We join with you in lifting up your heartfelt prayer, and we are deeply moved by your fervent intercession for your children and family. It is clear that you are standing in the gap for them, and we commend you for your faithfulness in prayer. You have rightly invoked the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and by which we are saved. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your prayer is rooted in the authority of Jesus, and we stand with you in agreement, knowing that *"if two of you will agree on earth concerning anything that they will ask, it will be done for them by my Father who is in heaven"* (Matthew 18:19, WEB).
We are especially burdened by the spiritual warfare you describe concerning your older daughter and the ungodly influence of this young man and his family. Your prayer aligns with Scripture, which warns us that *"bad company corrupts good morals"* (1 Corinthians 15:33, WEB). It is clear that this relationship is leading her away from godliness, gratitude, and the faith she has been raised in. We must address this with urgency and clarity: **this connection is not of God.** The behaviors you describe—manipulation, rebellion, and the poisoning of her relationships with family, faith, and self-worth—are tools of the enemy to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). Scripture commands us, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If this young man is not a believer who walks in obedience to Christ, then this relationship is built on a foundation that cannot stand. Even if he claims to be a believer, his actions and the influence of his family do not reflect the fruit of the Spirit, which is *"love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control"* (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB). Instead, what you describe bears the fruit of darkness: confusion, division, and rebellion.
We must also address the possibility that this relationship may be leading toward or already involves emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage. Scripture is unequivocal: *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB). If there is any sexual sin involved—whether in thought, word, or deed—it must be repented of immediately. Fornication is a grievous sin against God, and it opens the door to spiritual bondage. We pray that if this is happening, the Holy Spirit would convict your daughter’s heart and lead her to repentance and purity.
Additionally, we must ask: **Is this young man someone your daughter should even consider as a potential spouse?** If he is not a man of God who loves Jesus above all else, who walks in holiness, and who would lead her closer to Christ, then the answer is no. Marriage is a covenant before God, and it is meant to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). A marriage built on anything less than a shared commitment to Christ is doomed to struggle and heartache. If this young man is not a believer—or if he is a believer but walking in rebellion—then this relationship must be severed for her own spiritual protection. *"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"* (Amos 3:3, WEB). The answer is no. We pray that your daughter would have the courage to walk away from this ungodly influence, even if it is painful, knowing that God has a better plan for her.
We also note your prayer for your son’s healing from PTSD, anxiety, autism, and spiritual torment. We stand with you in agreement that *"by his stripes we are healed"* (Isaiah 53:5, WEB), and we pray for complete restoration over his mind, body, and spirit. Anxiety and torment are not from God, for *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). We declare freedom over him from every spirit of fear, confusion, and oppression, and we pray that he would be filled with the peace of Christ, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We also lift up your younger daughter, praying that she would excel in all she does and be surrounded by godly influences that encourage her faith.
Now, let us pray together over these matters:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, agreeing with our sister in faith for the protection, deliverance, and restoration of her family. Lord, we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer, and that You are faithful to complete the work You have begun in them (Philippians 1:6).
Father, we lift up this mother’s older daughter and we bind every ungodly soul tie, every spirit of manipulation, rebellion, and deception that has taken root in her life through this relationship with this young man and his family. Lord, we declare that *"no weapon formed against her shall prosper"* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB), and we command every scheme of the enemy to be exposed and frustrated. Holy Spirit, open her eyes to see the truth about this relationship—show her how it is leading her away from You, from her family, and from the plans You have for her. Give her the strength to break free from this ungodly influence, even if it means walking away completely. Surround her with godly friends and mentors who will speak Your truth into her life and encourage her in her faith. Restore her gratitude, her joy, and her confidence in You, Lord. Let her find her identity in Christ alone, not in the approval of man.
If there is any sexual sin involved in this relationship, we pray that You would convict her heart deeply, Lord. Let her feel the weight of her sin and the grief of the Holy Spirit, so that she would repent and turn back to You. Cleanse her, Lord, and restore her purity. Help her to flee from sexual immorality and to honor You with her body, which is Your temple. If this young man is not a believer—or if he is a believer but walking in rebellion—give her the wisdom and courage to end this relationship completely. Let her seek a godly spouse, a man who loves You with all his heart and who will lead her closer to You.
Father, we also lift up her son and pray for his complete healing from PTSD, anxiety, autism, and every form of spiritual torment. Lord Jesus, You are the Prince of Peace, and we declare peace over his mind and heart. Cast out every spirit of fear, confusion, and oppression, and fill him with Your love, joy, and soundness of mind. Let him experience Your supernatural peace that guards his heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Restore his focus, his strength, and his confidence in You. Let him walk in the freedom You purchased for him on the cross.
We pray for the younger daughter as well, Lord. Bless her studies, her career, and her friendships. Surround her with godly influences that will encourage her faith and help her to grow in You. Protect her from every snare of the enemy and let her excel in all she does, bringing glory to Your name.
Father, we pray for this family’s unity and protection. Let Your hedge of protection surround their home, and let Your angels encamp around them (Psalm 34:7). Frustrate every plan of the enemy to bring division, chaos, or harm. Let this home be a place of peace, joy, and love—a refuge where Your presence dwells. Restore what has been broken, Lord, and let this holiday season be a time of breakthrough, favor, and unexpected miracles.
We declare that this family belongs to You, Lord, and that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28). Let them experience Your supernatural bond and togetherness, and let their hearts be united in love and understanding. Fill their home with Your peace, Your joy, and Your light.
Finally, Lord, we pray that You would strengthen this mother in her faith and in her role as a spiritual leader in her home. Give her wisdom, discernment, and perseverance as she stands in the gap for her children. Let her see the fruit of her prayers and labor of love, and let her rejoice in Your faithfulness.
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your power, Your love, and Your perfect will for this family. Let Your kingdom come and Your will be done in their lives, as it is in heaven. We ask all this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
