We hear the deep pain, frustration, and desperation in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The harassment, bullying, and sense of violation you describe are not of GodâHe does not delight in oppression or fear. Scripture tells us, *"The thief comes only to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly"* (John 10:10 WEB). The enemy seeks to break your spirit, but Christ has already overcome him. We stand with you in declaring that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we rebuke every spirit of torment, intimidation, and harassment in the mighty name of Jesus.
First, we must address the language and posture of your request. While we understand your anger, cursing and bitterness only give the enemy a foothold (Ephesians 4:26-27). The Bible calls us to bless those who persecute us (Romans 12:14) and to overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21). This does not mean tolerating abuseâGod hates injustice and calls us to stand against itâbut it does mean surrendering our desire for vengeance to Him. *"Beloved, donât avenge yourselves, but rather give place to Godâs wrath. For it is written, âVengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lordâ"* (Romans 12:19 WEB).
Your mention of "decreeing" and "declaring" a move into existence reflects a misunderstanding of how God works. While we are called to pray with faith and trust in His promises, we cannot manipulate Godâs will through our words. Proverbs 19:21 reminds us, *"There are many plans in a manâs heart, but the Lordâs counsel will prevail."* Instead of declaring your own will, we encourage you to seek Godâs will through prayer, Scripture, and wise counsel. *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and donât lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
We also notice your daughterâs relationship with her boyfriend is a source of great distress. The Bible is clear that sexual immoralityâincluding fornication (sex outside of marriage)âis sin (1 Corinthians 6:18). If this young man is not pursuing marriage with your daughter in a godly, Christ-centered way, his presence in her life (and yours) is not honoring to the Lord. We urge you to pray for wisdom in how to address this with her, speaking the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) while setting boundaries that protect your household. *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
Your desire to leave the United States is understandable given your suffering, but we must caution against making such a decision out of fear or bitterness. God may indeed be calling you to a new season, but it must be discerned through prayer, not desperation. *"The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt: who can know it? I, the Lord, search the mind, I try the heart"* (Jeremiah 17:9-10 WEB). Ask the Lord to reveal His will clearlyâwhether that is healing where you are or leading you elsewhere.
We also want to gently address your use of the phrase "God Almighty" without explicitly invoking the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6), and it is only through His blood that we have access to the Father (Hebrews 10:19-20). If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life fully to Christ, repenting of any sin (including bitterness or unforgiveness) and trusting in His finished work on the cross for your salvation.
Let us pray with you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is enduring harassment, fear, and a deep sense of violation. Lord, You see every injustice and hear every cry. We ask that You would be a shield around them, a refuge in the storm, and a deliverer from their enemies. Break the power of every spirit of torment, intimidation, and oppression in their life in the name of Jesus.
Father, we rebuke the schemes of the enemy designed to steal their peace and destroy their hope. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17). We ask for Your divine intervention in their daughterâs relationshipâexpose any ungodliness, soften hearts to Your truth, and bring repentance where it is needed. Give this one wisdom to set godly boundaries and the courage to speak truth in love.
Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your will regarding their future. If it is Your plan for them to move, make the path clear and provide all that is needed. If You are calling them to stand and fight where they are, fill them with Your strength, peace, and perseverance. Heal their heart from bitterness and replace it with Your love. Teach them to forgive, even as You have forgiven them (Colossians 3:13).
We pray for protection over their homeâspiritually, emotionally, and physically. Let Your angels encamp around them (Psalm 91:11), and let Your presence be their comfort. Father, we ask that You would restore their joy, renew their strength, and remind them that You are their defender. Help them to trust in You with all their heart and not lean on their own understanding (Proverbs 3:5).
Above all, Lord, we pray that they would draw near to You. If they have not fully surrendered their life to Christ, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Let them know the depth of Your love, the power of Your sacrifice, and the hope of eternal life found only in Jesus. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in victory and freedom.
We thank You, Father, that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28). We trust You to bring beauty from ashes and joy from mourning (Isaiah 61:3). In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Friend, we want you to know that you are not alone. The Lord sees your suffering, and He is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We encourage you to seek out a local body of believersâa church that preaches the full gospelâwhere you can find support, prayer, and accountability. You may also consider speaking with a pastor or biblical counselor who can help you navigate this season with wisdom.
If you are not already in the habit of daily prayer and Scripture reading, we urge you to begin. Start with the Psalmsâmany of them were written out of deep anguish and yet end in praise. Meditate on verses like Psalm 23, Psalm 91, and Romans 8:31-39. Let Godâs Word renew your mind and strengthen your faith.
Lastly, if you have not done so, we invite you to surrender your life fully to Jesus Christ. Confess your sins, repent, and ask Him to be your Lord and Savior. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9 WEB). This is the first and most important step toward true freedom and peace.
You are deeply loved, and we are standing with you in prayer. May the Lord grant you His peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and lead you into the abundant life He has promised.