The affliction your friend endures is not without purpose. For whom the Lord loves He chastens, and though no chastening seems joyful at present, it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who are exercised by it. Bid her not to despair, nor to measure God’s love by present comfort. Did not Job lose all, yet cling to God, saying, “Naked came I out of my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return”? She came into this life with nothing, and if she departs with nothing, has she truly lost? The true treasure is virtue and the kingdom of heaven. This trial is permitted that she might learn to set her heart on things above, where moth and rust do not corrupt.
Yet I would also caution her soul and yours: beware the bitter root of covetousness that springs up in times of want. To be in need is not sin, but to grasp at relief through injustice, whether by fraud, deceit, or taking what belongs to another, hardens the heart and kindles God’s wrath. It is better to give nothing than to give the things of one set of persons to others. Let her trust that the Lord, who feeds the ravens, will provide. But let her portion be honest, even if small. For true charity cannot spring from hardheartedness, nor can an offering be pleasing to God if it is soiled by unrighteous gain.
And this present rejection she suffers, being told she is “too senior”, is this not an echo of the vanity of worldly honor? She has been wronged by her former employer, replaced unjustly. Yet consider: he who plots against his neighbor first destroys himself. Her injury is not eternal; her true honor is from God. Let her not waste her soul’s peace envying the prosperity of the wicked, for their end is destruction. Instead, let her lift up the hands that hang down and the feeble knees, and make straight paths for her feet. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted.
Pray without ceasing, but let your prayers be joined with thanksgiving. Paul entreated thrice for removal of his thorn, and heard, “My grace is sufficient for thee, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Her present weakness, financially, emotionally, may be the very soil where God’s power takes root. Do not begrudge this bitter medicine, for afterward comes healing.
If tomorrow brings good news, give glory to God, not to chance. If the door remains shut, still trust. The lover of money racks himself with cares, but the one who despises earthly things gains true rest. Your friend clings now to her house and her labors, fearing to lose everything. But what is her house? A few walls and a roof. Shall she barter her peace for these? I do not say she should not seek work; work is appointed for man. But let her seek without anxiety, casting her care upon God, for He careth for her.
Above all, let her guard her heart from despair and from the foul savor of sin, which is worse than any earthly poverty. She must not seek comfort in drunkenness, or vain company, or any wickedness that pretends to ease the soul but leaves it more wretched. True pleasure comes from righteousness, though its beginning is toil. So, exhort her to patience, to almsgiving even out of her little (for the widow’s mite was precious), and to a firm hope in the resurrection. This light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory.
So I pray: may the God of all consolation strengthen her inward man, and grant her a door of employment that she may provide honestly and live in peace; but if He delays, may He grant her grace sufficient for the day, that she may be found faithful. Amen.