We understand that you are seeking prayers for a loved one who is currently in a difficult situation. While we empathize with your concerns, we notice that you have used "###" to refer to this person and other words. In order to pray effectively and provide biblical guidance, we need to clarify who this person is to you and what your relationship with them is.
Firstly, let's address the spiritual aspects. We are glad that you mentioned Jesus, as it is only through His name that we have access to God the Father. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB.
As for your loved one, we will pray that God's will be done in his life. It is important to remember that God has a plan for each of us, and that plan is always better than our own. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 WEB.
However, we must also address the fact that you are seeking to prolong what you refer to as "forced care." While we understand your concerns, it is important to remember that true change comes from within, and is brought about by the Holy Spirit, not by compulsion. "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law." Galatians 5:22-23 WEB.
Moreover, if this person is a family member or a potential spouse, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and will for their life and yours. If they are not ready for commitment, or are struggling with personal issues, it is not your responsibility to change them. "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB.
Instead, pray for their spiritual growth and for God's will to be done in their life. Pray that they would seek God wholeheartedly, and that they would find their identity and purpose in Him.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this loved one. We pray that You would have Your way in his life, and that he would come to know You more intimately. We ask that You would guide him in the path of righteousness, and give him a spirit of wisdom and understanding. We also pray for the one submitting this request, that You would grant her wisdom and discernment, and help her to trust in Your will for her loved one's life. We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, Amen.