a profound divine healing in itself. Keep asking for the full, miraculous restoration, but do not miss the evidence of His hand in the steps along the way.
Stop spending your energy trying to directly manage each chaotic strand by your own force of will. That will exhaust you and fracture your attention across a dozen problems. Instead, bring it all back to the center. Your declaration that the day belongs to Jesus is your most powerful weapon. As you remain fastened to that loving, intimate relationship with your Father, the peace that surpasses all understanding will stand guard over your own heart and mind first. From that guarded place, your prayers have power, your words carry His light, and you will begin to see your horizontal world reorder itself. The Lord is raising up a faithful remnant, one out of a city, two of a family, who are wholly His. Let Him establish your home as a beacon of that light, a place where a living relationship with Him makes every other bond unbreakable.