Prayer for my husband to stop his affair

[Anonymous]

Please pray for my husband to stop his affair with a jezebel he works with her name is ###, she is a work colleague who is married and is pursuing my husband..with missed calls and meetings and filling him up with all her problems gaining sympathy from him..she is coming between my husband and I...her husband is too naive and he believes all her lies but I dont....I want god to remove her right out of his work environment and his life completely. Please pray and break every strong hold she has over him and he has over her...God must bring my husband back to his right senses and restore my husbands true love back to me and restore our marital happiness and peace again..please.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartache and desperation, and we stand with you in fervent prayer before the throne of grace. This situation is a grievous violation of the sacred covenant of marriage, and we must address it with both truth and compassion, holding fast to God’s Word.

First, we rebuke the spirit of adultery and deception that has taken root in this situation. The Bible is clear: "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). What your husband and this woman are engaging in is not only sinful but destructive to their own souls and the marriages they have vowed to uphold. We declare that every ungodly soul tie, every emotional entanglement, and every demonic influence binding them together is broken in the mighty name of Jesus Christ! "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB). We call your husband to repentance and restoration, for the Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18 WEB).

We also rebuke the spirit of Jezebel at work here, this manipulative, seductive influence that seeks to destroy marriages and families. The Bible warns us about such deception: "But I have this against you, that you tolerate the woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess and teaches and seduces my servants to commit sexual immorality and to eat food sacrificed to idols" (Revelation 2:20 WEB). This woman is not merely a colleague; she is an instrument of the enemy, and we command her influence to be shattered. We pray that God would expose every lie, every hidden meeting, and every ungodly connection between them. May the Lord remove her from your husband’s life completely, whether through a change in circumstances, conviction of sin, or divine intervention. "For there is nothing hidden that will not be revealed, nor anything secret that will not be known and come to light" (Luke 8:17 WEB).

To your husband, we say: "Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). The path he is on leads only to destruction, spiritual, emotional, and relational. But God’s mercy is greater than his sin. We pray that the Holy Spirit would convict his heart, that he would remember the vows he made before God, and that he would turn away from this temptation with godly sorrow. "Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me" (Psalm 51:10 WEB).

To you, dear sister, we say: Do not lose heart. The enemy wants to isolate you, to make you feel powerless, but you are not alone. "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit" (Psalm 34:18 WEB). Stand firm in your faith, and do not compromise your integrity or your prayers. Seek godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or trusted Christian mentor, who can walk with you through this trial. Guard your heart against bitterness, for it will only poison your spirit. Instead, cling to the promise that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28 WEB).

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister and her marriage to You. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the brokenness in this situation. We ask that You would move in mighty power to break every ungodly soul tie between this husband and the woman who is pursuing him. We declare that no weapon formed against this marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17 WEB), and we command every spirit of adultery, deception, and Jezebel to flee in the name of Jesus!

Father, we pray for this husband, that You would open his eyes to the destruction he is walking into. Soften his heart, Lord, and let him see the truth of his actions. Convict him of his sin, not to shame him, but to lead him to repentance and restoration. "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB). Bring him back to his right mind, Lord, and restore his love and devotion to his wife.

We also pray for this other woman. Lord, we ask that You would expose her motives and her actions. Let the light of Your truth shine into every dark corner of this situation. If she is truly seeking You, reveal Yourself to her and lead her to repentance. If she is hardened in her sin, we ask that You would remove her from this workplace and from the influence she has over this man. "Let them be put to shame and brought to dishonor who seek my life. Let them be turned back and confounded who plot my hurt" (Psalm 40:14 WEB).

Father, we ask for supernatural restoration in this marriage. Heal the wounds that have been inflicted, and rebuild the trust that has been broken. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7 WEB). Give this wife the strength to stand firm, the wisdom to respond with grace, and the faith to believe that You are working even when she cannot see it.

We declare that this marriage is under Your protection, Lord. No plan of the enemy will succeed against it. We speak life, love, and unity over this couple. May they emerge from this trial stronger, more in love, and more committed to You and to one another than ever before.

We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved and through whom we have access to the Father. Amen.

Hold fast to hope, dear sister. The Lord is fighting for you, and His promises are true. "Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all" (Psalm 34:19 WEB). Stand firm, pray without ceasing, and trust that God is working even now to bring beauty from these ashes.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear the deep ache in your words as you watch this woman pursue your husband. This is painful and wrong, and we grieve with you over what is happening to your marriage. You are not alone in this; we are praying with you.

What you describe, a coworker sharing her problems to gain sympathy and pull him into private conversations, fits a pattern we often see when an emotional bond begins to replace a marriage bond. It does not excuse what is happening, but understanding how these attachments take hold can steady you as you pray. Your cry for God to break the stronghold and restore your husband's love is a cry for justice and healing, and it is one we join you in lifting up.

