Prayer for my situationship..

[Anonymous]

Dear Lord,

I do not feel emotionally secure with ###. He made it clear that we are only ever going to be friends and nothing more. I remember praying for this exact thing 2 years ago when I met ###. Only to find out he later on got married and found the love of his life.

As much as I want to pray that he and I end up together, I cannot help but wonder if it's even in accordance to your will. I am so tired of always having to wait for a guy to choose me. If he wanted to, he would. I do not wanna force myself anymore. I do not wanna go on another cycle of rejection and unrequited love.

I am so tired of feeling the pain of not being chosen. I know you want what is best for me, and I truly believe I deserve better. I am afraid to go on another fight mode and watch him date another woman and see how in love they will be. I am so insecure. I do not wanna feel jealous anymore. I do not wanna stalk another woman on social media and compare myself to her.

I do not wanna go through this vicious cycle again. I just lost my job and I am still in the process of applying for a new one. I am standing here today because my heart is filled with anxiety. I really do not wanna get hurt again because it's gonna derail me even further from my goals. I know this because I am a very emotional person.

I am praying that you give me clarity and peace of mind with ###. I don’t want to expect anymore or make up stories in my head thinking that all those intimate moments meant something to him. If he is not for me, please let it be a graceful exit. Please cut the cord already before I get hurt some more.

I cannot help but wonder why I am always in the same situation over and over again. I am praying that if this doesn’t work out for me, then this will be the last that I experience something like this again. I really want to meet someone who I can feel at home with.

I know I will never truly get what I prayed for but I am praying for someone who I can finally spend the rest of my life with. I want to get married and have a happy family. You know God what is best for me and what I need.

I just feel like it's the end of the road with ### already. The connection felt genuine and real but he doesn’t want a relationship with me. I cannot force him into one because I really am hoping for a man who will stay.

Unfortunately I am with someone who doesn’t want a future with me. I don’t know what he is thinking or what he feels inside but I am just trusting in your provision. If he is not meant to be my husband, please take him away before it's too late. I don’t want to fall in love because I know I already have feelings for him. Please Lord, I wanna meet my husband already.

This I ask in Jesus’ mighty name.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and longing in your heart, and we stand with you before the Lord, lifting up every word of your prayer. First, we must address the situation with clarity and truth rooted in Scripture. You have referred to this as a "situationship," and we must rebuke this term and the reality it represents. God’s design for relationships is not ambiguity or emotional limbo—it is clarity, commitment, and covenant. The Bible makes it clear that marriage is the only God-honoring context for romantic love and intimacy. "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). This man has made it clear that he does not intend to pursue you as a husband, and yet you remain entangled in a connection that is neither friendship nor marriage. This is not God’s best for you, and we must call it what it is: a distraction from His purpose and a source of unnecessary pain.

You have expressed exhaustion from waiting for someone to choose you, and we want to affirm that you are not called to wait in vain. The Lord has not forgotten you, nor has He overlooked your desire for a godly spouse. "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4 WEB). But we must also examine why you keep finding yourself in these cycles. Scripture warns us, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). If this man is not a believer who is pursuing you with honor and the intention of marriage, then he is not the one God has for you. You deserve a man who will lead you spiritually, love you sacrificially, and commit to you fully—not someone who keeps you in a state of emotional uncertainty.

We must also address the sin of jealousy and comparison, which you have rightly identified as harmful. "For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed" (James 3:16 WEB). These emotions will only steal your peace and distort your view of God’s goodness. Instead, we must fix our eyes on Christ, who is our ultimate satisfaction. "The Lord is my shepherd: I shall lack nothing" (Psalm 23:1 WEB). Your worth is not found in being chosen by a man, but in being chosen by God. He has already declared you His beloved daughter, and no human relationship can ever compare to that truth.

We also want to speak to the fear and anxiety you are carrying. Losing your job and facing uncertainty in your career is difficult, but we serve a God who provides. "Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’, ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well" (Matthew 6:31-33 WEB). Your identity is not in your job, your relationship status, or the approval of others—it is in Christ alone. When we seek Him first, everything else falls into place according to His perfect timing.

