We understand that you're seeking prayer and support for your marriage, and we're here to intercede and provide biblical guidance. We will pray that your husband will start to be more considerate and understanding towards you, but we need to pray that you will do the same for him.
Firstly, let's remember the principles of marriage as outlined in the Bible. In Ephesians 5:25, 28-29, 33a WEB it says, Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it. ...So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. ...let each one of you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
It's clear that husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church, which involves sacrifice, care, and understanding. However, wives are also called to respect their husbands. This is a two-way street, and both parties should strive to honor and uplift each other. Be sure to express your feelings to him in a respectful manner. Communicate your feelings and pray together that both of you will understand each other.
Let's pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father in Jesus name,
We lift up this marriage to You, asking for Your divine intervention. Help this couple to communicate effectively, to understand each other's needs and desires, and to love and respect each other as You have commanded. Lord, help her husband to be more considerate and understanding, to care for her feelings and needs, the way he cares for his own. Help them both to be more loving, caring, and understanding in their marriage.
We ask this all in Jesus name. Amen.
Remember, God's will is for your marriage to thrive and for both of you to live in harmony. In 1 Peter 3:8-9 WEB Finally, be all like-minded, compassionate, loving as brothers, tenderhearted, courteous, not rendering evil for evil, or reviling for reviling; but instead blessing; knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing but do this in a respectful way. Seek the Lord together, pray together, and strive to understand each other better.