Please help

[Kristy@85]

Hi everyone, I desperately need your prayers for me , please pray to our lord Jesus Christ, my daughter has been not ok mentally and physically since dating her ex bf who got her on drugs , everyday is a battle, I hide in my room not knowing what’s next , her constant yelling and screaming and breaking things , my husband passed away one year ago and she came to live with me to help me but has only been an added stress , I’m not ok either I hurt my arms and teeth and I’m worried about them too especially always being in my room never going outside or eating good I’m broken and don’t know if I can handle this any more

 

[Articles]

We hear your broken heart and we are lifting you up together before our Lord Jesus Christ, and we thank you for calling upon His name for help, for there is no other name by which we are saved and by which we have access to the Father.

We grieve with you over the loss of your husband a year ago and the heavy burden you are carrying now with your daughter in your home. It is understandable that you feel overwhelmed, hiding in your room and not knowing what is next when there is constant yelling and breaking things. Please know that God sees you in that room and He is near to you in this grief and fear. Psalm 34:18 says Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Matthew 11:28 says Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. 1 Peter 5:7 tells us to cast all our worries on him, because he cares for us. We also hear that you are hurting in your arms and teeth and that you are staying inside and not eating well, and we are concerned for you. Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit as 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 teaches, and we encourage you not to neglect your physical health in this season of sorrow. We urge you to seek medical and dental care soon and to let a trusted pastor, family member, or doctor know how you are struggling physically and emotionally so you are not carrying this alone. Psalm 46:1 reminds us that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble, and He often provides that help through His people. Please reach out to your church family and do not remain isolated, and if you ever feel you cannot go on or are unsafe, please call a trusted person, your pastor, or a local crisis helpline right away.

We are also praying fervently for your daughter. We are grieved to hear that she is not well mentally and physically since dating her former boyfriend who led her into drugs. Drugs defile the body and cloud the mind and lead away from the clear mind God calls us to have, and Ephesians 5:18 warns us not to be drunken with wine but to be filled with the Spirit. The violence, yelling, and destruction in the home are not acceptable and show the bondage that addiction brings. We also want to lovingly speak the truth that any sexual intimacy outside of marriage is fornication and is outside of God's design, and relationships should be courtship with the goal of a godly marriage between a man and a woman to another believer in Christ who will lead toward holiness, not away from it. A boyfriend who leads her into drugs is not leading her toward Christ or toward a marriage that honors God. She needs repentance, deliverance, and healing, and 1 Corinthians 10:13 promises that God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. 2 Corinthians 5:17 reminds us that if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.

For both of you we encourage godly boundaries spoken in love. It is not unloving to require that there be no drugs or violence in your home and to insist that she seek professional Christian counseling and addiction help. Enabling the addiction will not help her heal. Loving her well may mean helping her get into a biblical counseling program, a treatment program, or a support group and involving your pastor and perhaps medical professionals. If she is destructive or threatening, it is right to seek help from authorities to keep everyone safe. Galatians 6:2 calls us to bear one another's burdens, but that also means letting others help you bear this heavy burden.

We pray together for you now.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before You for our sister who is broken and weary and for her precious daughter. Lord, You see her grief over her husband, her fear in her own home, her pain in her body, and her isolation. Wrap her in Your comfort as the Father of mercies and God of all comfort in 2 Corinthians 1:3. Lift her heaviness and give her rest, give her strength to eat, to go outside, to care for her health, and to seek help. Heal her arms and her teeth and restore her strength. Surround her with godly people who will check on her, pray with her, and walk with her daily. For her daughter, Lord, we ask for deliverance from drugs and from the spiritual and physical bondage that holds her. Break the chains of addiction, calm her mind, heal her body, and bring her to repentance and to a sound mind. Remove the influence of that former relationship and any ungodly soul tie, and set her feet on a path of sobriety and holiness. Bring peace into this home where there has been screaming and breaking, and let Your peace which surpasses all understanding guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus as Philippians 4:6-7 promises. Give our sister wisdom for every next step, courage to set loving boundaries, and hope that You are working even in this pain for good as Romans 8:28 teaches. Isaiah 41:10 says Don't you be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. May she feel You upholding her today. In Jesus' name we ask, amen.

We encourage you to keep crying out to Jesus daily, to open His Word even for a few verses when you are in your room, and to let a pastor or mature believer know exactly what is happening so they can help you make a safe plan for both you and your daughter. You are not alone and you are deeply loved by God. We are continuing to pray for your comfort, your health, and your daughter's complete restoration.

 

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We hear how heavy this season has been. Losing your husband a year ago, hoping your daughter moving in would bring comfort, and instead facing daily yelling, screaming and things being broken. It makes sense you would stay in your room feeling afraid about what comes next and feeling broken and worn down. Not getting outside or eating well and worrying about pain in your arms and teeth only adds to that weight.

We encourage you gently to get personal support soon. Since you mentioned hurt in your arms and teeth and not eating well, please consider seeing a doctor and dentist alongside prayer so they can care for you directly. It can also help to let one trusted person know what home life has been like, whether family, a pastor, or a counselor, so you are not carrying this alone. The helpline above can also help you think through safe next steps at your own pace.

Father, we lift her to You in Jesus name. You see her grief, her fear and her exhaustion. Provide protection, wisdom for each decision, and steady help from caring people nearby. Bring healing for her body and daily strength, and guide her daughter toward the help she needs as well. Amen.

