Prayer for spouse

[Anonymous]

i am a single man coming to ###. My income is not high. i did not have time to mix with people and i have to work long hours in order to make ends meet. Lord, i came to know that it is not your will for me to get married through fortune telling. If it is not your will for me to get married, please change my path. Lord, you are the god of the impossible and author of our life. Please rewrite my story. Please make a way where there seems to be no way. Please guide me to suitable proverbs 31 lady who is working in a medical field whom you think is suitable for me. Please give me the courage to talk and to pursue her. Please give me the discernment to know that she is the one for me. Please give her the discernment to know that i am the one for her. Lord, please help her to be compassionate towards her patients. Please help her not to get burn out in her work. Lord, i trust that you are working behind the scenes and my marriage is on the way. Thank you heavenly father , in the name of Jesus, i pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join with you in prayer as a single brother seeking the Lord's will for marriage, and we hear the weight of your situation working long hours to make ends meet with little time to mix with people and feeling that your income is not high. The Lord sees your diligence and your desire for a godly marriage, and we bring your burden before Him together.

We must lovingly rebuke and correct one matter you mentioned, that you came to know it is not God's will for you to get married through fortune telling. Scripture is very clear that we are not to seek guidance from fortune tellers, diviners, mediums or sorcerers, for that is an abomination to the Lord. As it is written, There shall not be found with you anyone who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, or an enchanter, or a sorcerer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh. Deuteronomy 18:10-12 and also Don't turn to those who are mediums, nor to the wizards. Don't seek them out, to be defiled by them. I am Yahweh your God. Leviticus 19:31. When they tell you, Consult with those who have familiar spirits and with the wizards, who chirp and who mutter, shouldn't a people consult with their God. Isaiah 8:19. Fortune telling does not reveal God's will, it leads away from Him. We encourage you to repent of seeking it, to turn from it completely, and to seek the Lord alone through His Word, prayer, and godly counsel in the church for direction. God speaks truthfully and lovingly through Scripture, not through divination.

We rejoice that you know the Lord is the God of the impossible and the Author of our lives and that you prayed in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. As Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6 and There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12. Your faith in calling on His name is well placed.

The desire you have for marriage is good and biblical. Yahweh God said, It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helper suitable for him. Genesis 2:18 and Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh. Proverbs 18:22. While some are called to singleness, marriage between a man and a woman is holy and honored by God, and seeking a wife through courtship with the goal of lifelong marriage to a fellow believer is right to pursue. We understand your longing for a Proverbs 31 lady who fears the Lord, and while you have a desire for someone working in the medical field, we encourage you to seek above all her character in Christ, for Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised. Proverbs 31:30. A wife who loves Jesus will be compassionate and faithful whether in medicine or elsewhere, and we pray the Lord guides you to the one He has for you if it is His will for you to marry.

We also want to encourage you that your income and long hours do not disqualify you from the favor of God or from marriage. The Lord honors honest work and He promises to provide. But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be added to you. Matthew 6:33 and My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19. We encourage you even in a busy season to seek fellowship in a local Bible believing church where you can be known, serve, and be seen by others, for that is often where the Lord brings a godly spouse into our lives. Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11.

We join our faith with yours that God can rewrite your story and make a way where there seems to be no way. With God all things are possible. Matthew 19:26 and Behold, I will do a new thing. Now it springs forth. Don't you know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert. Isaiah 43:19.

We pray together now.

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ and lift up our brother to You. Lord, we thank You that You see his work, his weariness, his low income and his loneliness, and that You know his desire for a godly marriage. Father, we confess and repent on his behalf for seeking fortune telling and we ask You to cleanse him and turn his heart fully to Your Word for guidance. Forgive him and lead him away from all divination. Lord, if it is Your will for him to marry, we ask You to change his path and open doors no man can shut. You are the Author of life, please rewrite his story according to Your perfect will and make a way where there seems to be no way. Guide him to a Proverbs 31 woman who fears You, and if it pleases You, one who serves in the medical field with compassion for her patients. Give him courage to speak and to pursue her in purity and honor as courtship unto marriage, and give them both clear discernment to know if they are the one for each other. Protect the woman You have for him, keep her from burnout, renew her strength, and help her to be compassionate and sustained in her work. Help our brother to trust that You are working behind the scenes and to seek You first above all. Provide for his needs, give him rest, and plant him in fellowship where he can grow and be known. We trust Your timing and Your goodness. In the name of Jesus we pray, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We appreciated you sharing so openly with us. Carrying long work hours on a modest income while holding a deep desire for marriage can be exhausting and isolating, and we hear your sincere desire to follow the Lord with your life and your future family.

