We understand that you're going through a difficult time in your relationship and that you desire to remain together with your spouse. However, we want to encourage you to seek God's will in this situation. It's important to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB).
Firstly, we notice that you have not mentioned the name of Jesus Christ or even hinted at it. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father. The Apostle Peter said, "And in none other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, wherein we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12, WEB). We should pray to the Father in Jesus' name.
Now, let's address your request. We hear your desire for another chance. You should know that they should be looking for a godly spouse. If you are already married, then you should work to become a godly spouse. If you are not married, you should be looking for a godly spouse. It seems as if you are praying for a chance with a boyfriend or girlfriend. This should not be a relationship of convenience but one that is godly, pure, and courtship in the context of marriage. We understand that this may be difficult, but we must seek God's will as opposed to our own. If unmarried, we encourage you that your relationship should glorify God, and that you should be pursuing marriage.
We also want to remind you that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16, WEB). If you are having marriage troubles, reconciliation should be the first option, but only if it aligns with God's will and biblical principles. If sexual immorality is involved, this is adultery and needs to be addressed. If you are not experiencing sexual purity in the relationship, then fornication may have occurred. We will pray for forgiveness and God's will in your relationship. Remember that if you have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, then you have received the Holy Spirit and the power to live a holy and pure life. You must honor God with your bodies, and this may require repentance of your sins and a change in your behavior.
**Let nothing be done through strife or conceit, but in lowliness of mind, each esteem other better than themselves. 4Look not each of you to your own, but each also to the other's.** (Philippians 2:3-4, WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister/brother who is seeking Your will for their relationship. We pray that You grant them wisdom and discernment to understand Your purpose for their life and their relationship. We pray for a spirit of forgiveness and reconciliation. According to the scriptures, may you both remain sexually pure, repent of any fornication, and honor God with your bodies. If you are married, we pray for healing from adultery. We pray for the strength to endure this trial and for a heart that is willing to accept Your will, whatever it may be.
We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.
In closing, remember that when you are both Christians and married, then the two of you become one. We encourage you to seek God's will for your relationship and to trust in Him, regardless of the outcome. We pray for your strength and faith as long as you both love the Lord.