Now, we must pray boldly and specifically for your deliverance from this unhealthy attachment. Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved and find true freedom. Lord, we lift up this precious sister to You, who is hurting and weary from the cycle of unmet longing. We ask that You would break every emotional tie that is not of You. Cut the cord, Lord, as she has asked, and set her free from this man who is not her husband. Give her the strength to walk away and the wisdom to see this situation for what it truly is—a distraction from Your best for her life.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of rejection and insecurity that has taken root in her heart. We declare that she is chosen by You, deeply loved, and fully accepted in Christ. Replace her anxiety with Your perfect peace, which surpasses all understanding. Guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and help her to fix her eyes on You alone. We pray that You would heal every wound of past rejection and unrequited love. Restore her hope and renew her faith in Your perfect plan for her life.

Lord, we ask that You would bring godly, marriage-minded men into her life who will pursue her with honor and integrity. Prepare her heart to recognize the man You have for her, and give her the discernment to flee from anything that does not align with Your will. We declare that she will no longer settle for less than Your best. Father, we ask that You would open doors of opportunity in her career and provide for every need according to Your riches in glory.

We also pray for this man, Lord. If he is not the one You have for her, we ask that You would remove him from her life completely. Soften his heart to the gospel if he does not know You, and lead him to repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. If he is already married, we pray that You would restore his marriage and help him to honor his vows. Let there be no confusion or emotional entanglement between them—only clarity and closure.

Father, we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. We trust that You are working all things together for her good, even when she cannot see it. Give her the grace to surrender this desire to You and to trust that Your timing is perfect. We declare that she will not be derailed from her goals or her purpose. Instead, she will walk in the fullness of Your calling, free from the chains of emotional bondage.

Lord, we ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus, the name that brings salvation, healing, and deliverance. We thank You for Your faithfulness and for the victory that is already hers in Christ. Amen.

Now, dear sister, we want to encourage you with the truth of God’s Word. You are not forgotten. You are not overlooked. You are a daughter of the King, and He has a plan for your life that is far greater than anything you could imagine. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you," says Yahweh, "thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). The pain you are feeling right now is real, but it is not the end of your story. God is using this season to refine you, to draw you closer to Him, and to prepare you for the husband He has for you.

We urge you to take practical steps to guard your heart. Limit or cut off contact with this man if possible. Fill your mind with Scripture and surround yourself with godly community who can speak truth into your life. Seek counseling if needed to work through the patterns that have kept you in these cycles. And most importantly, fall in love with Jesus. He is the only One who will never leave you, never reject you, and never fail you. When you find your satisfaction in Him, every other relationship will fall into its proper place.

You have asked for a husband, and we believe that God will answer that prayer in His perfect timing. But until then, do not waste this season of singleness. Use it to grow in your faith, to serve the Lord, and to prepare yourself for the marriage He has for you. "But those who wait for Yahweh will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint" (Isaiah 40:31 WEB). Wait on the Lord, and He will renew your strength. He will lead you to the man who will cherish you, honor you, and build a godly marriage with you.

Lastly, we want to remind you that your prayers are not in vain. You prayed for this man two years ago, and God answered that prayer in a way that protected you from a relationship that was not His will. Trust that He is answering your prayers now, even if the answer is not what you expected. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep believing that He has a husband for you who will love you as Christ loves the church. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh" (Proverbs 18:22 WEB). That husband is out there, and God will bring him to you at the perfect time. Until then, rest in the Lord and wait patiently for Him. He will not disappoint you.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend,

We hear your heart's deep longing and we stand with you, lifting up your prayer to the Lord. We want to encourage you with these words:

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6 NKJV)

We know it's hard to understand why you're in this situation, but we believe that God is in control and He has a purpose for everything. We pray that you would trust Him in this, even when it's difficult.

We also want to remind you that God sees you and He knows your heart's desire. He has not forgotten you, and He will answer your prayers in His perfect timing. Keep seeking Him and trusting Him, even when the answer is not what you expect.

We pray that you would find peace and comfort in Jesus, who loves you and will never leave you. We pray that you would be able to let go of this situation and trust that God has something better for you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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