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I want to ask for prayers for my husband. He comes from a poor family and it has scared him. Now he's so stressed and performance-driven that it attacks our marriage. He always tells himself he's not good enough for me but also lashes out on me when he's in stress, which he is a lot lately. He works hard to be successful and get us a good life. He's in his head and quiet a lot lately and more emotionally withdrawn to me. His moods swing a lot and I have to watch every word I say. I also am unemployed at the moment and want to find a good job in a good environment again soon. I want our marriage to become stronger and repaired and I want my loving husband back. I feel so anxious and lonely every day and hopeless lately like a failure. Thank you for every prayer.
 
We lift you and your husband up in prayer, sister, knowing that the struggles you face are not hidden from our Heavenly Father, who cares deeply for both of you. The burdens of poverty, fear of inadequacy, and the pressures of provision can weigh heavily on a man’s heart, especially when he feels the weight of responsibility for his family. Yet we are reminded in **Philippians 4:6-7**, *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* Your husband’s stress and emotional withdrawal are not beyond God’s healing touch, and we rebuked the spirit of fear, performance-driven anxiety, and emotional bondage that has taken root in his heart. These are not from the Lord, for **2 Timothy 1:7** declares, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."*

We also address the way this stress has manifested in your marriage—through lashing out, emotional distance, and the heavy atmosphere of walking on eggshells. **Ephesians 4:29-32** commands us, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. Don’t grieve the Holy Spirit of God... Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Husband, we pray that the Lord softens your heart and reminds you that your worth is not found in your performance or financial success, but in Christ alone. Your wife is not your enemy—she is your helper, your ally, and the one God has entrusted to you to love as Christ loves the church. The pressure you feel is real, but it must not be taken out on her. Repent of any harsh words or emotional neglect, and ask the Lord to fill you with His peace and patience.

To you, dear sister, we say: you are not a failure. The enemy wants you to believe that lie, but **Psalm 34:18** assures us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Your feelings of loneliness and anxiety are valid, but they are not your identity in Christ. You are a daughter of the King, and He has not abandoned you. While you seek employment, trust that the Lord will provide—not just a job, but the *right* opportunity in His perfect timing. **Matthew 6:33** reminds us, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."* Use this season to draw closer to Him, to serve your husband with gentle strength, and to prepare your heart for the work He has ahead for you.

We pray now with boldness and faith:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this marriage and these two precious souls who are weary and burdened. Lord, You see the fear that has gripped our brother’s heart—the fear of not being enough, of failing, of the past repeating itself. We break the power of that fear in Jesus’ name and declare that his identity is found in You alone. Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Soften his heart toward his wife, and help him to lead with love, patience, and kindness, not with anger or withdrawal. Convict him of any sinful reactions and draw him into repentance. Restore the joy of their union and help him to see his wife as Your gift, not as an outlet for his stress.

Lord, we also lift up our sister, who feels anxious, lonely, and like a failure. Comfort her with Your presence and remind her that her worth is in Christ, not in her employment status or her husband’s approval. Provide for her needs, Father—open doors for godly employment where she can thrive and glorify You. Give her wisdom to support her husband without enabling his struggles, and strength to set boundaries when necessary. Unify them in prayer, Lord, and help them to fight this battle *together*, not against one another.

We rebuke the spirit of division, anxiety, and hopelessness in this home. Let Your love cover every wound, and let Your truth dismantle every lie. Restore what the locusts have eaten, Lord—restore their trust, their intimacy, and their joy. Help them to communicate with grace and to seek You first in all things. May their marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power.

In the name of Jesus, we pray, Amen."*

Finally, we encourage you both to prioritize prayer *together*. Even if it starts with just a few minutes a day, holding hands and surrendering your fears to God as a couple will break the isolation the enemy wants to create. Read **1 Peter 5:7**, *"casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you,"* and claim it over your lives. If your husband is open, gently suggest counseling—either through your church or a biblical counselor—so you can navigate these challenges with godly wisdom. And sister, if his lashing out ever becomes abusive (verbally or otherwise), seek help immediately. Love does not mean enduring sinful behavior without accountability.

You are not alone in this. Keep fighting for your marriage on your knees, and trust that the Lord is working even when you cannot see it. He is faithful.
 
We're here with you, sister. We see the weight your husband is carrying, the fear and stress that's been driving a wedge between you. It's like he's in a dark tunnel, and it's hard for him to see the light. But remember, even the darkest night will pass, and the sun will rise again. We're going to keep shining that light for him, and for you too.

We're asking God to wrap His loving arms around your husband, to comfort him and remind him that he's not alone. We're praying that God will help him find his worth in Him, not in his performance or success. We're asking God to give your husband the strength to face his fears, to lead with love and kindness, and to communicate with you gently.

And for you, dear sister, we're praying that God will fill you with His peace and comfort. We're asking Him to open doors for you, to provide for your needs, and to help you support your husband without enabling his struggles. We're believing that God will restore your marriage, that He'll heal the wounds and rebuild the trust between you.

We're also praying that you both will prioritize prayer together. Even just a few minutes a day, holding hands and surrendering your fears to God. It's in those moments that you'll find strength and unity. And if your husband is open, we encourage you to seek counseling together. You don't have to navigate this alone.

Keep fighting, sister. Keep trusting. God is faithful, and He's working even when you can't see it. You're not alone. We're here with you, praying in Jesus' name. Amen.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 

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