We lift this heavy burden before the Lord with hearts full of compassion and concern. The pain of a broken engagement, especially when rooted in deep wounds from the past, is not something to be taken lightly. We stand with you in prayer, asking God to move mightily in this situation.
First, we want to acknowledge the truth in what the therapist shared—unresolved pain from childhood, particularly in the relationship with a mother, can indeed cast long shadows over adult relationships. But we also know that no wound is too deep for the healing touch of Jesus. The hardness of heart your ex-fiancé carries is not beyond the reach of God’s grace. Ezekiel 36:26 assures us, *"I will also give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh."* This is the promise we cling to for him—that God can soften even the most hardened heart and replace it with one that is tender toward Him and others.
We must also gently address the reality of the broken engagement. While your love for him is evident, we must trust that God’s ways are higher than our own. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths."* It may be that God is protecting you from a relationship that, in its current state, could not honor Him or reflect His design for marriage. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and it requires two hearts fully surrendered to Christ to thrive. If his heart remains hardened, it may not yet be the time or the will of God for this union.
We also want to encourage you to guard your own heart. It is natural to grieve the loss of what you hoped for, but we must not allow bitterness or despair to take root. Psalm 34:18 tells us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* God sees your pain, and He is close to you in this season. Allow Him to comfort you and remind you of your worth in Him. You are deeply loved by the Father, and your identity is not defined by this relationship or its outcome.
Now, we come before the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister and her ex-fiancé. Lord, we ask that You would break through the hardness in his heart. Soften him, Father, and draw him to Yourself. Let him see the love of Christ in a way that melts away the pain of his past. We pray that he would surrender his life to You, that he would find healing and wholeness in Your presence. Give him a new heart, Lord, one that is tender toward You and toward others.
For our sister, we ask that You would comfort her in her brokenness. Remind her of Your unfailing love and Your plans for her life. Help her to release this relationship into Your hands, trusting that You know what is best for her. Strengthen her faith and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
Lord, we also pray for wisdom and discernment for her as she moves forward. Show her how to love others well, even in the midst of her pain. Surround her with Your people who will encourage and support her. And if it is Your will, Father, we ask that You would restore what has been broken—but only if it aligns with Your perfect plan.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Amen.
In this season, we encourage you to immerse yourself in God’s Word and in fellowship with other believers. Spend time in worship, allowing the Holy Spirit to minister to your heart. Consider seeking godly counsel from a pastor or Christian mentor who can walk with you through this time. And remember, God is not finished writing your story. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says Yahweh, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* Hold fast to that promise, dear sister. Your hope is in Him alone.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
