God bless U. I grew up with my grandmother, a woman of God. I was forbidden to speak anything negative around her or in conversation. She said that affects, the atomsphere myself & others, but to speak creative words, positive words, today, I understand. Words has affects on our soul & spirit. Now I understand, for the word of God says tobe careful what we confess with our mouth, for there is life & death in the tongue.
Our mind is the battle ground for satan, therefore we cannot afford to be passive, we must resist the devil & he will flee from us. Draw near to God & He will draw near to U.James 4:8 The word of God is true, powerful, & a two edege sword. We are in a spiritual war & don't it. Paul says" to fight the good fight of FAITH. Faith is use to believe & trust in God, it is also use to resist & renounce satan.
When we don't trust God, satan steps in with discouragement, defeat, depression -being overwhelm under hoplessness, darkness, gloominess, failure, misery, unloved, helplessness, pass generational curses, etc. This is what satan come to do, to hold us captive & kept us in bondage. he is very good at it. he used this method with Adam & Eve successfuly, it works then, it works now.
It is necessary for us to look at the way God shows us in His word. Isaiah 61:3 To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourining, the garment of PRAISE for the spirit of heaviness that they might be called the rees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that he might be glorified.
In other words worship is a spiritual weapon against depression. That spirit has to leave. satan hates, the name of Jesus, the blood of Jesus, & worship. When we worship & praise we usher in the presense of God. He inhabits the praise of His people. satan, all the other spirits has to depart. (Psalm 22:3 But thou art holy, O thou that inhabitest the praises of His people). For direction for your life: Isaiah 9:6 .....His name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, the Mighty God, The everlasting Father, the Prince of Peace. (your counsellor) Do what Jesus says, U will walk into deliverance, spiritual & emotional healing.
Father in the Name of Jesus, I pray for healing, deliverance & restoration for this woman in Jesus name. I pray that U will send women of God in her life, to encourage her in U in Jesus name.... Read the Psalms. God bless U again