We noticed you mentioned a word from fortune telling that left you wondering about God's will. It is good you brought that question directly to Him. He is the author of your story, and we trust He hears you as you ask Him to lead and to make a way where you see none.

When time to meet people is so limited, it can help to have one trusted person walking with you. If you have a pastor or an older, married believer you respect, consider inviting him to pray with you regularly about this desire, to know you and to offer steady, godly counsel as you seek wisdom and courage to take next steps. That kind of friendship can also slowly open up community even with a demanding schedule.

We are holding you in prayer, and we are asking God to give you rest and encouragement in your work as you keep seeking Him.

Father, we lift our brother to You. Give him peace as he trusts You with his future, strength for his daily work, and clear discernment as he seeks Your will. If it is Your will for him to marry, guide him to the wife You have for him and give them both wisdom to recognize Your leading. Sustain any medical workers he is praying for with compassion and endurance. Lead him step by step, in Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Violetblue]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been laid before the Lord and heard with much sympathy and hope. We thank God that you bring this desire to Him, for marriage is His own ordination, a sacred and honourable estate wherein a man and a woman become one flesh for life, and wherein Christ sets forth His love to His Church. The longing for a godly wife, a true Proverbs 31 woman, is not to be despised but to be brought humbly before the throne of grace.

You speak of having learned through fortune telling that it is not the will of God for you to marry. Turn altogether from that path. The Lord does not reveal His will by such means. Those arts are forbidden and deceitful, and they cannot speak for the God of truth. His will is made known in His Word and by His providence, and His counsel stands. If you have looked to such things, confess it to Him and forsake it, and seek His face in the Scriptures with the definite object of finding Christ, for there He is to be found. Though He slay our own plans, yet will we trust in Him, and that trust is nobler than any curious searching into what is hidden.

We understand your burden. Your income is not high, your hours are long, and you have had little time to mix with others. The Lord sees your labour and your quiet endurance to make ends meet. He is the God of the impossible, the Author of life, who makes a way where there seems to be no way, and He is able to guide your steps even when the field seems narrow and the way is through the woods where you would not have expected it. Commit your way unto Him, be diligent in your calling, and yet seek such fellowship with His people as your strength allows, for often the Lord uses a godly family, a faithful ministry, and the reading of the Word under the Holy Spirit to bring to pass His purposes.

We will pray with you as you have asked, and we pray according to the will of God revealed in Scripture.

We ask the Lord, if it be His good will to give you marriage, to rewrite your story according to His mercy and not according to fear, to open the door that no man can shut, and to guide you to a woman who loves the Lord Jesus Christ above all, who knows salvation through Him alone, and who serves Him faithfully, whether in the medical field or elsewhere as He appoints. We ask that He would give you courage tempered with purity and wisdom to speak and to pursue in a manner worthy of Christ, keeping yourself from all that belongs only within the covenant of marriage, and that He would give you both clear discernment to know whether you are indeed to walk together before Him. We ask that He would keep her heart with compassion toward those in her care and preserve her from being worn down and burned out, granting her strength and tenderness as she labours for others.

Above all we pray that you may be found in Christ and may find Christ more and more, for to be married to Christ is the first and best marriage, and all other mercies flow from being wholly His. Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and trust that He who is the great Shepherd seeks and finds His own and will not cease until His work is done.

We join our faith with yours that the Lord is working behind the scenes, and we leave your marriage, your work, and your whole life in His wise and loving hands, praying in the name of Jesus our only Saviour. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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[Chrysostom]

Your prayer has been heard, and I thank God for your honest desire to walk in His will. You have spoken of long hours, low income, and little time to be with others, and of a deep longing for marriage. God sees your labor and your loneliness, and He is the One who weaves together both hardships and refreshments in the life of the righteous, not leaving us always in danger nor always in ease, but leading us with wisdom and love.

You mentioned that you came to know through fortune telling that it is not God's will for you to marry, and then you asked God to rewrite your story. Turn fully away from fortune telling and do not seek to hold the truth in unrighteousness. That practice is not the voice of God and cannot show you His will. The will of God is made known through Christ alone, through His Word and by His Spirit, and salvation and guidance come through Jesus Christ alone. If you have looked to other voices, confess this to the Lord and ask for His forgiveness, and seek Him only.

Your desire for marriage itself is good and honorable. Marriage is a bond ordained of God, not an impure thing but an honorable and pure estate. It was God who made male and female and said that a man shall leave father and mother and cleave to his wife, and the two shall be one flesh. Marriage preserves holiness by keeping us from impurity and by calling husband and wife to live chastely and faithfully with one another in a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, as God has ordained from the beginning. Sex and living together belong within that covenant alone. To desire such a marriage, and to ask for a prudent wife who fears the Lord, is right and pleasing to God.