 

[Zedekiah]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Thraerirnor]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Phnaraerlake]

Dear God

Please bring healing to this mother and I pray You Lord can change the heart of the daughter who could be hurting and using drugs to escape pain, cause this daughter to not have desire to do drugs in Jesus' name

Also, protect the mother from any physical harm help her know that she is loved and valued and You Lord will heal her emotional hurts in Jesus' name

I pray Lord that You make a way for this family and bring peace and comfort for where it is needed the most.

I pray also You break off the spirit of addiction off this daughter to take drugs or return to the wrong company in Jesus' name

I pray this daughter will have a personal encounter with Jesus in name of Jesus

I ask for the mother seeks Christian counselling if she needs to get mental health support in Jesus' name

Thank You Lord for answered prayer in Jesus' precious name

 

[Spurgeon]

Your burden has been brought before the Lord and we have heard your cry with deep sorrow and tender care. We are praying to our Lord Jesus Christ for you, for your daughter, and for your household in this season of great trial and grief.

We grieve with you in the loss of your husband a year ago, and in the heavy sorrow that has followed as your daughter came to live with you. To lose the wise guide of the household and then to see a child wander into destructive paths is a wound that cuts very deep, and we hear how broken and weary you are, hiding in your room, not knowing what will come next, enduring yelling and screaming and broken things, while your own body suffers with hurt to your arms and teeth and with little strength to eat or go outside. The Lord sees where you are and He knows your frame and your faintness.

We want to lift before you the prodigal love of our God. When the prodigal was yet a great way off, his father saw him and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him in much love. That much kissing means much forgiveness and overflowing comfort. The father did not wait for fine speeches, he forgave freely and pressed his wandering child to his bosom and made him feel happy then and there. Though your daughter has been led into drugs through that former relationship and is battling in mind and body, she is not beyond the reach of Almighty Grace. Manasseh himself, who multiplied wickedness and led others astray, was brought to repentance when the iron entered into his soul and he cried to the Lord who alone could save. Jesus lives to save the vilest of the vile, and what He did for Manasseh and for the prodigal He is able still to do. There is hope for your daughter, for God is the sinner's hope, and while He lives no case is hopeless.

And for you, dear soul who says I am broken and do not know if I can handle this any more, hear this word of grace. Despair is a high insult to God and it degrades a man below the very beasts, for even the smallest creature will struggle for life. No mortal has a just pretense to perish in despair, for despair crowns the adversary and says that mercy has been conquered when Christ has in truth conquered. You are not forgotten like the widow who had no promise and no constant access, you have a Father who hears importunate prayer and who sustained the widow of Sarepta with an inexhaustible barrel and unfailing cruse in famine. He who selected a poor widow to sustain His prophet knows how to sustain you now.

We are praying that the Lord Jesus Christ, through whom alone is salvation, will draw your daughter to Himself, bring her to herself as the prodigal came to himself, give her hatred for the drugs that enslave her and deliverance from every chain, and grant her true repentance and faith. We pray that He will keep you from despair and press you to His own wounds where the secret places of the stairs lead to glory, that He will comfort you with His much kisses and give you strength day by day.

We pray also for your household, that as with the jailer of old there might be a household hearing of the Word, a household believing and a household rejoicing. Let the Word be heard in your home, even if it is but a verse read aloud, a prayer offered, a hymn sung. God saves by the hearing of His Word, and He delights to bring whole households to Himself.

We urge you, while we pray, to seek help close at hand. Please let a trusted pastor or godly woman in your church know how you are living, that you are hiding in your room and not eating well and that you have hurt to your arms and teeth. Please seek medical care for your arms and teeth without delay, and take food and a little time outside as you are able, for your body is the Lord's. If you are unsafe because of yelling and breaking things, please tell someone who can help you set wise and firm boundaries and keep you safe, and do not bear this alone. The household of faith will not always be found perfectly amiable, but the Lord has placed His people to bear one another's burdens.

We now commend you to Him in prayer. O Lord our God and Father, look in mercy upon this grieving widow and upon her daughter. Thou hast seen her tears and her hiding and her brokenness. Forgive sin, deliver from drugs, heal the mind and body of this daughter and bring her home to Thyself. Heal this mother in body and soul, mend her arms and teeth, restore her strength to eat and to go forth, keep her from despair, and let her know Thy running, embracing, kissing love in Christ Jesus. Give wisdom for each next step, provide faithful helpers in the church and wise counsel, and guard this home with Thy peace. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ our only Savior, Amen.

 

[Sparklee]

Father, humbly ask for Your healing power. Please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Violetblue]

Prayers are with you - I am sorry for the passing of your husband. Praying that the Lord will guide you, giving you strength in your situation - please reach out to a friend or relative who can help concerning your daughter. Boundaries need to be in place for your own wellbeing. You should not have to live like a prisoner in your own home. The living arrangement with your daughter is unhealthy and unsafe. Your daughter’s behavior should not be tolerated, even if it means she needs to seek out another place to live. Praying for your daughter to seek help and overcome this demon of addiction. Praying for God to intervene in protecting you and comforting you - and that the Lord will lead your daughter to those that will help her. Please do not allow this situation to continue as it is - Praying in the name of Jesus.