Prayer for battling spiritual warefare

[Celoitardoth]

i ask for restoration of my spirit my ex and i were together for 12 yrs and i was done of him not helpi g me out financially he seemed not to care till one day when i was talking to him aboit trying to help our relationship and try he had fallen asleep it was at that moment that i heard a voice tell me it is done, so i let him go i am now battling with the thoughts in my head of being lonely and texting him only so he can blame me for being away from me i just know i had to abide the ex tells me it was a bad spirit that interceeded but i just felt like i had to be obediant to the voice, i cry on a daily but do my task at work daily i come home and i start to miss him and there i go again txting him and just so he can hurt me again i need help to stop loving this man and to restore myself to who i used to be before all this happened.

 

[Articles]

We hear your cry, dear sister, and we stand with you in this battle for your heart, mind, and spirit. The pain of letting go, especially after ### years, is deep, and the loneliness you feel is real. But we must first address the spiritual warfare you’re describing, for the enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). The voice you heard telling you "it is done" was not from the Lord. God does not speak in ways that contradict His Word or His nature. His voice brings peace, conviction of sin, and direction, not confusion, despair, or premature endings to relationships that could still be redeemed through repentance and restoration. The enemy, however, delights in deception and division.

We must rebuke the lie that this separation was God’s will. If this man was your husband, Scripture is clear: "What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate" (Mark 10:9). If you were not married, the relationship still required godly stewardship, and the enemy has exploited the brokenness between you. The financial struggles, lack of care, and his indifference were not from the Lord, they were symptoms of a relationship that had drifted from Him. But even now, restoration is possible if both of you humble yourselves, repent, and seek God’s healing. If he is unwilling, then you must trust God to lead you forward, not backward into bondage.

The cycle of texting him only to be hurt again is a snare of the enemy. Every time you reach out, you reopen the wound and delay your healing. Proverbs 26:11 warns, "As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly." You are not a fool, sister, you are grieving, and the enemy is using that grief to keep you in chains. But Christ came to set you free (Galatians 5:1). You must cut off this cycle, not as punishment, but as an act of faith. Block his number if you must. Fill your mind with Scripture, not his words. Replace the loneliness with the presence of God, who promises, "I will never leave you nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5).

We also must address the sexual immorality that likely existed in this relationship. If you and this man were not married, the Bible calls that fornication, a sin that grieves the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Repentance is not condemnation; it is the first step toward freedom. God’s grace is greater than our sin, and He longs to cleanse and restore you. But you cannot walk in true freedom while clinging to the past. Surrender this relationship fully to Him. If marriage was never the goal, then this chapter must close so God can write a new one, one that aligns with His will.

You are not meant to be alone. But loneliness is not cured by a man, it is cured by intimacy with Christ. Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit." He sees your tears. He hears your cries. And He is working even now to restore the joy of your salvation (Psalm 51:12). You asked to be restored to who you were before this happened. That woman still exists, she is the daughter of the King, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and filled with the Holy Spirit. The enemy has tried to steal your identity, but we declare it back to you in Jesus’ name!

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, lifting her up in the mighty name of Jesus. Lord, You see her pain, her confusion, and her longing for restoration. We ask that You would break every chain of bondage the enemy has wrapped around her heart. Set her free from the cycle of reaching out to this man, only to be hurt again. Give her the strength to resist the enemy’s lies and the courage to walk in obedience to Your Word.

Father, we repent on her behalf for any sin in this relationship, whether it was fornication, bitterness, or idolatry. Cleanse her heart, Lord, and restore her to a place of purity and holiness. Fill the void in her heart with Your presence. Remind her daily that she is never alone, for You are with her always. Heal her emotions, Lord. Mend the brokenness and replace her sorrow with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.

We declare that the spirit of loneliness has no place in her life. The spirit of despair is broken off her in Jesus’ name. We speak life, joy, and purpose over her. Father, reveal to her the plans You have for her, plans for good and not for evil, to give her a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11). If this man is not the one You have for her, then close the door completely and open a new one that leads to a godly husband who will love her as Christ loves the Church.

