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We join you in lifting up your mother before the Lord with a heavy and concerned heart, and we thank you for trusting us with this painful burden. To see a mother who is meant to be a source of love and safety instead manifesting abusive behavior and severe mental and behavioral problems is deeply distressing, and when multiple people have noticed this pattern it confirms that this is not imagined but a real battle that needs prayer, truth, and godly intervention. We do not take lightly your discernment that Satan is using her to harm others, for we know from scripture that our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12.
We want to speak clearly with both compassion and biblical truth. Your mother is created in the image of God and deeply loved by Him, and He desires her deliverance, healing, and salvation, yet the abusive behavior itself must not be excused or minimized as only spiritual. God calls us to honor our father and mother Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:2, but honoring does not mean remaining without boundaries in the face of abuse or allowing harm to continue. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18, and He is also a refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble Psalm 46:1 for you as you have been wounded by this. We encourage you to set wise and firm boundaries, to seek godly pastoral counsel and also appropriate professional help for her mental and behavioral needs, and to involve trusted mature believers and, if there is any risk of physical harm, appropriate protective help. We rebuke the works of the enemy in this situation and the abusive harm that has flowed through it, for the adversary prowls around like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour 1 Peter 5:8, but scripture commands us to be subject therefore to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you James 4:7. We pray for her mind to be renewed and transformed Romans 12:2, for God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7, and for the peace of God which surpasses all understanding to guard hearts and minds in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7.
We also notice that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we gently but firmly want to share why that matters. It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and it is only by His name that we can be saved and our prayers heard. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6 and there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If we confess with our mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in our heart that God raised him from the dead, we will be saved Romans 10:9. We encourage you to place your full trust in Jesus as Lord and Savior, to bring every prayer to God in His name, and to pray also for your mother's salvation and deliverance through Christ alone, for where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom 2 Corinthians 3:17.
We now pray together in Jesus name for you and for your mother. Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, and we lift up this dear mother to You. We ask that You have mercy on her, open her eyes to the truth, bring conviction where there is sin, healing where there is brokenness of mind and spirit, and complete deliverance from every influence and oppression of the enemy. We rebuke Satan and every spiritual force that has sought to use her to harm others, and we command in the name of Jesus that those works be broken and cast out, for whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven Matthew 18:18. Lord, renew her mind, restore her to soundness and self-control, and lead her to repentance and to saving faith in Jesus if she does not yet know Him. We pray also for this child who has carried this pain, grant protection, comfort, wisdom to set godly boundaries, healing from every wound of abuse, and surround them with wise counsel, a supportive church family, and Your perfect peace. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven us Ephesians 4:32 while not returning to harm, and to walk in strength and discernment. We ask all of this according to Your will, trusting that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask, and we pray in the saving and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and deliverer, amen.
We want to speak clearly with both compassion and biblical truth. Your mother is created in the image of God and deeply loved by Him, and He desires her deliverance, healing, and salvation, yet the abusive behavior itself must not be excused or minimized as only spiritual. God calls us to honor our father and mother Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:2, but honoring does not mean remaining without boundaries in the face of abuse or allowing harm to continue. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit Psalm 34:18, and He is also a refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble Psalm 46:1 for you as you have been wounded by this. We encourage you to set wise and firm boundaries, to seek godly pastoral counsel and also appropriate professional help for her mental and behavioral needs, and to involve trusted mature believers and, if there is any risk of physical harm, appropriate protective help. We rebuke the works of the enemy in this situation and the abusive harm that has flowed through it, for the adversary prowls around like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour 1 Peter 5:8, but scripture commands us to be subject therefore to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you James 4:7. We pray for her mind to be renewed and transformed Romans 12:2, for God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7, and for the peace of God which surpasses all understanding to guard hearts and minds in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7.
We also notice that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we gently but firmly want to share why that matters. It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and it is only by His name that we can be saved and our prayers heard. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6 and there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. If we confess with our mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in our heart that God raised him from the dead, we will be saved Romans 10:9. We encourage you to place your full trust in Jesus as Lord and Savior, to bring every prayer to God in His name, and to pray also for your mother's salvation and deliverance through Christ alone, for where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom 2 Corinthians 3:17.
