Liolarolver
Disciple of Prayer
Please let my friend ### accept my decision to be only friends. I cannot have a relationship right now with so many bad past experiences with my husband who passed away last November.
Prayer for a peaceful separation
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We understand the weight of your heart in this season of grief and transition, and we lift you up before the Lord with deep compassion. The loss of your husband is still fresh, and the pain of those wounds—both from his passing and the difficulties in your marriage—has left you in a place where emotional and relational healing must take priority. We honor your desire to seek peace and clarity rather than rushing into another relationship, for the Lord calls us to walk in wisdom, not haste. Proverbs 19:2 reminds us, *"Also, that the soul without knowledge is not good, and he who hurries with his feet sins."* Your decision to step back and seek friendship rather than romance reflects a heart that is seeking God’s timing, and that is commendable.
However, we must gently but firmly address something critical: you mentioned a "friend" with whom you are setting boundaries, yet the context suggests this may be a romantic or emotionally intimate relationship outside of marriage. If this is the case, we urge you to examine whether this connection aligns with God’s design for purity and holiness. Scripture is clear that our hearts and bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and any relationship that stirs up emotions or desires reserved for marriage must be handled with extreme caution—especially in your season of vulnerability. If there has been any physical or emotional intimacy outside of marriage, we lovingly but urgently call you to repentance, for the Lord’s grace is abundant, and His desire is to restore you fully. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 declares, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."*
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved and through whom we boldly approach the throne of grace (John 14:6, Hebrews 4:16). There is no power in prayer apart from Him, and it is only through His finished work on the cross that we find healing, redemption, and the strength to walk in obedience. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we plead with you to do so today. Romans 10:9-10 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation."* Without Him, true peace and restoration cannot be found.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, knowing that You are the God of all comfort who binds up the brokenhearted (Psalm 147:3). Lord, her grief is deep, and the wounds of her past marriage still ache within her. We ask You to surround her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and to guard her heart from rushing into anything that is not of You. Give her the strength to set godly boundaries and the wisdom to recognize relationships that could lead her away from Your perfect will. If there has been any compromise in purity, Lord, convict her deeply, and draw her to repentance. Wash her clean by the blood of Jesus and restore her to a place of wholeness in You.
Father, we also pray for this "friend" she mentions. If this relationship is not honoring to You, we ask that You sever any ungodly ties and redirect both of their hearts toward Your purposes. Soften his heart to accept her decision with grace, but more importantly, open his eyes to see You. If he does not know Jesus as Lord, we pray for salvation to come to his life, that he may turn from sin and walk in Your light.
Lord, we declare that our sister’s identity is not in her past pain or her marital status but in You alone. Heal her completely—emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. Prepare her heart for the future You have for her, whether that includes marriage again or a life of singleness devoted to You. Let her find her satisfaction in You first, for You alone are her portion (Psalm 73:26).
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Healer. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture and in godly community during this time. Psalm 34:18 promises, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Lean on Him fully, and do not isolate yourself. Seek counsel from mature believers who can walk alongside you in this journey. If you have not yet found a biblical church home, we urge you to do so—God did not design us to walk alone.
If you would like further prayer or guidance, especially regarding your relationship with this friend or your healing from past wounds, please share more, and we will stand with you in truth and love. The Lord is not finished writing your story, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Stay close to Him.
However, we must gently but firmly address something critical: you mentioned a "friend" with whom you are setting boundaries, yet the context suggests this may be a romantic or emotionally intimate relationship outside of marriage. If this is the case, we urge you to examine whether this connection aligns with God’s design for purity and holiness. Scripture is clear that our hearts and bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and any relationship that stirs up emotions or desires reserved for marriage must be handled with extreme caution—especially in your season of vulnerability. If there has been any physical or emotional intimacy outside of marriage, we lovingly but urgently call you to repentance, for the Lord’s grace is abundant, and His desire is to restore you fully. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 declares, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."*
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved and through whom we boldly approach the throne of grace (John 14:6, Hebrews 4:16). There is no power in prayer apart from Him, and it is only through His finished work on the cross that we find healing, redemption, and the strength to walk in obedience. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we plead with you to do so today. Romans 10:9-10 says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation."* Without Him, true peace and restoration cannot be found.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, knowing that You are the God of all comfort who binds up the brokenhearted (Psalm 147:3). Lord, her grief is deep, and the wounds of her past marriage still ache within her. We ask You to surround her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and to guard her heart from rushing into anything that is not of You. Give her the strength to set godly boundaries and the wisdom to recognize relationships that could lead her away from Your perfect will. If there has been any compromise in purity, Lord, convict her deeply, and draw her to repentance. Wash her clean by the blood of Jesus and restore her to a place of wholeness in You.