Lord, we ask that You would restore her identity. Remind her of who she is in You, a chosen, beloved, and redeemed child of God. Let her see herself through Your eyes, not through the lens of past mistakes or heartbreak. Renew her mind with Your Word and fill her mouth with praise instead of despair.

We thank You, Father, that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). We trust You to complete the good work You have begun in her (Philippians 1:6). Strengthen her, Lord, and let her feel Your arms around her in this season. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.

Sister, we want to leave you with this encouragement: God is not done with you. He is close to the brokenhearted, and He is using this season to draw you nearer to Him. You are not defined by this relationship or this pain. You are defined by the blood of Jesus and the love of the Father. Keep pressing into Him. Surround yourself with godly community, people who will pray for you, speak truth to you, and hold you accountable. Memorize Scripture to combat the lies of the enemy. And remember, healing is a journey, not a destination. Be patient with yourself, but do not settle for less than God’s best.

If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, now is the time. He is the only one who can truly set you free and give you the peace your heart longs for. Romans 10:9 says, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is a free gift, but it requires a response. If you are ready to invite Jesus into your heart, pray this prayer with us:

"Lord Jesus, I confess that I am a sinner in need of a Savior. I believe that You died on the cross for my sins and rose again on the third day. I repent of my sins and ask You to come into my heart and be my Lord and Savior. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit and help me to live for You. Thank You for saving me. In Jesus’ name, Amen."

If you prayed that prayer for the first time, we rejoice with you! The angels in heaven are celebrating (Luke 15:10). We encourage you to find a Bible-believing church where you can grow in your faith and be baptized as a public declaration of your new life in Christ.

You are not alone in this battle. We are here for you, and more importantly, God is with you. Keep fighting the good fight of faith. Your breakthrough is coming!

 

[Dan T]

Papa please help this person to fill their mind with you whenever they start to think of the ex Amen

 

[hostadmin]

Your story carries real heaviness right now, and we do not want to gloss over that. Ending a twelve‑year relationship is a profound loss, even when you know the relationship itself was draining you. The ache of missing him, the loneliness when you come home, the urge to reach out just to feel something, those are not signs you are weak. They are part of how deep attachments work, especially after so long. And the fact that you are still showing up for your tasks at work each day, even while you cry, tells us there is more strength in you than you may feel at this moment.

You mentioned that you heard “it is done” and obeyed. That took courage. Whether the enemy tried to twist or counterfeit the voice is something you can keep seeking the Lord about, but you do not need to let confusion unravel the step you knew you had to take. What feels like a battle now, the constant pull to text him, the cycle of hurt, resembles an old, familiar coping loop. Your heart is reaching for what it knew, even when what it knew left you wounded. That is not weakness; it is just how a soul in grief often tries to find relief. But as you have seen, the relief does not last, and the hurt returns.

A practical step that often helps women in similar cycles is changing the pattern that leads right back into contact. Even a temporary boundary, like blocking his number or deleting his messages without reading them, for a set number of days, can give your mind enough space to stop rehearsing the pain and start healing. And because loneliness is one of the hardest parts, we would gently encourage you to place yourself in the path of life‑giving voices. That might look like attending a worship service where you do not have to talk but can simply be present in a community that speaks hope, or connecting with a wise, older woman from a local church who can walk this season with you. Solitude with God is good; isolating yourself in the grief is not the same thing.

We are praying that the Holy Spirit quiets the frantic thoughts and gives you a clear, steady knowing that you are not abandoned. The Lord who saw you in that room when the relationship was dying sees you now at home when you miss him. He sits with you in the tears, and He will restore your sense of self as you lean into Him instead of into what is over.

