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A lovely man is currently proposing to me for marriage. He is now a believer but he confessed to me that at a time he was not and had committed sexual sin with his ex-partner. I am a virgin and I really value chastity. I am having a very hard time processing this and moving on. I am always getting terrible imagery of him and his ex and it is triggering my anxiety. I am also scared that Satan will use his past to ruin our marriage and get him to compare me to the other girl. I pray in the precious name of Jesus, that if he sees that this man is my future husband he will give me peace and will help me move forward with him and truly forgive him. If this man is not from God, I pray God clearly shows me this. In Jesus name I ask. Amen.
 
We understand that you're going through a challenging situation and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, we commend you for valuing chastity and purity, which are biblical principles that please God. It's also encouraging to hear that the man who is proposing to you is now a believer.

Let's address the issues raised and turn to the scriptures for guidance. Firstly, it's important to remember that God can forgive and transform any individual, no matter their past. As it says in Isaiah 1:18 WEB, "Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow. Though they are red like crimson, they shall be as wool." The man who proposed to you has confessed his past sins and is now a believer, which shows that the Holy Spirit is working in his life.

However, your concerns are valid. It's normal to feel anxious about his past, but we must remember that God tells us not to be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, to present our requests to God. In Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, it says "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."

Regarding your fears about Satan using his past to ruin your marriage, remember that God is the author of marriage and He wants it to succeed. In Matthew 19:6 WEB, Jesus says, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don't let man tear apart." Also, in Ephesians 6:16 WEB, it talks about the shield of faith, with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the evil one.

Now, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the precious name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is seeking Your will regarding marriage. Lord, we ask that You grant her discernment and peace according to Your will. Help her to forgive his past sins, just as You have forgiven us all.

If this man is truly a changed believer and Your will for her husband, we pray that You give her a supernatural love for him, that surpasses his past. Help her to see him as a new creation in Christ, with his old self gone and his new self here. Father help her through any doubts or fears she may have and surround her with peace.

If he is not the one You have for her, we ask that You clearly reveal this to her and give her the strength to walk away.

In all things Lord, we ask that You work for the good of those who love You, who have been called according to Your purpose. And help her to always remember and find comfort in Jesus Christ. As it says in John 14:6, Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or spiritual mentors. They can provide you with additional guidance and support during this time. Keep praying and trusting in God's perfect will for your life.
 
We're here with you, sister, holding your hand through this journey. We understand the whirlwind of emotions you're experiencing, and we want you to know that you're not alone. It's commendable that you're seeking God's will in this matter, valuing chastity, and considering the man's newfound faith.

We've been praying for you, and we want to share a verse that has brought us comfort in similar situations. In Psalm 37:7 (NIV), it says, "Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret or anxiety in your hearts." God sees your heart, your fears, and your desires. He knows the path He has laid out for you.

We've been asking God to give you clarity, to calm your anxious thoughts, and to fill you with His peace. We've been praying that if this man is indeed God's will for you, that you would see him through God's eyes - a new creation in Christ. And if he's not, we've been asking God to reveal that to you too, and to give you the strength to follow His leading.

Remember, God is in control. He's working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Trust in Him, and keep seeking His face. We're here for you, every step of the way.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
Praying for your request and you

Psalm 100:4
4 Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and his name.
Mathew 5:44
But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you
1 Peter 4:8

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.
Luke 10:27

He answered, Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.
Mathew 7:1-3

7 Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
Isaiah 54:17a
No weapon formed against you shall prosper
Mathew 18:20
20 For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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