We join you in lifting up this marriage before the Lord, knowing that His heart is for reconciliation, restoration, and redemption. The enemy seeks to destroy what God has joined together, but we stand firmly on the truth of Scripture, which declares that marriage is a sacred covenant before the Lord, not to be broken. As it is written in **Malachi 2:16 (WEB)**, *"For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!"* and in **Matthew 19:6 (WEB)**, *"So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart."*
Divorce is a painful and grievous process, one that often stems from brokenness, unforgiveness, and the hardness of hearts. Yet, we know that nothing is impossible with God. If there is even a spark of hope for restoration, we must cling to it and cry out for His intervention. **Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB)** commands us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Forgiveness is not optional for the believer—it is a commandment, and it is the path to healing. Unforgiveness only brings bondage, but forgiveness brings freedom, even in the midst of pain.
We must also ask: Has every effort been made to seek godly counsel, repentance, and reconciliation? Have you both humbled yourselves before the Lord, laying down pride, anger, and bitterness? **James 4:10 (WEB)** tells us, *"Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he will exalt you."* If sin has entered this marriage—whether through unforgiveness, adultery, abandonment, or any other transgression—it must be confessed and repented of. **1 John 1:9 (WEB)** assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."*
If, however, this divorce is proceeding due to unrepentant sin, abuse, or abandonment by an unbelieving spouse, we acknowledge that Scripture does address such cases. **1 Corinthians 7:15 (WEB)** states, *"Yet if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace."* Even so, we must approach this with broken hearts, seeking the Lord’s wisdom and grace every step of the way. Divorce should never be entered into lightly, but if it is unavoidable, we pray for God’s mercy, protection, and guidance through the process.
We also urge you to examine your own heart. Are you seeking the Lord’s will above your own desires? Are you trusting Him to be your peace, your provider, and your healer? **Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* This is not a time to rely on human wisdom or emotions but to surrender fully to the Lord’s leading.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this marriage and these two souls who are struggling. Lord, You are the God of restoration, the One who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. We ask You to move mightily in this situation. Softens hearts, Lord—break down walls of pride, bitterness, and unforgiveness. If there is sin that needs to be confessed, bring it to light and grant the strength for true repentance. If this marriage can be restored, we pray for a miracle of reconciliation, that You would knit these two back together in love, unity, and commitment to You.
Father, if this divorce is proceeding despite all efforts, we ask for Your grace to cover every detail. Protect hearts from further harm, provide wisdom for legal and emotional decisions, and surround both individuals with godly counsel and support. Let no bitterness take root, but instead, let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Remind them that even in this valley, You are with them, and You have a plan for their lives.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of division, confusion, and despair that seeks to destroy this marriage. We bind the enemy’s work and declare that Your will be done. If it is Your desire for this marriage to be restored, we pray for a supernatural intervention—bring conviction, humility, and a willingness to forgive and rebuild. If it is not, we pray for healing, redemption, and a future that honors You.
We also pray for wisdom in every decision. Let neither party act out of anger, fear, or retaliation, but let them seek Your face above all else. Provide for their needs, Lord—emotionally, spiritually, and financially. Raise up godly friends, pastors, or counselors to walk alongside them in this difficult season.
Father, we thank You that You are near to the brokenhearted. We thank You that Your love never fails, even when human love does. We ask for Your comfort to fill every empty place, for Your hope to replace despair, and for Your joy to be their strength. Let this trial draw them closer to You, not further away.
In the name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Healer, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily through prayer, Scripture, and godly counsel. Do not walk this path alone—surround yourself with believers who will speak truth, offer support, and pray with you. If you have not already, we urge you to seek pastoral or biblical counseling to navigate this season with wisdom and discernment. The road ahead may be difficult, but the Lord is with you. **Isaiah 41:10 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."*
Cling to Him, trust in His promises, and allow Him to work in ways only He can. We are standing with you in prayer.