Anonymous

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Please pray for me urgently. I am going through an extremely stressful and complicated situation involving my family. My mother and brother recently went on a trip, and due to concerns about their safety (especially my mother, who is vulnerable), I shared very limited information with a trusted family member — simply that I called the house and they had arrived safely. Unfortunately, my brother found out and became extremely angry. He has a history of serious mental health issues and becomes controlling, paranoid, and aggressive when he feels anyone has shared information about him or our mother. He now wants me to stop talking to this family member completely and is accusing me of betrayal, even though I said the bare minimum and only out of concern. Please pray for:

• God’s divine protection over me and my mother, emotionally and spiritually. May no harm come to us, and may every plan of the enemy be blocked in Jesus’ name.

• My brother’s mind to be calmed, healed, and delivered from anger, paranoia, and instability. May God touch the deepest part of him and bring peace where there is chaos.

• Peace upon my household and my spirit. I am exhausted from walking on eggshells and carrying so much fear, regret, and guilt. I need God’s strength to keep going.

• Wisdom and discernment — to know what to say, what not to say, and how to navigate these conversations without causing more harm or putting anyone at risk.

• My cousin (or family member I spoke to) to handle the information wisely and not escalate things further when others return from the trip.

• God to prepare a future where my mother can live safely and peacefully, without control or fear, and where I can also live in peace without anxiety over every decision.

• For this trip to end safely and calmly, with no further issues when they return. I deeply regret even speaking, even though I did it out of concern. Please pray that God covers this mistake with His mercy and does not allow it to be used as fuel for more trouble. I need His peace, protection, and intervention now more than ever.

In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.
 
We come before the throne of grace with you in this time of deep distress, lifting your heartfelt cries to our Heavenly Father, who is the God of all comfort and peace. Your situation is heavy with emotional turmoil, fear, and the weight of family strife, but we serve a God who is mighty to save, heal, and restore. You have done well to seek Him in this, and we join you in calling upon His name for divine intervention, wisdom, and protection.

The enemy seeks to bring division, confusion, and fear into families, but we stand firmly on the promise that *"God is not a God of confusion, but of peace"* (1 Corinthians 14:33, WEB). Your brother’s anger and instability are not of God but are manifestations of spiritual bondage that need to be broken by the power of Jesus Christ. The Bible tells us in 2 Timothy 1:7, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* Your brother is in desperate need of this truth—his mind and heart must be surrendered to Christ, who alone can bring lasting peace and healing. We pray that the Lord would soften his heart, break the strongholds of paranoia and aggression, and lead him to repentance and restoration. *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"* (Proverbs 15:1, WEB). While your brother’s reactions are not your responsibility, we pray the Lord gives you the grace to respond with wisdom and gentleness, even as you set healthy boundaries for your own protection.

You have carried the burden of fear, regret, and guilt for far too long, but the Lord invites you to cast these weights upon Him. *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light"* (Matthew 11:28-30, WEB). Sister, you do not have to walk on eggshells in your own home or live in constant anxiety. The Lord sees your exhaustion, and He is your refuge. *"You who fear Yahweh, trust in Yahweh! He is their help and their shield"* (Psalm 115:11, WEB). We pray that He surrounds you with His peace, which surpasses all understanding, guarding your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

As for the regret you feel over sharing limited information with your cousin, we remind you that your motive was love and concern for your mother’s safety. While we must always be wise in our words, the Lord knows your heart. *"Love covers a multitude of sins"* (1 Peter 4:8, WEB), and we pray that He would cover this situation with His mercy, preventing it from being used as a weapon for further conflict. Ask the Lord to give your cousin wisdom in how they handle this information moving forward, that they would be a source of peace and not escalation.

We also lift up your mother, who is vulnerable in this situation. The Lord is her protector, and we pray that He would place a hedge of divine protection around her, both physically and spiritually. *"Even to your old age I am he, and even to gray hairs I will carry you. I have made, and I will bear; yes, I will carry, and will deliver"* (Isaiah 46:4, WEB). May the Lord prepare a future for her—and for you—where safety, peace, and freedom from control are established. If there are practical steps you can take to ensure her well-being, we pray the Lord makes them clear and provides the means to carry them out.

Finally, we declare that this trip will end safely and without further incident. The Lord is sovereign over every detail, and we trust Him to bring calm where there has been storm. *"The Lord will give strength to his people. The Lord will bless his people with peace"* (Psalm 29:11, WEB). May His peace reign in your household, and may His strength sustain you in the days ahead.

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**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who is weary and burdened by the weight of this family crisis. Lord, You are the God who sees her tears, hears her cries, and knows the depths of her heart. We ask for Your divine protection to surround her and her mother like a shield, guarding them from every scheme of the enemy. Break the chains of fear, control, and anger that have bound her brother, Lord. Touch his mind and heart with Your healing power, casting out every spirit of paranoia, aggression, and instability. Soften his heart to receive Your truth and Your peace, that he may turn from his anger and find rest in You.

Father, we ask for Your supernatural peace to flood our sister’s spirit. Replace her exhaustion with Your strength, her fear with Your courage, and her guilt with Your forgiveness. Grant her wisdom in every word and decision, that she may navigate this situation with grace and discernment. Protect her cousin from being drawn into further conflict, and let all words spoken be seasoned with salt, bringing life and not strife.

Lord, we pray for a future of safety and peace for our sister and her mother. Prepare a way for them to live without fear, control, or anxiety. Bring this trip to a safe and calm conclusion, and let no further harm come from what has already been spoken. Cover this situation with Your mercy, Lord, and let Your will be done in every detail.

We declare that You are the Prince of Peace, and we trust You to bring order out of this chaos. Strengthen our sister to stand firm in You, knowing that You are her refuge and her ever-present help in trouble. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray, **Amen.**

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We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB). Stand firm in the truth that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28), even when the path is difficult. If there comes a time when you must set boundaries for your own well-being, do so with love but also with the confidence that the Lord honors those who seek to walk in His righteousness. You are not alone in this—He is with you, and so are we in prayer.
 
Dear friend, we're here with you, lifting your situation to the Lord. We're praying for His divine protection over you and your mother, emotionally and spiritually. We ask that He would calm your brother's mind, heal his instability, and deliver him from paranoia and aggression. We're also praying for wisdom and discernment for you, and for peace in your household. We trust that God will bring this trip to a safe and calm conclusion, with no further issues upon their return. In Jesus' name, we pray.
 

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