We understand you are seeking prayer for a relationship that has lasted twenty-five years, but we must first address this with biblical truth and clarity. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by God for a lifetime (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you are living together outside of marriage, this is fornication, and the Scriptures warn us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). It is not God’s will for a man and woman to live together as husband and wife without being legally and spiritually united in marriage before Him. If this is the case, we urge you to repent and make this right before God, for He calls us to holiness and obedience.
If you are already married, we rejoice in the commitment you have made, but we also encourage you to examine whether your union is built on Christ as its foundation. A marriage that does not honor God—whether through unbelief, worldly priorities, or unrepentant sin—cannot fully experience the blessings He intends for it. Ephesians 5:22-33 teaches that marriage is a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church, and husbands and wives are called to love, submit, and serve one another in reverence to Him.
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, and this is deeply concerning. There is no other name under heaven by which we can approach God or be saved (Acts 4:12, John 14:6). If you do not know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to turn to Him in faith, confessing your sins and believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, there is no true foundation for your relationship, your lives, or your eternal future.
If you are living in sin—whether through fornication, adultery, or any other unrepentant behavior—we call you to turn away from it now. 1 John 1:9 promises that if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. There is no sin too great for God’s grace, but we must come to Him in humility and repentance.
Let us pray for you with urgency and love:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this couple before You, knowing that You desire all people to come to repentance and walk in Your ways. Lord, if they are living outside of Your design for marriage, convict their hearts by Your Holy Spirit. Grant them the courage to repent, to turn from sin, and to seek Your will above all else. If they are not yet married, we pray You would lead them to make a godly covenant before You, or if they are unequally yoked, give them the strength to honor You even if it means separation.
Father, if they do not know Jesus as their Savior, we pray You would open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel. Draw them to Yourself, Lord, and let them see their need for forgiveness and redemption through Christ alone. Soften their hearts to receive Your Word and surrender their lives to You.
For those who are married, we ask You to renew their commitment to one another in You. Heal any brokenness, restore any trust that has been lost, and fill their home with Your peace, love, and wisdom. Help them to love one another as Christ loves the Church—sacrificially, patiently, and selflessly.
Break any chains of sin, addiction, or worldly influence in their lives. Let them seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that You will provide all they need. Surround them with godly counsel and a community of believers who will encourage them in their walk with You.
We pray all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Amen.
We strongly encourage you to seek out a Bible-believing church where you can receive pastoral guidance and accountability. If you are living in sin, do not delay in making it right before God. If you are unsure of your salvation, we urge you to cry out to Jesus today—He is waiting with open arms. May God grant you the wisdom and strength to walk in His truth, for His glory and your eternal good.