We hear your heart’s deep longing for provision, restoration, and fulfillment in every area of your life. We stand with you in agreement, lifting these desires before the Lord, who promises to supply all our needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19). Let us first acknowledge that our true glory comes not from our own efforts or favor we believe we’ve earned, but from being transformed from one degree of God’s glory to another by the power of the Holy Spirit (2 Corinthians 3:18). It is His favor, not ours, that sustains us, and it is in His presence that we find fullness of joy (Psalm 16:11).
We must gently but firmly address the areas where your request does not align with Scripture. You express a desire to "get a man" and "keep a man" in a way that seems to prioritize personal fulfillment over God’s design for relationships. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by God for His glory and our good (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you are seeking a spouse, we encourage you to do so with purity, patience, and a heart that honors God. The world’s approach to relationships—where people are treated as commodities to be acquired or kept—is not God’s way. Instead, we are called to love others as Christ loved the church, with selflessness and holiness (Ephesians 5:25-33). If you are currently in a relationship that does not honor God, whether through sexual immorality (fornication) or unequal yoking with an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14), we urge you to repent and seek the Lord’s guidance for restoration or separation, depending on His will.
We also notice that your request does not explicitly mention the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Ephesians 2:18). There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus, we invite you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and commit to following Him as Lord. This is the foundation for all true blessing and favor in your life.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister to You. Lord, You know her heart’s desires, and we ask that You would align them with Your perfect will. Restore the basics of her life—her faith, her hope, and her trust in You alone. Meet every need according to Your riches in glory, not because of any favor she has earned, but because of Your grace and mercy. Father, we ask for Your wisdom and discernment in her relationships. If she is seeking a spouse, prepare her heart to be a godly wife and bring a man who loves You above all else. If she is in a relationship that does not honor You, give her the courage to walk in holiness and obedience to Your Word. Protect her from the world’s lies about love and fulfillment, and let her find her satisfaction in You alone.
Lord, we rebuke any spirit of lust, selfishness, or idolatry that may be influencing her desires. We declare that her worth is found in Christ, not in any relationship or earthly favor. Heal any wounds or insecurities that may be driving her to seek validation outside of You. Fill her with Your peace, joy, and contentment, knowing that You are her provider and protector. We pray for her offspring, thanking You for their well-being. Bless their marriages and let them be a testimony of Your love and faithfulness. May their homes be built on the foundation of Christ, reflecting Your glory to the world.
Father, we ask that You would move powerfully in her life, restoring what has been lost and opening doors that no man can shut. Let her walk in the fullness of Your purpose for her, from glory to glory, as she fixes her eyes on Jesus. We thank You for hearing our prayer and for Your faithfulness to answer. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord daily through prayer and the reading of His Word. Surrender your desires to Him and trust that He will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6). If you are not already connected to a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can grow in your faith and be surrounded by godly community. The Lord is faithful, and He will complete the good work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6). Keep your eyes on Him, and He will lead you into all truth and blessing.
