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After my previous relationship that has been wounded and I am carrying the pain. I just saw him with a video of a new girlfriend. I felt confusion and everything. Help me God.
 
We hear your heart, dear sister, and we stand with you in this moment of pain and confusion. The wounds of a past relationship can run deep, and seeing someone move on so quickly can feel like salt in an open wound. But we want to remind you that your worth is not defined by another person’s choices or actions. You are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God, and His love for you is unshakable.

First, we must address the reality of what you’ve experienced. If this previous relationship involved sin—whether it was fornication, emotional unfaithfulness, or any other disobedience to God’s design—it’s important to acknowledge that pain may have roots in those choices. The Bible warns us in 1 Corinthians 6:18 to "flee sexual immorality," for it is a sin against our own bodies, which are temples of the Holy Spirit. If this was the case, we encourage you to bring that before the Lord in repentance, not to dwell in shame, but to receive His cleansing and healing. Jesus’ blood covers all sin when we come to Him in humility and truth.

Seeing your former love with someone new can stir up a storm of emotions—jealousy, rejection, even anger. But we must guard our hearts, as Proverbs 4:23 warns, for out of it flow the springs of life. Instead of allowing bitterness or resentment to take root, we pray that God would help you release this person and this situation into His hands. Forgiveness is not about excusing their actions but about freeing yourself from the chains of unforgiveness. Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."

We also want to gently remind you that if you are not praying in the name of Jesus, you are missing the power and authority that comes through Him alone. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6), and it is only through His sacrifice that we have access to the Father. If you have not surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to consider doing so today. Salvation is found in no one else, and it is the foundation for true healing and peace.

Now, let us lift you up in prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister who is carrying pain and confusion in her heart. Lord, You see every tear she has shed, and You collect them in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm over her wounded heart. Comfort her with Your presence, Lord, and remind her that she is deeply loved by You.

Father, we ask that You would help her to release this past relationship into Your hands. If there was sin involved, we pray that You would bring conviction, repentance, and cleansing through the blood of Jesus. Help her to forgive this man for any wrong he has done, and to forgive herself if she has carried guilt or shame. Lord, we declare that bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness have no place in her heart. Replace those things with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

We pray that You would guard her heart and mind, Lord. Help her to focus on You and the plans You have for her future. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us that You have plans for us—plans for welfare, not for evil, to give us a future and a hope. We ask that You would reveal Your purpose for her life, and that You would prepare her for the godly spouse You have for her, if that is Your will.

Father, we also pray for this man she has seen with another woman. If he does not know You, we ask that You would draw him to Yourself. If he is a believer, we pray that You would convict him of any sin and lead him into repentance. May he seek a relationship that honors You, one that is rooted in Your design for marriage between one man and one woman.

Lord, we ask that You would fill her with Your Holy Spirit, giving her strength, wisdom, and discernment as she moves forward. Help her to seek You above all else, and to find her identity in Christ alone. May she grow in intimacy with You, and may her heart be fully surrendered to Your will.

We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and for the healing that is already at work in her life. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37). We trust You to restore what has been broken and to lead her into the abundant life You have promised.

In the precious name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

Dear sister, we want to encourage you to fix your eyes on Jesus during this time. He is the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and He is walking with you through this valley. Spend time in His Word, allowing it to speak truth over the lies that pain may be whispering to your heart. Surround yourself with godly community—believers who will pray for you, encourage you, and hold you accountable as you heal.

Remember that God’s timing is perfect, and He is preparing you for the future He has for you. If marriage is part of His plan, He will bring the right man into your life at the right time—a man who loves the Lord above all else and who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the Church (Ephesians 5:25). Until then, seek to grow in your relationship with God, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

You are not alone in this. We are standing with you, praying for you, and believing God for complete restoration in your life. Keep your heart open to His leading, and allow Him to heal you from the inside out. He is faithful, and He will not leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
 
We're here with you, dear friend, as you navigate through this storm of emotions. It's like watching a beautiful sunset being marred by dark clouds, but remember, even after the darkest storms, the sun always finds a way to shine again.

First, let's acknowledge the pain you're feeling. It's okay to hurt, to feel confused, even angry. Those feelings are valid and a part of the healing process. But we mustn't let them consume us. Instead, let's take them to God in prayer. He's there, ready to listen, ready to heal.

You know, it's like when we have a physical wound. We need to clean it, apply medicine, and let it rest. The same goes for our hearts. We need to cleanse it from bitterness, apply the healing balm of forgiveness, and rest in God's love.

Forgiveness doesn't mean what happened was okay. It means letting go of the hurt and trusting God with justice. It's not easy, but it's the path to freedom. Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). He's offering that rest to you today.

Also, let's not forget to lean on our brothers and sisters in Christ. We're not meant to go through life's trials alone. Surround yourself with prayer warriors who will uplift you, encourage you, and hold you accountable.

And remember, God is working in your life even now. He's got a plan, a purpose, and a future for you. Trust that He's using this situation to mold you, to make you stronger, and to prepare you for the beautiful future He has in store.

We're praying for you, dear friend. We're believing God for your complete healing and restoration. Keep your heart open to Him, and let Him do the amazing work only He can do. You're not alone. You're loved. You're cherished. And you're going to be okay. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 

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