Pray for my situation please

[Paroxyromai]

Please pray for me in a difficult situation I’m in right now. My ex’s mother is apparently in Canada to handle an exchange of our belongings, but communication has been vague and stressful. I don’t know if things will be returned properly, and the uncertainty is weighing on me. For context, some time ago a reverend gave me a very specific prophecy. He said my ex would come back into my life through very specific means, that we would become friends again through very specific means, that a relationship would develop again through very specific means, and that this would ultimately be fulfilled with her coming to Christ and us marrying. Up to now, every part of this prophecy has happened exactly as described except for the parts about her coming to Christ and marriage. I understand that all prophecy is partial and revealed in stages, but this has been a huge part of my walk with God. After we broke up, her brother told me he felt called by the Lord to evangelize to her and to help lead her to Christ. Recently, I’ve been seeing her interact more and more with Christian content online. This isn’t because I’m stalking her or keeping tabs we still follow each other, and I’ve just noticed it in my feed. Right now I’ve written a letter that I was planning to place with her belongings during this exchange. I’m praying for clarity on whether God wants me to leave it there or remove it. Please pray that God gives me a clear word on what to do with this letter, and that His will alone be done in all of this not mine. Here is the letter:

Final Thoughts

Dear ###,

This is not a love letter, and it’s not me trying to get you back. It’s simply me closing this chapter in a way that feels honest and complete. You were an amazing partner in so many ways. You were kind, empathetic, and you made me feel seen when I needed it most. For a while, it felt like we were helping each other grow. You were helping me put myself back together after years of damage. But over time, things shifted. What we had started to feel less like love and more like a transaction. I felt like I had to keep doing more, giving more, sacrificing more just to keep your closeness. It felt like there was an inflation on your love, and I couldn’t keep paying the price. I don’t believe you were ever trying to hurt me. What I see now is that you were caught in your own push and pull wanting closeness but fearing it at the same time. You would pull me near when you felt safe, then withdraw when it felt like too much. And I get it that fear comes from somewhere deep. But after we broke up, you made the decision not to have the conversation about how friendship should work, and instead you put me in a very specific limbo. Not a relationship, not a clean break, something in-between that kept me hoping and guessing. Being in that post-breakup limbo was painful. It was confusing. And yes, it was cruel not because you are a cruel person, but because it was a choice you made that kept my head underwater while I was trying to breathe. I ended up in the hospital because of the stress of it all. I had to pry closure out of you just to stop spinning. But this letter isn’t just about you, it's also about me. I need to apologize for the ways I failed you and failed us. I didn’t act maturely with the way things ended. When I saw you pulling back, I didn’t speak up. I didn’t say, “Hey, we need to communicate,” or “I’m seeing us drift and it hurts me we need to talk.” I just stayed silent, hoping it would fix itself, and my silence pushed you even farther away. I was afraid of losing you, and that fear kept me from fighting for us in the right way. I also need to apologize for my anger. No matter how much I can justify it, I can’t claim to be who I want to be and hold onto rage against someone I loved so deeply. You did not deserve to have my pain weaponized against you. I forgive you for the things that hurt me fully and completely. And just as I forgive you, I hope you can forgive me. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting or pretending nothing happened, but it means I won’t hold it against you anymore, and I won’t put myself in a position where we could hurt each other the same way again. You are not a monster. You are a person carrying a lot of pain and trauma that you haven’t worked through yet. And I say this from a place of care: you need therapy, not because you are broken, but because you deserve to be free of the patterns that hurt you and the people you love. I saw a version of you that very few people ever get to see, and it was beautiful. It’s a shame that part of you is hidden from the world. Please show it to them. You can be a lighthouse for so many people if you let yourself. You need space to work through your fear of abandonment and fear of closeness, to learn how to set boundaries without disappearing, to stop letting guilt and anger control your reactions, and to find balance so that love can feel safe for you. I’m not angry at you for needing those things. I’m angry at the choice to put me in limbo instead of talking honestly. I can’t keep myself in that kind of dynamic again. I don’t apologize for what I said in that story. I said it because I didn’t want to see you in my feed the moment I opened Snapchat. When you were out of sight, you were out of mind, and it was easier for me to go about my life and communicate with other people without reopening wounds. I know that might sound harsh, but it was the only way I could protect myself. In conclusion, we had a good run until we didn’t. We both contributed to the breakdown. I can only control my part, and my part is to step away and heal. I would only ever be open to talking again whether as friends or anything more if we had a real, honest conversation about what that would look like. And if you ever wanted to try again romantically, it would only be after both of us had done the hard work to become healthy, secure people who can love without fear, without conditions, and without limbo. Until then, I genuinely wish you the best. You have my number, my Snapchat, and my Instagram. If one day you want to have that conversation, you know where to find me. The door will be open.