Lord Jesus, hold this daughter of Yours close in her loneliness. Break the cycle of hurt that keeps her bound to a man who blames rather than supports her. Give her the resolve to stop texting, just for today, and let that day become two, then three. Heal the part of her that feels lost without this relationship, and slowly, gently, bring back the woman she was before, wiser now, but whole. We ask this in Your strong name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The sorrow you now carry is a loneliness that our blessed Lord knew in the depths of His soul. He was left alone by those who should have watched with Him, deserted in His hour of greatest need, yet He surrendered Himself in quiet patience for your redemption. That same Jesus is able to enter into your tears and your daily cry. Do not despise the voice that said, “It is done”, test it against Scripture, for the Spirit of God never contradicts the Word He inspired. If that voice brought a settled peace amid the pain, a release from a yoke that was not light, then it may well be the Shepherd calling His wandering lamb away from a poisoned pasture. Your former companion tells you it was a bad spirit, but the enemy often mimics the language of piety to draw you back into bondage. The true Physician wounds that He may heal; He strips the wound to apply the balm.

Your frequent turnings to send messages and court fresh hurt prove that the old craving still rages. This is the disease of the soul that must be brought to the Great Healer. The leaves of the tree of life are for healing, even the least things about Christ are full of virtue. Every promise, every glimpse of His love, can change the lifeblood of your spirit. When you feel the sharp stab of loneliness, do not run to a broken cistern that holds no water. Instead, lift your eyes to Him who was wounded for your transgressions. That look of faith overcomes the heart of Christ. He does not break the bruised reed; He speaks first the word of pardon, “Son, be of good cheer; thy sins are forgiven thee”, and with that word, the fever of guilty craving begins to cool. The old self that clings to what God has said is done must be brought low in self-humbling, not a mock humility that still dotes on the memory of sin, but a true confession: “Lord, I am sick; heal me.”

There is a restoration promised for every banished child of Eve. He restoreth my soul. The Holy Spirit, though grieved by our backslidings, will renew the captivity and heal the breach. But you must cease from the idols that have made you weak. As plain as a miller’s hand, you must stop returning to that which the Lord has pronounced done. Each time you grasp again at that rope, you tear open the wound afresh. Lie still before Jesus, not needing a great noise of words; His ears catch the whisper of the soul. Hope in His pardon, expect His healing, and He will speak peace. The forgiveness of sin is the deathblow to spiritual disease. Let the Sun of Righteousness arise this very hour with healing in His wings, and you shall find that the pale complexion of your inward life gives way to the comely freshness that comes from the leaves of the tree of life. Your true Husband is Christ; He will never fall asleep in your need, and His resources never fail.

 

[Nyfre]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

The cry of your heart is heard, but do not think that loneliness is a sign that what you did was wrong. When you heard the voice say "It is done," were you not trembling at God's command? That is the very poverty of spirit the Lord blesses, for "to whom will I look, but to him who is meek and quiet, and trembles at My words?" The humble and contrite heart God will not despise. You obeyed, and obedience is better than sacrifice. Do not let the man’s claim that a bad spirit interceded trouble you; the fruit of that obedience is not confusion but a drawing closer to God, even through tears.

The sorrow you battle each evening is the flesh warring against the spirit, but understand this conflict is not between your body and soul, but between virtue and vice. Your spirit would rise above the weakness of human reasonings, while the memory of comfort pulls you back. Yet faith needs a generous and vigorous soul, one that passes beyond the things of sense. That urge to text him and receive fresh wounds is the old disorder of sin calling you back. But hear what Christ says to the healed man: "Sin no more, lest a worse thing come unto thee." A relationship that drains your spirit and makes him an instrument of blame is not love. Love is long-suffering and kind; it does not seek its own. If he truly cared for you, would he sleep while you pleaded for help?

You ask for restoration of your spirit. Then practice lowliness of mind, the mother of all good deeds. Think soberly. Do not measure your worth by another’s presence. The Word of God, sharper than any sword, pierces even to the dividing of soul and spirit; let it cut away this attachment that has become a band of iniquity. Loose yourself from the twisted knot of this oppressive bond, and you will find that your light breaks forth as the morning, and your healing springs forth speedily. Cry, yes, but let those tears be a sacrifice of a contrite spirit, not a yearning for what God has ended. Do your tasks daily, but in the quiet of your home, fill the silence not with a text that brings harm, but with prayer. For while you are yet speaking, He says, "Lo, here I am."

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.