I've lost friends through "out of sight out of mind". mindset. Also, don't be discouraged by this:sometimes I when I decide to "step up", all of a sudden the person is going one way when I'm going the other, or talking to someone when I want to say my thing.{HOWEVER< THEY WERE READILY AVAILABLE WHEN I DIDN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO TELL THEM.eventually, though, you usually catch up to them.I guess the choice is, you have to make a choice between which you want more, to stay in your comfort zone, or step out to try something.