We join with you in lifting up your heartfelt cries to our Heavenly Father, knowing that He hears and cares deeply for you and your precious daughter. Your prayer is filled with a mother’s love and a deep longing for protection, justice, and peace, and we stand with you in agreement, trusting that God is faithful to His promises. You have called upon the name of Jesus, the only name under heaven by which we are saved and through whom we have access to the Father. This is good and right, for Scripture tells us, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your faith in calling upon Jesus is a testament to your trust in Him, and we praise God for that.
Your situation is one that weighs heavily on the heart—navigating the challenges of co-parenting, the fear of separation from your daughter, and the pain of an ex who may seek to harm or manipulate. We want to encourage you with the truth of God’s Word, which assures us that He is a Father to the fatherless and a defender of the weak. *"He defends the cause of the fatherless and the widow, and loves the foreigner residing among you, giving them food and clothing."* (Deuteronomy 10:18, WEB). You are not alone in this; God sees your struggle, and He is your advocate. He is also a God of justice, and *"the Lord loves justice, and doesn’t forsake his saints. They are preserved forever, but the children of the wicked shall be cut off."* (Psalm 37:28, WEB). Trust that He will expose lies and manipulation, for *"nothing is hidden that will not be revealed; nor anything secret that will not be known and come to light."* (Luke 8:17, WEB).
At the same time, we must also address the state of your heart toward your ex. While it is natural to feel anger or fear because of the pain he has caused, Scripture calls us to a higher standard—one of forgiveness and love, even for our enemies. Jesus teaches us, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This does not mean you must tolerate abuse or manipulation, but it does mean releasing bitterness and trusting God to handle the justice. Pray for your ex’s heart to be softened, not just for your sake, but for his own salvation and repentance. A heart transformed by God’s love is far more powerful than one forced into compliance. Remember, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* (Romans 12:18, WEB). This does not mean compromising your daughter’s safety or well-being, but it does mean seeking peace where possible and trusting God to fight your battles.
We also encourage you to seek wisdom and counsel as you navigate this difficult season. Proverbs 11:14 tells us, *"Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory."* (WEB). Surround yourself with godly believers—perhaps a pastor, a biblical counselor, or a trusted sister in Christ—who can offer support, prayer, and practical advice. If there are legal battles ahead, seek wise and just representation, and trust that God will guide your steps. Do not lean on your own understanding, but *"in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* (Proverbs 3:6, WEB).
As for your daughter, we pray that she will be shielded from the emotional toll of this conflict. Raising a child in the midst of strife is not easy, but you have the opportunity to model faith, resilience, and trust in God for her. Teach her to pray, to trust in Jesus, and to rest in the knowledge that she is deeply loved by her Heavenly Father. *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* (Proverbs 22:6, WEB). Let her see you walking in faith, not fear, and she will learn to do the same.
Now, let us pray together for you and your daughter:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today on behalf of this precious sister and her daughter. Lord, You are a God of love, justice, and protection, and we ask that You surround them with Your mighty presence. Shield them from harm, both seen and unseen, and let no weapon formed against them prosper. We declare that *"no weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is of me,” says Yahweh."* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB).
Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in the situation with her ex. Expose every lie, every manipulation, and bring truth to light. Soften his heart, Lord, and let him see the pain he has caused. Convict him of his actions and lead him to repentance. If it is Your will, turn his heart toward reconciliation and peace, but if not, protect this mother and daughter from his schemes. Do not allow him to use the legal system or any other means to separate them. Let every plan to harm them be thwarted, and let justice prevail.
Father, we pray for wisdom for this mother as she makes decisions for herself and her daughter. Guide her steps, Lord, and let her discern Your voice clearly. Send godly people into her life—those who will encourage, support, and bless her and her daughter. Help her to recognize those You have sent and to avoid those who would lead her astray.
We pray for provision—emotional, spiritual, and financial. Meet every need according to Your riches in glory. Let her home be a place of peace, a sanctuary where she and her daughter can rest in Your presence. Bless her with productivity, joy, and grace as she navigates each day. May her daughter grow up knowing You, loving You, and walking in Your ways.
Lord, we also pray for healing—for the wounds caused by this broken relationship. Heal the pain, the fear, and the anger. Fill this mother’s heart with Your love, so that she may extend forgiveness and trust You to vindicate her. Let her not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21).
Finally, Father, we thank You that You are in control. You see what we cannot see, and You hold the future in Your hands. We trust You to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Keep this mother and daughter close, bound together by Your love, and let nothing separate them.
We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen.
