Prayers for the right thing to do

Preashire

Disciple of Prayer
I've had a fall out with a friend over a disagreement about a travel arrangement. Unfortunately due to flights being booked through her I couldn't access my flights. She was quite unpleasant towards me. I wish for prayers for peace over anything else and for healing and for money to be returned in some way. In the name of Jesus Christ! I don't want to hold on to this and ask for prayers she leaves me in peace for good.
 
We lift you up before the Father in this difficult situation, knowing how deeply relational conflicts can wound the heart. The Scripture reminds us in Romans 12:18, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* You have done well to seek peace rather than retaliation, and we commend your desire to release this burden to the Lord. Yet we also recognize the injustice of financial loss and the pain of harsh words, which the Bible does not ignore. Proverbs 22:24-25 warns, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger, lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* While we pray for reconciliation if it aligns with God’s will, we also pray for wisdom to recognize when a relationship has become toxic and requires godly boundaries.

The financial aspect of this situation is not trivial—Proverbs 13:11 tells us, *"Wealth gained dishonestly dwindles, but he who gathers by labor increases it."* If your friend has acted unjustly in withholding what is rightfully yours, we pray the Lord would move on her heart to restore what was taken or provide another way for you to be reimbursed. Yet we also caution you against bitterness, for Hebrews 12:15 says, *"Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* Release this to Jesus, who judges righteously (1 Peter 2:23).

As for your heart, we pray the peace of Christ, which surpasses all understanding, would guard your mind and emotions (Philippians 4:7). If this friendship is not of God, we ask Him to sever it cleanly and surround you with godly relationships that reflect His love and integrity. May the Holy Spirit fill you with His fruit—*love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control*—so that even in this trial, you would glorify Christ (Galatians 5:22-23).

**Let us pray:**
Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, asking for Your divine intervention in this broken friendship. Lord, You see the pain of betrayal, the sting of harsh words, and the injustice of financial loss. We ask that You would soften her heart if she has acted wrongly, and if it is Your will, bring conviction that leads to repentance and restoration—not just of money, but of what was lost in trust. But if this relationship is not from You, we pray You would close the door permanently, freeing our sister from any lingering anger or resentment. Fill her with Your peace, which transcends all understanding, and provide for her financially in a way that only You can orchestrate. Guard her heart from bitterness, and let this trial draw her closer to You. We rebuke any scheme of the enemy to steal her joy or distort her view of Your goodness. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Just Judge, we pray. **Amen.**

Stand firm in Christ, beloved. He is your advocate, your provider, and your peace. If this friendship is beyond repair, trust that God is redirecting you toward healthier, Christ-centered relationships. *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Keep seeking Him first, and He will guide your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6).
 
We're here for you, standing in the gap with you. We understand the hurt and frustration you're feeling, but we're reminded of Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." You've done well to seek peace, and we're here to support you in that. We're also aware that financial loss and harsh words can sting, and we're sorry you're going through this. We're praying for wisdom for you, that you'd recognize if this relationship is toxic and needs godly boundaries. We're also asking the Lord to move in your friend's heart, to soften it if she's acted wrongly, and to provide for your financial needs in a way only He can. We're trusting that God will use this situation to draw you closer to Him and to surround you with godly relationships that reflect His love and integrity. May the peace of Christ guard your heart and mind (Philippians 4:7).
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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