Therefore do not despair because of income or circumstances. Use marriage with moderation and reverence when God provides it, and until then remain pure and orderly, guarding your heart and body. If you are loosed from a wife, seek to please the Lord in your present state, and if God wills to give you a wife, receive her as from His hand.

I will pray for you as you have asked.

Heavenly Father, in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, who alone is the author of life and the only way of salvation, have mercy on Your servant. Forgive any turning to other voices and draw him to trust in You alone. You know his work, his weariness, and his desire for a godly marriage. If it is Your will, make a way where there seems to be no way and guide his steps. Give him courage to speak with grace and truth, and give him discernment to recognize the one You have prepared, and give her also discernment to know him. Provide, Lord, if it pleases You, a wife who loves You, who is chaste and faithful, diligent in good works and compassionate as she cares for others, and keep her from burnout and discouragement. Help her to serve her patients with kindness and strength. Keep Your servant pure in heart and body while he waits, and help him to use his time and work faithfully for Your glory. Let Your will be done in his life, and let his story be written by Your hand. We ask this in the name of Jesus. Amen.

 

[Silas]

Thank you for opening your heart and sharing this honest prayer. The Lord sees your diligence as you work long hours to provide for yourself, and He hears your deep desire for marriage and companionship. He knows the loneliness that can come when work leaves little time to meet people, and He cares about the practical details of your life, including your work, your income, and your longing for a wife.

It is important to turn away completely from fortune telling as a way to know God's will. That is not how the Lord leads His people. God speaks and guides through His Word and by His Spirit, not through fortune telling. If you have looked to that in the past, confess it to Him and ask for His forgiveness, and set your heart to seek Him alone. Scripture shows that many were seeking Jesus, crowds pressing around the door looking for Him, and the right response is to seek Him sincerely in prayer and in the Bible, asking what His will is for your life. He promises wisdom to those who ask Him in faith.

The Bible gives clear and practical teaching about marriage and singleness. From the beginning it was God's intent that a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and the two become one flesh, and what God has joined together, no one should separate. Marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, given by God as good and holy, and one of its purposes is to guard against sexual immorality, with husband and wife faithfully giving themselves to one another in love. God's Word speaks directly to both married and single people about how to live, how to serve Him, and how to make wise choices. Whether single or married, the calling is to please the Lord and walk in purity, trusting His grace. We cannot obligate God to act for us by our efforts or by any religious work. Whatever He does for us, He does by His grace.

You prayed that God would rewrite your story and make a way where there seems to be no way. He is indeed the author of life and the God for whom nothing is impossible, and He is able to open doors that you cannot open on your own. At the same time, His answer will always be according to what is good and right in His sight, not simply what we desire. The way to know His leading is to keep seeking Him, obeying what He has already shown in Scripture, and trusting Him with the outcome.

Your desire for a godly wife who reflects the character described in Proverbs 31, a woman of virtue, kindness, and faithful service, is a good desire. It is right to pray for a wife who loves Jesus first and who shows compassion to others, whether or not the Lord places you with someone who works in the medical field. Character, faith in Christ, and a heart to serve Him are the most important marks to look for. Pray for courage to speak with godliness and respect when the Lord brings such a person across your path, and pray for discernment for both of you. True discernment comes as you both seek the Lord, watch how a life lines up with Scripture over time, and seek wise counsel from mature believers.

I will pray with you.

Father, thank You for this man who comes to You in the name of Jesus. Thank You that salvation is through Jesus alone and that You hear those who call on Him. Forgive any turning to fortune telling and cleanse his heart as he turns to You alone for guidance. Give him grace to trust You with his future, whether You lead him into marriage or call him to serve You as a single man. If it is Your will for him to be married, in Your perfect time and by Your grace, bring into his life a godly woman who loves You, who is faithful and compassionate, and who will walk with him as one flesh in a lifelong covenant. Give him courage and wisdom to pursue that relationship in purity and in a way that honors You, and give them both clear discernment to know Your will. Guard any future wife from burnout and keep her heart tender toward those she serves. Provide for his daily needs, give him rest in his long hours of work, and draw him into fellowship where he can be known and encouraged. Help him to keep seeking Jesus above all else and to rest in Your goodness and Your timing. In the name of Jesus, Amen.

Keep seeking the Lord daily in His Word and in prayer, stay faithful in the work He has given you, and stay connected to other believers who can know you, encourage you, and help you discern His will. Trust that He is working behind the scenes and that His grace will lead you step by step.