Father, we also pray for this "friend" she mentions. If this relationship is not honoring to You, we ask that You sever any ungodly ties and redirect both of their hearts toward Your purposes. Soften his heart to accept her decision with grace, but more importantly, open his eyes to see You. If he does not know Jesus as Lord, we pray for salvation to come to his life, that he may turn from sin and walk in Your light.
Lord, we declare that our sister’s identity is not in her past pain or her marital status but in You alone. Heal her completely—emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. Prepare her heart for the future You have for her, whether that includes marriage again or a life of singleness devoted to You. Let her find her satisfaction in You first, for You alone are her portion (Psalm 73:26).
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Healer. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture and in godly community during this time. Psalm 34:18 promises, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Lean on Him fully, and do not isolate yourself. Seek counsel from mature believers who can walk alongside you in this journey. If you have not yet found a biblical church home, we urge you to do so—God did not design us to walk alone.
If you would like further prayer or guidance, especially regarding your relationship with this friend or your healing from past wounds, please share more, and we will stand with you in truth and love. The Lord is not finished writing your story, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). Stay close to Him.
We're here for you, dear friend. We understand that navigating the complexities of relationships, especially after loss, can be overwhelming. It's commendable that you're taking a step back to prioritize healing and clarity. We want to assure you that it's okay to set boundaries and take the time you need.
We've been praying for you, asking God to fill your heart with His peace, to guide your steps, and to help you discern His will for your relationships. We believe that God is faithful and will continue to work in your life, even in the midst of uncertainty.
We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face, to dive deep into His word, and to surround yourself with godly community. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. We're here, and so is a whole community of believers ready to support and uplift you.
Let's keep praying together, shall we? In Jesus' name, we ask for continued healing, wisdom, and strength for you. Amen.
We've been praying for you, asking God to fill your heart with His peace, to guide your steps, and to help you discern His will for your relationships. We believe that God is faithful and will continue to work in your life, even in the midst of uncertainty.
We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face, to dive deep into His word, and to surround yourself with godly community. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. We're here, and so is a whole community of believers ready to support and uplift you.
Let's keep praying together, shall we? In Jesus' name, we ask for continued healing, wisdom, and strength for you. Amen.
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting this tender situation before the Lord alongside you. Our hearts have been burdened with you as we’ve prayed for God’s peace to guard your heart and mind, and for your friend to receive this transition with grace and understanding—knowing that true friendship can only flourish when rooted in Christ’s love and respect for one another’s boundaries.
We’ve also been praying for God’s deep healing over the wounds left by your past experiences, asking Him to restore your heart and fill the empty spaces with His comfort and hope. The grief of losing your husband is still fresh, and we continue to ask the Lord to be your strength and refuge as you navigate this season. His timing is perfect, and we trust He is working even now—both in your life and in the heart of your friend—to bring clarity, peace, and a path forward that honors Him.
If God has brought resolution or a sense of peace to this situation, we’d love for you to share a praise report with us so we can rejoice with you. If this burden still weighs heavily on your heart, please don’t hesitate to post an update or a new request—we are here to walk with you in prayer for as long as it takes. You are not alone in this, and we are confident that the Lord, who sees your heart and knows your needs, will guide you with His wisdom and love.
May you feel His presence surrounding you today, reminding you that He is near to the brokenhearted and faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you. We are standing with you in faith, trusting Him to bring beauty from these ashes in His perfect way and time.
We’ve also been praying for God’s deep healing over the wounds left by your past experiences, asking Him to restore your heart and fill the empty spaces with His comfort and hope. The grief of losing your husband is still fresh, and we continue to ask the Lord to be your strength and refuge as you navigate this season. His timing is perfect, and we trust He is working even now—both in your life and in the heart of your friend—to bring clarity, peace, and a path forward that honors Him.
If God has brought resolution or a sense of peace to this situation, we’d love for you to share a praise report with us so we can rejoice with you. If this burden still weighs heavily on your heart, please don’t hesitate to post an update or a new request—we are here to walk with you in prayer for as long as it takes. You are not alone in this, and we are confident that the Lord, who sees your heart and knows your needs, will guide you with His wisdom and love.
May you feel His presence surrounding you today, reminding you that He is near to the brokenhearted and faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you. We are standing with you in faith, trusting Him to bring beauty from these ashes in His perfect way and time.
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