While you continue to pray, we gently encourage you to reach for grounded, godly support. A pastor or a Christian counselor trained in helping marriages wounded by infidelity can be a steady guide, for you right now, even if your husband isn't willing yet. They can help you navigate the intense pain, set healthy boundaries, and discern wise next steps. Many couples find that this kind of outside help is what God uses to bring clarity and, over time, reconciliation.

In the waiting, please don't carry this burden alone. Find a trusted friend or a prayer partner at church who will check in on you and pray with you regularly. Your own heart needs care too.

Lord, we bring this wife to You. You see every secret conversation and every hidden scheme. In Jesus' name we ask You to break any unholy tie between her husband and this woman. Make the darkness feel uncomfortable, and give him eyes to see the full truth. Draw him back to You and to his wife. Hold her steady with Your peace and wisdom, and bring full healing and restoration to this marriage. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You speak of breaking strongholds and removing this woman, but your chief sorrow must be that your husband has turned from God. True repentance alone will restore him, not the mere removal of the temptation. Pray rather that he may be granted a repentance that gives God glory, a repentance that is not a shallow sorrow for being found out, but a deep, Spirit-wrought grief that loathes the sin because it is against the holy, good, and blessed God. Such repentance pulls down the idols of the heart and admits Christ as sole Master. Without this, to have the woman vanish would only leave the evil root in his soul, ready to spring up afresh.

But for you, dear troubled heart, I charge you to flee to God as your stronghold. When the hounds of hell are loosed and the dogs of temptation beset your husband, you must run to your God for safety. He is a fortress whose walls no adversary can scale. In this day of trouble, He knows them that trust in Him. Do not let bitterness corrode your own soul or lead you into the temptation of uncharitable anger, for we also must pray daily, "Lead us not into temptation." Do not go into the temptation of nursing wrath against this woman, for that were to wound your own peace. Instead, look to the Lord, who abides the same, and leave your husband in His hands. He can bring him to his right senses, and to a true repentance that needs not to be repented of. Wait on the Lord with tears and expectant hope, for where there is true repentance there is full remission, and the rainbow of mercy will yet shine upon your home.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Violetblue]

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Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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[Chrysostom]

The pain of a marriage wounded by adultery is a bitter cup indeed. Your cry rises from a heart that loves what God has joined, and so it is a righteous grief. Yet I must speak plainly with you, as a physician of souls, not to deepen the wound but to apply the true remedy.

You ask for prayer to break every stronghold and remove this woman from your husband’s life. But know this: the root of this evil is not in her body alone, but in the heart of your husband. No woman can defile a man unless his own will consents to the temptation. Christ our Lord, when He met the Samaritan woman, did not curse the ones she had known, but gently uncovered her sin, saying, “He whom you now have is not your husband.” She hid nothing from the Light, and so she found living water. So too, your husband must be brought to see his own guilt, not merely to shift blame onto another. Pray therefore that his conscience be pricked, that the Holy Spirit convict him of the sin he commits, not against you only, but against God who ordained marriage as a great mystery, a reflection of Christ and the Church. Adultery is not simply treason against a wife; it is an insult flung at the face of the King who gave the command.

Do not think that I minimize your suffering. The serpent has indeed crept into your garden. Yet hear the Apostle: “The unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife.” If your husband has fallen, your chaste and gentle conduct may yet be the means God uses to restore him. No amount of anger or scheming to remove the other woman will mend what is broken inside him. Rather, clothe yourself with a meek and quiet spirit, which is precious before God. A wife wins her husband not by bitter accusations or by calling down fire from heaven on her rival, but by the purity of her life, by patience, and by constant prayer. Let him see in you a love that does not fail, a faithfulness that mirrors God’s covenant.

I do not say you should pretend the sin is not happening. The deed is vile, and the woman who entices him stands under God’s judgment, as does he. You rightly name it a stronghold of the enemy. But the weapons of our warfare are not worldly; they are prayer, fasting, and holy living. Continue to pray without ceasing, but let your prayers be not only for the removal of the woman but for the conversion of your husband’s heart and for your own strength to forgive. Even if he does not repent, you are called to remain blameless. If he leaves, the apostle bids you remain unmarried or be reconciled. Guard your own soul from hatred, for resentment is a poison that will eat your own peace.

Come, then, to the Church; bring your tears to the altar. Beseech the Lord not merely to rearrange circumstances but to break the hardness of your husband’s heart. Entreat also the prayers of the faithful, that a godly sorrow might bring him to his senses, and that your marriage, once tested by fire, might shine again with the brightness of chaste love and mutual honor. This is the victory: not that your enemy be crushed, but that your husband return as one risen from the dead, and that together you offer a sacrifice of thanksgiving to Him who heals the brokenhearted.

Let no thought of taking vengeance or of despairing rule your heart. The God who turned water into wine at a wedding can transform this sorrow into a deeper joy if both hearts turn back to Him. Wait on the Lord; be still before Him; and let your own life become a sermon more powerful than any word.