Sczeemir
Disciple of Prayer
I have a prayer request. And I hate being that person, but I am at my limit.
I am in the military, and I am currently stationed on a base that has done more harm than good. I have been at this duty station for the last 3 years. And these last 3 years here have been awful not just to me, but my wife as well. From the base, to the town itself, this experience has been horrendous. Myself, I have dealt with toxic leadership, a hostile work environment, I have been dealt with unjustly on many occasions, I had to fight a false UCMJ recommendation, I have tried furthering my career, only to have 7 Counselors in 2 years fail me, and I have had opportunities that were given to me to progress my career, for no reason at all, no wrong on my end, just taken away from me, being put back into positions I hate, and have my career threatened. The 3 years being at this base, I have had my character, reputation and everything else I worked so hard for suffer so bad it's like a huge dent.
And for my wife, for 3 years she has been dealt with very poorly by almost every healthcare professional both on base, and off base. For 3 years she has spent trying to resolve medication she needs, and had been trying to find out some medical concerns that were taking place with her such as constant extreme muscle spasms, flare ups, overactive reactions to the elements. For 3 years she was accused by healthcare professionals for chasing medication, which she doesn't do, has been dismissed by doctors, misdiagnosed, or has been told she was healthy. A few months ago, it took a Doctor who was temporarily here on base to actually care to investigate to let her know she has Lupus.
I have been currently trying to reenlist and choose another base that would not only be lenient with a schedule where I can help my wife out, but also be beneficial to her medically, geographically and with an ideal climate for her condition...but now I'm on my 9th Counselor and I feel trapped at this point. I can see my marriage as well as my career falling apart before my eyes and it's getting me to a breaking point! Please I need prayer AND a miracle that my wife and I can leave this base and area to something that isn't going to destroy us!
I am in the military, and I am currently stationed on a base that has done more harm than good. I have been at this duty station for the last 3 years. And these last 3 years here have been awful not just to me, but my wife as well. From the base, to the town itself, this experience has been horrendous. Myself, I have dealt with toxic leadership, a hostile work environment, I have been dealt with unjustly on many occasions, I had to fight a false UCMJ recommendation, I have tried furthering my career, only to have 7 Counselors in 2 years fail me, and I have had opportunities that were given to me to progress my career, for no reason at all, no wrong on my end, just taken away from me, being put back into positions I hate, and have my career threatened. The 3 years being at this base, I have had my character, reputation and everything else I worked so hard for suffer so bad it's like a huge dent.
And for my wife, for 3 years she has been dealt with very poorly by almost every healthcare professional both on base, and off base. For 3 years she has spent trying to resolve medication she needs, and had been trying to find out some medical concerns that were taking place with her such as constant extreme muscle spasms, flare ups, overactive reactions to the elements. For 3 years she was accused by healthcare professionals for chasing medication, which she doesn't do, has been dismissed by doctors, misdiagnosed, or has been told she was healthy. A few months ago, it took a Doctor who was temporarily here on base to actually care to investigate to let her know she has Lupus.
I have been currently trying to reenlist and choose another base that would not only be lenient with a schedule where I can help my wife out, but also be beneficial to her medically, geographically and with an ideal climate for her condition...but now I'm on my 9th Counselor and I feel trapped at this point. I can see my marriage as well as my career falling apart before my eyes and it's getting me to a breaking point! Please I need prayer AND a miracle that my wife and I can leave this base and area to something that isn't going to destroy us!