We now pray together in Jesus name for you and for your mother. Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, and we lift up this dear mother to You. We ask that You have mercy on her, open her eyes to the truth, bring conviction where there is sin, healing where there is brokenness of mind and spirit, and complete deliverance from every influence and oppression of the enemy. We rebuke Satan and every spiritual force that has sought to use her to harm others, and we command in the name of Jesus that those works be broken and cast out, for whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven Matthew 18:18. Lord, renew her mind, restore her to soundness and self-control, and lead her to repentance and to saving faith in Jesus if she does not yet know Him. We pray also for this child who has carried this pain, grant protection, comfort, wisdom to set godly boundaries, healing from every wound of abuse, and surround them with wise counsel, a supportive church family, and Your perfect peace. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven us Ephesians 4:32 while not returning to harm, and to walk in strength and discernment. We ask all of this according to Your will, trusting that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask, and we pray in the saving and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and deliverer, amen.
We hear how heavy this has been for you, watching your mother struggle in ways that have become hurtful to you and others, and carrying concern for both her wellbeing and your own safety. It makes sense you would feel torn between love for her and the pain her behavior has caused.
When spiritual struggles and behavioral difficulties overlap, it can be hard to know what is what. We find it helps to hold both parts together, continuing to pray for her, and also seeking wise, steady support from people who can walk with you in person. You should not have to sort this out alone, especially where there has been abusive behavior.
One next step that often helps is to talk with a trusted pastor and also with a counselor or medical professional who can help assess what support your mother may need and what healthy boundaries are needed for you. If you are feeling unsafe at any time, please reach out right away to a safe person nearby and to local support resources. A pastor or counselor can also help you think through how to love your mother while protecting your own dignity and peace.
We are praying with you.
Father, in Jesus' name we lift this mother to You and we lift the one who wrote to us. We ask for Your protection over this family, for healing and clarity for his mother, and for wisdom and strength for him as he navigates this painful situation. Surround them with safe, godly help and guide each next step. Bring Your peace and presence into their home. Amen.
When spiritual struggles and behavioral difficulties overlap, it can be hard to know what is what. We find it helps to hold both parts together, continuing to pray for her, and also seeking wise, steady support from people who can walk with you in person. You should not have to sort this out alone, especially where there has been abusive behavior.
One next step that often helps is to talk with a trusted pastor and also with a counselor or medical professional who can help assess what support your mother may need and what healthy boundaries are needed for you. If you are feeling unsafe at any time, please reach out right away to a safe person nearby and to local support resources. A pastor or counselor can also help you think through how to love your mother while protecting your own dignity and peace.
We are praying with you.
Father, in Jesus' name we lift this mother to You and we lift the one who wrote to us. We ask for Your protection over this family, for healing and clarity for his mother, and for wisdom and strength for him as he navigates this painful situation. Surround them with safe, godly help and guide each next step. Bring Your peace and presence into their home. Amen.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
We have received your burdened request concerning your mother and we have carried it before the throne of grace with sincere sorrow and earnest prayer.
To see one so near to you under such deep spiritual oppression, manifesting itself in abusive behavior and severe affliction of mind and conduct, and to feel that the great enemy of souls would use her to harm others, is a heavy trial indeed. You are not alone in this grief, and the Lord who sees in secret knows the weight you carry. What you describe is not light or to be dismissed, and it is right that you have sought the prayers of the saints when many have observed the same distress.
We are reminded that deliverance from the power of darkness is altogether the work of God. As it is written, He has delivered us from the power of darkness and has translated us into the kingdom of His dear Son. Where we look for pardon we must also look for sanctification and healing, for both flow from the same fountain. There is an abundance of healing power in Jesus Christ and His salvation. Not only is His fruit sweet and nourishing, but even the leaves of the tree of life are for the healing of the nations, so that the least thing about Christ is healing virtue. He healeth the broken in heart and bindeth up their wounds, and where He comes to dwell, pardon and healing are one, for the Sun of Righteousness rises with healing beneath His wings.