 

[Articles]

We lift you up in this difficult season, knowing how deeply uncertainty and unresolved emotions can weigh on the heart. The stress of this exchange with your ex’s mother, combined with the lingering questions about the prophecy you received, must feel overwhelming. Yet we are reminded in Proverbs 3:5-6, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* This is not a time to rely on human wisdom or even the words of prophets—however well-intentioned—above the clear leading of the Holy Spirit. God’s will is not a puzzle to be solved but a path to be walked in surrender.

We must first address something critical: the prophecy you received, while seemingly partial in its fulfillment, has become a lens through which you’re interpreting your life—and that is dangerous ground. Scripture warns us in **Deuteronomy 18:22**, *"When a prophet speaks in Yahweh’s name, if the thing doesn’t follow, nor happen, that is the thing which Yahweh hasn’t spoken."* Prophecies must align with Scripture, and their fulfillment must be tested by time and fruit. More importantly, **no prophecy—no matter how specific—should ever replace the authority of God’s written Word or the direct leading of the Holy Spirit in your life.** If this prophecy has become an idol in your heart, something you’re clinging to more than the Lord Himself, it’s time to release it to Him. **Jeremiah 29:11** assures us, *"For I know the plans that I have for you,’ says Yahweh, ‘plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future."* His plans do not hinge on a human prophecy but on His sovereign goodness.

Now, regarding the letter: we hear the pain, the longing for closure, and even the remnants of hope in your words. But we must ask—**is this letter truly about closure, or is it a door left ajar?** You’ve written with honesty, yet there’s a tension between letting go and leaving room for reunion. **Ecclesiastes 3:1-8** reminds us there is *"a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing."* If God has called you to close this chapter, then *close it fully*. Half-closed doors breed confusion, and your letter, while well-intentioned, risks reopening wounds for both of you. **James 4:15** tells us, *"You ought to say, ‘If the Lord wills, we will both live, and do this or that.’"* Before leaving this letter, ask yourself: *Is this the Lord’s will, or is it my fear of finality speaking?* Pray for **radical surrender**, not just clarity. Sometimes God’s will is simply, *"Let it go."*

We also must address the nature of your past relationship. You described a dynamic where love felt transactional, where you sacrificed endlessly to earn closeness, and where emotional limbo left you hospitalized. **This was not love as God designed it.** **1 Corinthians 13:4-7** defines love as patient, kind, not self-seeking, and *not* a cycle of push-and-pull. If this relationship was built on instability, emotional manipulation (even unintentional), and a lack of godly boundaries, **why would the Lord restore it without profound repentance and transformation in both of you?** A marriage cannot thrive on the foundation you’ve described. **Ephesians 5:25** calls husbands to love as Christ loved the church—sacrificially, *but not destructively*. A relationship where one person is constantly "paying the price" for scraps of affection is not of God. If reconciliation were His plan, **both of you would need to be radically changed by Him first**—not just emotionally healed, but spiritually reborn in how you love.

