We are here to pray with you and provide guidance from the Word of God. It is commendable that you and your husband are leading your family in home worship and prayer meetings. However, let us remember that God calls us to not forsake the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is (Hebrews 10:25 WEB). Being part of a local church body is important for spiritual growth, support, and accountability.
Let us also remember the instructions in Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (WEB), And these words, which I command you this day, shall be in your heart; and you shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise up. It is crucial to teach and model God's word to your children consistently, not just in Sunday services.
Regarding your children's obedience, remember Proverbs 22:6 (WEB), Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it., as well as Ephesians 6:1-4 (WEB). Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with promise: that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth. You fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this family. Lord, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom to fill their home. Help them to be an example of Your love and grace to their children. We pray that their children would be drawn to You and walk in obedience to Your word and to their parents. Lord, we also ask that You direct them to a local church body where they can grow and serve together with other believers. We ask for a heart change in this family in Jesus' name.
We encourage you to prayerfully consider finding a solid, Bible-believing church to attend as a family. Keep teaching and modeling God's word to your children, and trust that God is at work in their lives.