please pray for me.

[Fodior]

i have been a single mom almost 5 years now , in this 5 years i need talk to a man or had any kind of relationship, but recently i feel i need some one in my life, but i don't have anyone if some one try to talk to me i ignore, i saw lot of bad news how crazy this world is , i am praying to god to keep me away from all kinds of temptations, i have a 5 years old daughter , and i cant share my love with anyone except god and my daughter, but sometimes i feel if i have some one to lean on, but I'm afraid. please pray for me in need gods guidance all i have is my god no one else .thanks you.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart and we thank you for sharing so honestly with us. We have carried your request before the Lord together and we understand the loneliness and the weariness of carrying so much alone for almost five years as a single mother, and also the godly caution you feel when you see how broken and dangerous this world can be. Your desire to stay pure and to keep away from temptation honors God, and your love for your daughter and for the Lord is beautiful to see.

We want to encourage you that God sees your faithfulness and He is near to you. He is a father to the fatherless and He cares deeply for you and your little girl as Psalm 68:5 tells us God is a father of the fatherless and a defender of widows in his holy habitation. When you feel afraid or feel the weight of needing someone to lean on, we are reminded of Isaiah 41:10, Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. And Psalm 46:1 tells us God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. You are not alone, even when it feels that way, and He invites you to cast all your cares on Him because He cares for you as 1 Peter 5:7 says.

Your longing for companionship is natural and God given, but we want to gently guide you to seek it in the way God has designed. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and that any romantic relationship should be entered into as courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not simply a partner or a casual relationship. The Bible teaches in 2 Corinthians 6:14 not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, and in Hebrews 13:4 that marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled. This means that any sexual intimacy outside of marriage is fornication and is sin before God, and we commend you for praying for protection from temptation. To ignore men who approach you can be wisdom when you are discerning, and we encourage you to wait on the Lord and not to rush into any relationship out of loneliness, but to trust His timing. Proverbs 3:5-6 says Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. And Psalm 27:14 says Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh.

We also noticed that you spoke of praying to God but did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to lovingly remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. Jesus said in John 14:6, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. If you have not already, we encourage you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ, believing that He died for your sins and rose again, and to call upon His name in every prayer. Romans 10:9 says that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. It is through His name that your prayers are heard and your heart finds true rest.

We pray together for you now.

Father in heaven, we lift up this dear mother and her daughter to You in the name of Jesus Christ. We thank You for her faithfulness, for her desire to remain pure, and for her love for You and for her child. Lord, we ask You to be her refuge and strength, to calm her fears and to fill the lonely places in her heart with Your perfect peace that surpasses all understanding as Philippians 4:6-7 promises. Help her to cast every worry on You and to feel Your arms upholding her each day. Guard her and her daughter from all temptation and from the evil in this world, and set a hedge of protection around them. Give her wisdom and discernment to recognize what is from You and what is not, and help her to wait patiently for Your guidance. If it is Your will, in Your perfect time, bring into her life a godly Christian man who will love You first and who will cherish her and her daughter within the holy covenant of marriage, a man who will be a spiritual leader and protector. Until then, help her to find godly community and support in the body of Christ so she does not have to walk alone. Draw her ever closer to Jesus, that she may know she is fully loved and never forsaken. We ask all of this in the precious name of Jesus, our only hope and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to stay rooted in prayer and in the Word, to stay connected to a Bible believing church where you and your daughter can be encouraged and where any future courtship can be covered in counsel and accountability. Keep bringing every longing and fear to Jesus, for He is faithful and He will direct your paths as you trust Him.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for opening your heart to us. Raising your daughter alone for five years is a lot to carry, and it makes sense that you would feel both a longing for companionship and a real fear about opening your heart again, especially when you see so much that is troubling in the world.

We hear how carefully you are guarding your heart and your daughter, and how you have chosen to keep distance when someone shows interest. That caution comes from love and a desire to stay close to God. At the same time, feeling lonely at times does not mean you have failed. It is a very human experience, and it often grows heavier when we try to walk through it entirely alone.

One thing we have seen help many single parents is simply not facing that loneliness in isolation. Staying rooted in regular worship with other believers and having a couple of trusted women or a pastor you can talk with honestly can make the load lighter. It gives you safe fellowship without pressure to pursue a relationship before you are ready, and others who can pray with you and help you discern next steps as God guides you.

We are praying for you and your daughter.

Father, we lift this mother and her little girl to You. You see her faithfulness, her love for You, and the weight she carries. Give her clear guidance, peace as she waits, and faithful community around her. Keep her and her daughter in Your care and draw her closer to You each day. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Vladi777]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been heard and taken to heart before the Lord, and we join you in bringing it to the throne of grace. You have spoken honestly of loneliness, of temptation, of fear, and of the desire to lean upon one who will not fail you, and the Lord knows the weight of each of these things.

The Savior Himself knew what it is to be left alone just when as Man He most needed human sympathy. His disciples forsook Him and fled, and He trod the winepress alone. Somewhere on the road every Christian will find narrow paths and close places where pilgrims must march in single file, and seasons when the absence of godly society makes the soul feel its solitude keenly. It is not a strange thing that you should feel this loneliness as you watch over your little daughter and carry the burden of these five years. Christ understands it fully and He has promised never to leave nor forsake His own.

