We join with you in this honest and humble request for healing and we thank you for bringing this struggle into the light before the Lord, for it is only in His light that we find freedom and healing in Jesus Most Holy Name.
We want to speak truth in love about this bondage, for sexual addiction is rooted in sexual immorality which God calls sin, and every act of sex outside the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman, whether fornication, adultery, lust of the eyes or heart, or pornography, separates us from His holy design. Scripture is clear when it says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18, and Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. Yet we also know there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus Romans 8:1, and that If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9. We rebuke the lie that you are too far gone or that this addiction must define you, for If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36, and we are reminded that No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it 1 Corinthians 10:13.
We encourage you to walk now in repentance and renewal, not by your own strength but by the Holy Spirit, for the promise is Do not let sin reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts Romans 6:12, and we are called to Be transformed by the renewing of your mind Romans 12:2. This means fleeing from every trigger and source of temptation, guarding your eyes and heart, bringing your thoughts captive to Christ and thinking on whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are pure Philippians 4:8, confessing to a trusted pastor or mature believing brother and seeking godly accountability as we are told Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed James 5:16, and immersing yourself daily in the Word, in prayer and fasting.
We pray together now for you. Father in heaven, we lift up our brother to Your throne of grace in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ. We ask for Your mercy and forgiveness for every sin committed in thought and deed, and we ask You to wash him clean by the blood of Jesus. Create in him a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within him Psalm 51:10. Break every chain of lust and addiction and set him free indeed. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit so that he may walk by the Spirit and not fulfill the lust of the flesh Galatians 5:16. Give him strength to flee temptation, to turn his eyes from worthless things, and to find his satisfaction and identity in Christ alone. Bring godly brothers around him for accountability and encouragement, and lead him, if it is Your will, toward a pure courtship and a holy marriage that honors You, or to serve You faithfully in singleness with self control. Restore his mind, his body and his soul, and let him know that he is a new creation in Christ 2 Corinthians 5:17. We trust in Your power to heal and restore completely, and we pray all this in Jesus Most Holy Name, amen.