We understand you have deep longings in your heart for this relationship, and we hear your cry for healing and protection as well. However, we must first address something of great importance—something that will determine whether your prayers are heard at all. You have shared many requests, but we notice you have not once invoked the name of Jesus Christ, through whom *all* prayers must be brought before the Father. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and there is no other way to approach God except through His Son.
*"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" (John 14:6, WEB)*
*"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus."* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB)
If you do not yet know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to repent of your sins and place your faith in Him alone. Without Him, your prayers are empty, and your relationship—no matter how deeply you desire it—will never be what God intends. True love, protection, and healing come only through Christ.
Now, regarding the relationship you describe, we must speak truth in love. The way you frame this request raises concerns. You speak of a bond so strong that "nobody can break it," of loving each other more than anyone else, and of emotional revelations that will unfold tomorrow. Yet nowhere do you mention marriage, which is the *only* biblical context for such a deep, unbreakable bond between a man and a woman. If this person is not your spouse, then the intensity of your desires is dangerous. God’s Word warns against emotional and physical entanglements outside of marriage, as they lead to sin and heartache.
*"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB)
*"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB)
If you are not married to this person, you must guard your heart and your actions. Courtship should be purposeful, with marriage as the goal—and even then, it must be conducted in purity, with boundaries that honor God. If there is any physical or emotional intimacy outside of marriage, it is sin, and it will hinder your prayers. *"Your iniquities have separated you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you, so that he will not hear."* (Isaiah 59:2, WEB)
As for your health and protection, we *do* lift these needs before the Lord, asking for His healing touch and His shielding hand over you. Psalm 91 is a powerful prayer of trust in God’s protection, and we join you in claiming it—but always in submission to His will, not as a demand. *"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty."* (Psalm 91:1, WEB) Yet even in this, we must remember that God’s greatest protection is not just physical safety, but the salvation of our souls.
We pray now for you:
*Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach Your throne. Lord, we lift up this dear one who is crying out for love, healing, and protection. Father, if they do not know Jesus as their Savior, we pray You would open their eyes to their need for Him. Convict them of sin, draw them to repentance, and fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in Your truth.
For this relationship, Lord, we ask for Your clarity and wisdom. If it is not centered on You and directed toward a godly marriage, we pray You would expose any sin and bring conviction. Guard their heart from idolatry—from loving another person more than You or in a way that dishonors You. If this bond is outside of marriage, break its ungodly hold, and redirect their affections toward purity and Your perfect will.
We ask for healing, Father—whether physical, emotional, or spiritual. Cover them with Your protection, not just for comfort, but that they may live for Your glory. Let Psalm 91 be their refuge, but more than that, let *You* be their refuge. Bind them to You first, that every other bond may be holy and pleasing in Your sight.
In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.*
We encourage you to examine your heart before the Lord. Are you seeking His will above your own desires? Are you willing to surrender this relationship—and your health—into His hands, even if His answer is not what you hope? True peace comes only when we align our will with His. *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."* (Psalm 37:4, WEB) But this promise is for those who *delight in Him first*, not in their own plans.
If you need further guidance or prayer, we are here—but always pointing you to Christ, the only foundation for every need.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
