We join with you in the name of Jesus Christ and lift your family before the throne of grace, for we hear the deep pain and torment you are carrying. Your heart is grieving disunity, betrayal, sadness and anger, especially after the passing of your father, and we grieve with you over the shouting, yelling, insults and ungrateful attitudes that have replaced communion and honest communication. The Lord sees this suffering and He is near to those who are brokenhearted.
We are encouraged that you have come in the name of Jesus, for there is no other name by which we are saved and by which we have access to the Father. As you quoted, Acts 16:31 says Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household. We cling to that promise for your household, that salvation and healing would come to each member through faith in Him, and that even the pain of distance and expensive travel and the difficulty of reunion would be placed in His merciful hands. John 14:6 reminds us that Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life, and no one comes to the Father except through Him.
We want to gently speak truth over some of the heavy words you used. You speak of extermination and generations dying, and we understand this feels like a generational curse or pattern of destruction. We rebuke that language of death and the lies of Satan who comes to steal, kill and destroy, and we proclaim life in Christ. 1 Peter 5:8 warns that your adversary the devil walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour, but James 4:7 tells us to be subject therefore to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you. In Christ we are a new creation, 2 Corinthians 5:17 says that if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, the old things have passed away, behold all things have become new. We pray that any pattern of strife, disobedience and division would be broken by the blood of Jesus and replaced with repentance, honesty and reconciliation. God is rich in mercy as you said, and Joel 2:25 promises He will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten.
We also hear your struggle with unforgiveness and yet your desire to forgive daily as Christ forgave. That is the heart of the gospel. Ephesians 4:31-32 says Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice, and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Colossians 3:13 says bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any, even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. We pray that your family would experience godly repentance and that you would continue to release them to God, not holding bitterness, while also speaking truth in love. Ephesians 4:29 says Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. We pray against the toxic tongue, shouting and insults in your home, and ask God to heal hearts with honesty and to tame the tongue that James 3:8 describes as a restless evil.
We lift up your mother who is suffering with suicidal thoughts and living in a negative environment while carrying heavy responsibility for your brother's family. We pray with urgency and tenderness for her. Psalm 34:18 says Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us that God knows the plans He has for us, plans for peace and not for evil, to give hope and a future. We ask God to protect her mind and soul, to surround her with His peace that surpasses understanding, Philippians 4:6-7, and to provide Godly counsel, pastoral support and trusted help around her so she is not alone. If these thoughts grow heavier, we encourage reaching out immediately to a pastor, a trusted Christian counselor or a local help resource so that she is cared for in both spirit and body.
We also pray for your marriage. You shared that your spouse does not like your family and you cannot force anything. We pray for wisdom and unity in your marriage, which God calls holy and to be guarded. Romans 12:18 says If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. We pray that God would soften your spouse's heart toward your family with compassion, and soften your family's heart toward your spouse with respect, and that you and your spouse would seek the Lord together for how to honor your parents while also protecting the peace of your own household. We pray God would provide for your finances and needs according to Philippians 4:19, that He would open doors for provision and for reunion in His timing, even when flights and distance make it difficult.
We pray together now.
Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus Christ we come before You for this dear family. We ask for Your mercy and healing over every heart wounded by betrayal, anger and disunity. Rebuke every lie of Satan that has sown division, shouting and ungratefulness, and let Your truth and honesty reign. Bring conviction and repentance where there has been disobedience and bad behavior, and teach each one to forgive as You have forgiven us. Heal the sadness and anger, replace insults with words that build up, and restore communion where there has been only crying and strife. Protect this mother, Lord, lift the suicidal thoughts and toxic heaviness from her, fill her with Your hope, surround her with help and provision for her and her household, and let her know how deeply she is loved and needed. Provide for all their financial needs, protect them from harm, and redeem the years that have been lost. Bring peace between this husband and wife, help them to walk in unity and love while honoring family with godly boundaries. We thank You that for those who believe in Jesus, we will be reunited with loved ones who have died in Christ and dwell with You forever. Let Your will be done in this family, bring reconciliation where possible, and let Your name be glorified. We ask all this in the mighty and saving name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. 