As for her coming to Christ—**this is the only part of the prophecy that aligns with Scripture’s heart.** **3 John 1:4** says, *"I have no greater joy than this: to hear about my children walking in truth."* If her brother feels called to share the Gospel with her, praise God! But her salvation is *not* tied to your relationship. **You are not responsible for her faith journey.** If God draws her to Himself, it will be by His power, not because of a restored romance. **Do not confuse evangelism with emotional reconciliation.** Your role is to pray for her soul, not to orchestrate a reunion.

Finally, we must speak to the **danger of emotional idolatry** in this situation. You’ve admitted this has been a "huge part of your walk with God." But **has it become *the* focus of your walk?** **Matthew 6:21** warns, *"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."* If your heart is treasure is the fulfillment of this prophecy—or this woman—then it’s time to repent and refocus on Christ alone. **He is the only One who will never leave you in limbo.**

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**Let us pray:**

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother, who is tangled in uncertainty, hope, and the weight of unfulfilled words. Lord, **we ask for Your clear, unmistakable voice** to cut through the noise. If this letter is not of You, **give him the strength to tear it up without regret.** If there is a word You want spoken, **let it be Yours alone, not mingled with human longing.** Father, **break any idolatrous grip** this prophecy or this relationship has on his heart. **You are the only Prophecy he needs—the Word made flesh, the Author of his story.**

We rebuke the spirit of confusion and emotional bondage that has kept him tethered to the past. **In Jesus’ name, we command every ungodly soul tie to be severed.** If this relationship is not of You, **let it die completely**, that new life may spring forth in its place. If there is a future here, **let it be built on Your foundation alone**—not human effort, not fear, not prophecy, but **only on Christ.**

Lord, we pray for this woman’s salvation—not as a means to restore a romance, but because **You desire all to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).** Raise up laborers in her life to speak Your truth in love. And for our brother, **fill the void in his heart with Your presence.** Let him find his identity not in "what could be," but in **who You say he is.**

Give him **peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7)** as he waits on You. **Guard his heart (Proverbs 4:23)** from false hope and from the enemy’s lies that his worth is tied to this relationship. **Renew his mind (Romans 12:2)** to see this situation through Your eyes, not his emotions.

And Father, **if there is unforgiveness, bitterness, or fear still lodged in his heart, expose it and uproot it.** Let him release this woman—and this chapter—**fully into Your hands.**

We declare **Psalm 37:5** over him: *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will act."* May he walk forward **not looking back (Luke 9:62)**, but fixed on You.

In the mighty name of **Jesus Christ**, our Redeemer and our Peace, we pray. **Amen.**

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We're here for you, just like you've been there for us so many times. We know this situation is tough, but remember, even the darkest night will pass (Job 30:26). Here's what we're praying for you:

1. **Clarity**: Lord, give our friend clarity on what to do with the letter. Help him discern if it's Your will for him to send it or not. Let him know what to do, step by step.

2. **Peace**: Father, fill our friend's heart with Your peace. Help him trust in Your timing and Your ways, even when they're uncertain.

3. **Healing**: Lord, heal our friend's heart. Help him let go of any bitterness, unforgiveness, or fear that might be lingering. Give him the strength to forgive, just as he has forgiven others.

4. **Wisdom**: Holy Spirit, guide our friend's thoughts and actions. Help him make wise decisions, not based on fear or hope, but on what's truly best.

5. **Protection**: Lord, protect our friend's heart. Guard it from false hope, lies, and any attempts to manipulate or control. Keep him safe and secure in Your love.

6. **Salvation**: Father, draw the ex's mother to You. Raise up laborers in her life to speak Your truth in love. Help her come to know You, not because of any relationship, but because You desire all to come to repentance.

7. **Identity**: Lord, help our friend find his identity in You. Remind him of who he is in You, not in what could have been or what might be.

Remember, our friend, you're not alone. We're here for you, just as You are. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). He's got this.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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