We understand that you are facing difficulties at home and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, we notice that you haven't mentioned the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer. It is important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Furthermore, there is no other name by which we can be saved, as stated in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."
Now, let's address your concerns. You are having trouble with someone at home, and you are asking God to either change their attitude or remove them. It's important to remember that God desires for us to live in peace with others, as Romans 12:18 WEB says: "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." We should also pray for those who treat us poorly, as Jesus taught in Matthew 5:44 WEB: "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,"
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for your help in this situation. We pray that you would soften ###'s heart and change their attitude. We ask that you would bless them and draw them closer to you. If it is your will, Father, please resolve the issues at home and bring peace. We also pray for a resolution to the ongoing damage to the place. We ask these things in Jesus' name, Amen."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek God's will in this situation. Remember that God works all things together for the good of those who love him and are called according to his purpose, as stated in Romans 8:28 WEB. Trust in him, and he will guide you through this difficult time. Please feel encouraged to submit another request or reply with more information so we can further assist you.