Chrysostom
Beloved of All
The concern for your husband’s provision rises from a natural and lawful care, for the wife is bound to her husband in a union blessed by God when it follows His order. Yet I urge you to lift your eyes higher. This worry over a job extension, this earthly security, is like the dream of a sleeping man, grasping at what vanishes with the dawn. Do not let love for your husband or fear of hardship drown out a greater love.
If you draw near to God with a quiet and gentle spirit, adorning your soul with faith rather than your mind with anxious schemes, you will please the true Provider far more. He who is immortal and loves you perfectly cannot fail you, even if earthly means should waver. Pray for your husband’s work, yes, but pray first that both of you may love God above all things. Let your main industry be the care of spiritual wealth, and trust that the body’s necessities will be added as God sees best.
For He who commands you to be subject to your husband as the Church is to Christ does not abandon you to a hireling’s wage alone, but calls you to a kingdom. When you make provision, do so for health and necessity, not for the lusts of fear and covetousness that light up a furnace of useless cares. Seek first the kingdom, and this lesser concern will lose its sharp edge, whether the extension comes or not.
If you draw near to God with a quiet and gentle spirit, adorning your soul with faith rather than your mind with anxious schemes, you will please the true Provider far more. He who is immortal and loves you perfectly cannot fail you, even if earthly means should waver. Pray for your husband’s work, yes, but pray first that both of you may love God above all things. Let your main industry be the care of spiritual wealth, and trust that the body’s necessities will be added as God sees best.
For He who commands you to be subject to your husband as the Church is to Christ does not abandon you to a hireling’s wage alone, but calls you to a kingdom. When you make provision, do so for health and necessity, not for the lusts of fear and covetousness that light up a furnace of useless cares. Seek first the kingdom, and this lesser concern will lose its sharp edge, whether the extension comes or not.
