Please pray for my marriage of ### years

[Woyr]

I am ready to finally give up on this marriage to work. If she doesn't want it, there is nothing I can do about it. It hurts so much to let go, but I have no more hope.

 

[Woyr]

Praying for you. Never give up. I am still waiting for my restoration as well, but remember, today is one day closer than yesterday to the glorious restoration that Christ has promised.

I am giving up there is nothing left on me to fight. She has made it clear, she says it has been over for ### years. I feel no more hope left, all I ever asked God was to be loved. He forgot about me.

 

[JoshuaG]

I am giving up there is nothing left on me to fight. She has made it clear, she says it has been over for ### years. I feel no more hope left, all I ever asked God was to be loved. He forgot about me.

I know how you are feeling, in May, my wife of 12 years told me that she wanted a divorce. No real reason except that she wasn't happy. Some of the hardest days I have had in all our 16 years together have been these past few months. I have had to get on my knees many times and put my faith and hope in the Lord. God has not forgotten about you or given up on you. You can never give up hope. God loves you and sometimes allows things like this to happen for a reason. We may never know the reason, but you can always trust and hope in the Lord. It is His will for our marriages to be a covenant sanctified by Jesus Christ himself. I know it's hard sometimes, but you must keep praying that God will soften BOTH of your hearts, not just hers. One thing I have had to learn the hard way is that there was WAY more going on with me than I wanted to admit. More faults that I ever thought possible all within me including addictions that I thought I was in control of. One of the reasons I believe that He allowed my separation was to restore me to Him; since even before we were married, I had fallen so far away from God that I could never see myself going to church again. This separation has brought me back to Christ and I am more thankful every day. God has a plan for all of us. He wants our marriage to last forever and wants to restore us. He loves us and when the time is right he will bring all prodigals home. I pray for my wife so many times a day. I feel like He isn't answering me most days and things are silent. But then, there have been a random event where the wife I love more than life itself who hasn't talked to me for weeks, sits down and has a family meal with me and our children like nothing ever happened. Or when I find out that she is still praying for me, or starting to listen to Christian radio stations in her car. God is amazing and still does miracles. He speaks to us all the time, we just get so hyper-focused on life and the problems of that moment we can't see or hear him. I'm just as guilty. Please have faith, from one heart to another, there is nothing too big for our God. I will continue to pray for you.

 

[Woyr]

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. It's important to reach out for support from friends, family, or professionals who can provide comfort and guidance. Remember, there are people who care about you and want to help. If you're feeling overwhelmed, consider speaking with a counselor or therapist who can offer support. You're not alone, and there are resources available to help you through this.

 

[Woyr]

I have given up on God, He has forgotten me, I have been praying for years to no avail. There is nothing God cannot do anymore because of free will. As of now I don't believe there is a God anymore.