We are deeply grieved to hear of the violence and suffering you are enduring, and we want you to know that God sees your pain and hears your cry. The abuse you describe is not only deeply sinful but also a grave violation of God’s design for relationships. Scripture is clear that love is patient and kind, not violent or destructive. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-5, we read, *"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil."* What you are experiencing is the opposite of love—it is evil, and it must not be tolerated or excused.
The Bible also commands us to flee from sin and danger, not to remain in harm’s way. In 1 Corinthians 6:18, we are told, *"Flee sexual immorality!"* While this verse addresses a different sin, the principle applies: when faced with sinful and destructive behavior, we are to remove ourselves from it. Abuse—whether physical, emotional, or spiritual—is not something you are called to endure. God does not require you to stay in a situation where your life or well-being is at risk. In fact, Proverbs 22:3 warns, *"A prudent man sees danger and hides; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it."*
We must also address the nature of the relationship you described. The language you used suggests this is not a biblical marriage between a man and a woman, as God intended. If this is a same-sex relationship, we must lovingly but firmly declare that such relationships are contrary to God’s Word. In 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Scripture states, *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom."* This is not said to condemn you but to call you to repentance and freedom in Christ. God’s desire is for you to walk in holiness and safety, and that begins with turning away from sin and seeking His will for your life.
If this is a heterosexual relationship outside of marriage, we must also address that fornication is sin. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 says, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."* Living together outside of marriage is not God’s design, and it often leads to further sin and harm, as you are experiencing. We urge you to seek God’s forgiveness and to pursue a life that honors Him, including fleeing from this abusive and sinful situation.
Most importantly, we notice that your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name by which we can approach God or be saved. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* Jesus is the only way to the Father, and it is only through His name that we can find true help, healing, and deliverance. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we plead with you to do so now. Romans 10:9 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* Without Christ, there is no hope, no true peace, and no eternal salvation. But in Him, there is freedom, healing, and everlasting life.
Now, let us pray for you with urgency and faith in Jesus’ name:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is suffering at the hands of another. Lord, You are a God of justice, mercy, and love, and You do not delight in the affliction of Your children. We ask that You intervene immediately in this situation. Protect this person from further harm, Lord. Place a hedge of protection around them and give them the strength and wisdom to flee from this abusive and sinful environment. Open their eyes to see the danger they are in and the need to remove themselves from it without delay.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of violence, hatred, and deception that is at work in this situation. We bind the enemy’s power in Jesus’ name and command that this abuser be stopped. Soften their heart to conviction, Lord, and bring them to repentance. But even more, we ask that You provide a way of escape for the one crying out to You. Lead them to a safe place, Father, and surround them with godly people who can offer support, protection, and biblical counsel.
Lord, we also pray for this person’s heart. If they are in a relationship that dishonors You, convict them deeply of their need to repent and turn away from sin. Show them Your design for marriage and relationships—one man and one woman, committed to You and to each other in covenant before You. If they have been living in fornication or any other sin, grant them the grace to repent and walk in purity. Remind them that Your ways are for their good, and Your commands are not burdensome but life-giving.
Father, we ask that You draw this person to Yourself in a powerful way. If they do not know Jesus as their Savior, we pray that today would be the day of salvation for them. Open their heart to receive Your Son, Lord, and fill them with Your Holy Spirit. Let them know the peace, love, and freedom that comes from walking with You.
Provide for their every need, Lord—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Heal their wounds, both seen and unseen. Restore their hope and their faith in You. Lead them to a church or ministry where they can find biblical teaching, discipleship, and a community of believers who will walk with them in this season.
We declare Your promises over them, Lord. You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). You will never leave them nor forsake them (Deuteronomy 31:6). You are the God who sees their tears and hears their cries, and You will act on their behalf.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we urge you to take immediate action to remove yourself from this dangerous situation. Reach out to trusted believers, a pastor, or a biblical counselor who can help you find safety. If you are in immediate danger, please contact local authorities or a domestic violence hotline for assistance. Do not wait—your life and well-being are precious to God, and He wants you to be safe.
If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we implore you to do so today. Confess your sins to Him, ask for His forgiveness, and invite Him to be your Lord and Savior. There is no greater step you can take than to place your trust in Him. He alone can heal you, save you, and lead you into a life of peace and purpose.
We are praying for you and standing with you in this. May God grant you wisdom, courage, and swift deliverance. Stay close to Him, and He will never fail you.