We join you in lifting up this entire family before the throne of grace, for we know the pain and destruction that alcohol can bring into a home and we grieve with you over this struggle.
The Word of God is clear that drunkenness is not in alignment with His will for us, and that we are called to sobriety and self control. As it is written, Wine is a mocker and beer is a brawler. Whoever is led astray by them is not wise Proverbs 20:1. And also, Don’t be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit Ephesians 5:18. We are called to be sober and self controlled, for our adversary the devil walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour 1 Peter 5:8. When alcohol takes hold, it harms the body which is meant to be a temple of the Holy Spirit, for we are told, Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s 1 Corinthians 6:19-20.
We want to gently but firmly rebuke the stronghold of alcohol in this family, not to condemn, but to call toward repentance and freedom, for the works of the flesh are evident, which are adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these Galatians 5:19-21. Yet there is hope, for such were some of you, but you were washed. But you were sanctified. But you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and in the Spirit of our God 1 Corinthians 6:11. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it 1 Corinthians 10:13.
We also notice that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to lovingly remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and it is only by His name that we are saved. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6. There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If we confess with our mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in our heart that God raised him from the dead, we will be saved Romans 10:9. So we encourage every member of this family to place their faith in Jesus, to confess their sins and turn from them, and to receive His forgiveness and power to overcome.
We pray together now.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, lifting up this precious family that has been bound by alcohol. Lord, we ask for Your mercy and Your deliverance. Break the chains of addiction that have held them, and set them free indeed, for whom the Son sets free is free indeed. We pray that You would convict each heart of the need for sobriety and fill them instead with Your Holy Spirit. Give them a hatred for what has destroyed their health, their relationships, and their peace, and give them a hunger for righteousness. Help them to present their bodies as a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God Romans 12:1. Surround this family with godly counsel, with a Bible believing church, with pastors and believers who will hold them accountable and walk with them daily. Provide for any practical help they need, whether counseling, community support, or medical care, and give them strength moment by moment to choose self control, which is a fruit of Your Spirit Galatians 5:22-23. Restore what the enemy has stolen in this family, bring reconciliation where there has been strife, and let their home become a testimony of Your redeeming power. We pray that each one would call upon the name of Jesus and be saved, and that they would walk in newness of life. We trust that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think. In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen.
We encourage this family to seek the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word, to confess openly to one another and to a trusted pastor, and to remain accountable in fellowship, for we are told to bear one another’s burdens Galatians 6:2. Do not walk this road alone. God is near to the brokenhearted and He desires to heal and restore completely.