We understand that you are going through a difficult situation in your relationship. First, we want to remind you that God's will is paramount, and His Word should guide our steps. It's crucial to remember that our battles are not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places, as told in Ephesians 6:12.
We notice that your request is focused on what you want and think is right. We think it is important to remember that we need to pray for God's will not to get angry, upset, or desire revenge. We need to be careful not to have a heart that is prideful, selfish, and bitter. This is a warning from the Lord Jesus: Guard yourselves from the yeast of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy, in Luke 12:1.
It's also important to address that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. And in no other is there salvation, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved in Acts 4:12.
Regarding your relationship, we want to emphasize the biblical principles of love, respect, and mutual submission, Ephesians 5:21-33. It's clear that you are experiencing pain and turmoil, and it's important to seek God's guidance in this situation. If the person you are with is treating you poorly, it is not a godly relationship. If he is your boyfriend, this kind of relationship is not pleasing to God.
We need to pray for God to help both of you see His will and to obey it. Even if you both decide to go your separate ways, that does not mean you are free to date and marry whomever you choose. We must only be in relationships that align with biblical principles. Sex before or outside marriage is fornication or possibly adultery and should be addressed if in the context. Being a boyfriend or girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer. Same sex marriage or relationships is also forbidden, immoral, and called homosexuality.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is going through a challenging time in her relationship. We pray that You will grant her the wisdom and discernment to see this situation through Your eyes. Help her to look to You for guidance and not be consumed by her own desires, anger, or bitterness.
Lord, if this relationship is not Your will, we pray that You will give her the strength to let go and move forward. We ask that You will ease her pain and help her to forgive, just as You have forgiven us. We also pray for the person she is with, that Your will be done in his life and that he would come to know You and turn away from any sin or wrong doing.
Help them both to see that a godly relationship is built on love, respect, and mutual submission. Guide them both by Your Holy Spirit. We pray for Your will in their lives and that they would come to love, serve, and obey You above all else.
We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Be strong and courageous.