You do well to pray as our Lord taught us, Lead us not into temptation. There is courage in looking temptation in the face and dreading only the evil which it may work in us, and there is holy fear and sacred self suspicion in asking to be kept from contact with sin in any degree. Temptation in itself is a thing very dangerous, though God may bring great benefit out of it when He permits it for our trial. It is right and childlike to tell your Father the fear that grieves you, even when that fear may come from unbelief, and to ask Him to keep you. Yet remember also that the one who prays Lead us not into temptation and then willingly goes into it is not sincere before God. The surest guidance is found in this principle infused in every renewed heart, avoid everything that is evil, and in bowing with submission to the will of God.

You speak also of fear, and the Scriptures meet you there with the same word repeated as a plant that grows plentifully in God's garden. Fear not, for I am with you. Fear not, for I will help you. Fear not, you worm Jacob. Fear is weakening and it dishonors God, for it doubts the arm that piled the heavens and sustains the pillars of the earth. It brings a snare and makes the heart unhappy and distrusting. But perfect love casts out the fear that has torment, and forgiveness through the precious blood of Christ puts a holy awe and reverence in its place. When we come to God in penitence and are born again of the Spirit and live by faith in Christ alone, for there is salvation in no other, fear is banished and faith takes its place, and your mental balance is maintained because your faculties are left undisturbed by fear. You need not be afraid of falling in the sense of trembling before the Lord, but you must not do something desperate to escape the perilous place. To be tempted is not sin if the temptation is hated, but to run away from the service of God to find relief is to yield to it.

The desire to have someone to lean upon is natural, but learn first to lean wholly upon Christ, who is the husband of the widow and the Father to the fatherless. He is your portion, and He will be your help and your guide even unto death. If in His wise providence He should in His own time provide a godly husband for you, it must be sought only in the way of holiness, as a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, with all purity kept within that covenant. Until then, and whether then or not, keep yourself from every path that would lead you outside that holy boundary, for sex and living together belong only within marriage.

We pray for you now that the Lord would give you promised strength and remove fear by that promise, that He would guard you and your daughter, that He would keep you from temptation and deliver you from evil, that He would grant you clear guidance by His Word and Spirit, that He would supply your daily needs, and that He would let you feel His own nearness as you lean upon Him alone. May He put His fear in your heart that you shall not depart from Him, and may He lead you by His counsel and afterward receive you to glory.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Dan T]

Papa please bless this person with a godly friend Amen

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your prayer has been heard and we thank you for trusting us with it. We have prayed for you and for your daughter, and we continue to pray that God will give you guidance, strength and peace in this season of loneliness and fear.

What you describe is understood. To feel the weight of raising a child alone for five years, to desire someone to lean on, and at the same time to feel afraid when you see how broken this world is, is a real struggle. It is good that you have brought this struggle to God and that your love is set first on Him and on the child He has entrusted to you.

Scripture tells us that there has no temptation taken you but such as is common to man, and that God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. The temptations you feel, the longing for companionship, the fear, the weariness, are not strange or beyond bearing. They are brief and moderate in His hands, and He has promised to be your strength within them.

God at times allows a temptation or a fear to remain for a little while, not because He wishes to withhold good from you, but so that you will persevere in prayer and keep fleeing for refuge to Him and abiding there. As affectionate parents sometimes allow their children to feel a little fear so that the children will run back to their mother's arms, so God permits these trials to draw you closer to Himself. When you return to Him, He takes away the fear at once. This is why we are taught to give careful heed to our prayers, and though we do not receive an answer at once, to persevere that we may receive.

Therefore we pray for you in this way. We ask the Lord, who is a stronghold of those who fear Him, to be your stronghold and your daughter's. We ask Him to keep you from needless dangers and to give you wisdom not to throw yourself into them, but also to give you courage to bear nobly whatever He does allow, trusting that He is for you. Since it is God who justifies us through Christ, who died for us and now intercedes for us, we need not fear what any person may do, nor be shaken by the bad news around us. When He is favorable to us, even if all things seem against us, there is no real harm.

We pray that He will guard your heart and your body in purity, and help you to cut away excess and to live in moderation and humility. In that humility you will find rest for your soul, both now and in the life to come. If it is His will to give you a husband in the future, we pray that it would be in the holy covenant of marriage as God designed it, one man and one woman for life, where love and intimacy belong, and not outside of it. And if He wills for you to continue in this season of singleness, we pray He will make your contentment and joy full in Christ, and provide faithful community around you so you are not alone.

Do not seek the empty approval of the world, which turns everything upside down and knows no true friendship. Seek instead to do what is praiseworthy before God, not for the sake of praise, but because it keeps you in safety like a kind mother.

Continue with one accord in prayer, as the first disciples did when they feared. Bring your loneliness, your desire for companionship, and your fear to Him daily. He lengthens our supplication so that we will stay near Him, and He delights to answer in His perfect time.

May the Lord grant you and your daughter protection, provision, quietness of heart, and clear guidance for each step. May He show you the way of escape in every temptation and keep you close to His bosom until fear is gone.

We are praying for you to know that you are not forgotten, that God sees you, and that His grace and love toward you in Jesus Christ will carry you through. Amen.