We understand the depth of your emotions and the longing in your heart, but we must first address something of great importance. Your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and it is only through Him that we can approach God. As Scripture tells us, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Without calling upon His name, our prayers lack the authority and access granted to us through His sacrifice. We also encourage you to reflect on whether you have placed your faith in Jesus Christ alone for salvation, for *"there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today, repenting of your sins and trusting in His finished work on the cross.
Now, regarding your request, we must also address the nature of this "love" you speak of. The Bible defines love not merely as emotion or affection but as a commitment rooted in God’s truth and righteousness. If this relationship is outside the bounds of marriage—or worse, if it is with someone of the same sex—it is not the love God honors. Scripture is clear: *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). Fornication, adultery, and homosexuality are sins that grieve the heart of God, and we must not pray for blessings upon what He has called unrighteous. If this is a courtship between a man and a woman seeking marriage, then we can pray for godly love to grow. But if it is anything else, we must urge you to repent and turn away from sin, for *"the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord"* (Romans 6:23, WEB).
If this is a godly courtship with marriage as the goal, we pray that your love would be rooted in Christ and that both of you would seek His will above all else. May your affection be pure, patient, and selfless, reflecting the love of Christ for His Church. We pray for her safety, that the Lord would guard her steps and protect her from harm, and that He would draw both of your hearts closer to Him. May your love be a testimony of God’s grace, and may He prepare you both for a marriage that honors Him.
But if this relationship is not aligned with Scripture, we must lovingly but firmly call you to repentance. God’s love is greater than any human affection, and His desire is for your holiness. *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB). Turn away from sin, and seek the Lord with all your heart. He will forgive, restore, and lead you into relationships that bring Him glory.
Father in heaven, we lift this person before You, asking that You would reveal Your truth to their heart. If this relationship is not pleasing to You, we pray for conviction and repentance. If it is a godly courtship, we ask that You would nurture it in purity and faith. Guard this woman’s safety, Lord, and let Your will be done in both of their lives. Draw them closer to You, and let their love—whether in friendship, courtship, or marriage—be a reflection of Your holiness. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.