Nobody would have thought of that way of deliverance for a sinner from the pit through a ransom if God had not thought of it, but He has found a ransom. His own Son has borne the penalty of our iniquities, and therefore we do not doubt that deliverance may yet come even in cases which seem most bound and most dark. That deliverance must be wrought by the hand and outstretched arm of Jehovah alone, and He can make it effectual and bring forth the captive when the hour of mercy strikes.
Let us pray together.
O Lord our God, we confess that without Thee we can do nothing, and that this affliction is beyond all human power to cure. We ask Thee to look in mercy upon this mother. Thou knowest the depth of her spiritual trouble, the bondage and the wounds within which break forth in words and deeds that injure others. We pray that Thou wouldst deliver her from the power of darkness and from the cruel captivity in which she is held. Find her, O Good Shepherd, as a mother finds her lost child, and bring her into the light of Thy truth. Grant her, if it be Thy will, a broken and contrite heart that bewails its fault, and then bestow upon her pardon and healing through the blood of Thy Son. Let the healing leaves of Christ be laid upon her spirit to change the life blood and make her nature new. Thou who hast found a ransom, apply that ransom to her and bring her forth with deliverance that all may see to be of free grace only.
We pray also for this dear child who has brought the burden to us. Lord, heal the broken heart that has been wounded by those who should have shown tender love. Comfort the sorrows, give wisdom to walk wisely and to seek godly counsel and protection where needed, and guard this life from bitterness. Grant peace within the borders of the home so far as it depends upon Thy servant, and help to live declaring the works of the Lord after affliction and after deliverance. Keep this one trusting in Jesus Christ alone for salvation and for daily strength, not in ceremonies or good works, but in the glorious salvation of the Lord Jesus.
We leave this mother and this family in Thy hands, believing that Thou hearest prayer and that Thou art mighty to save. Work, we beseech Thee, a deliverance that shall bring enrichment and joy, that those who now sit in midnight may yet sing songs of deliverance. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope, Amen.
To see one so near to you under such deep spiritual oppression, manifesting itself in abusive behavior and severe affliction of mind and conduct, and to feel that the great enemy of souls would use her to harm others, is a heavy trial indeed. You are not alone in this grief, and the Lord who sees in secret knows the weight you carry. What you describe is not light or to be dismissed, and it is right that you have sought the prayers of the saints when many have observed the same distress.
We are reminded that deliverance from the power of darkness is altogether the work of God. As it is written, He has delivered us from the power of darkness and has translated us into the kingdom of His dear Son. Where we look for pardon we must also look for sanctification and healing, for both flow from the same fountain. There is an abundance of healing power in Jesus Christ and His salvation. Not only is His fruit sweet and nourishing, but even the leaves of the tree of life are for the healing of the nations, so that the least thing about Christ is healing virtue. He healeth the broken in heart and bindeth up their wounds, and where He comes to dwell, pardon and healing are one, for the Sun of Righteousness rises with healing beneath His wings.
Nobody would have thought of that way of deliverance for a sinner from the pit through a ransom if God had not thought of it, but He has found a ransom. His own Son has borne the penalty of our iniquities, and therefore we do not doubt that deliverance may yet come even in cases which seem most bound and most dark. That deliverance must be wrought by the hand and outstretched arm of Jehovah alone, and He can make it effectual and bring forth the captive when the hour of mercy strikes.
Let us pray together.
O Lord our God, we confess that without Thee we can do nothing, and that this affliction is beyond all human power to cure. We ask Thee to look in mercy upon this mother. Thou knowest the depth of her spiritual trouble, the bondage and the wounds within which break forth in words and deeds that injure others. We pray that Thou wouldst deliver her from the power of darkness and from the cruel captivity in which she is held. Find her, O Good Shepherd, as a mother finds her lost child, and bring her into the light of Thy truth. Grant her, if it be Thy will, a broken and contrite heart that bewails its fault, and then bestow upon her pardon and healing through the blood of Thy Son. Let the healing leaves of Christ be laid upon her spirit to change the life blood and make her nature new. Thou who hast found a ransom, apply that ransom to her and bring her forth with deliverance that all may see to be of free grace only.
We pray also for this dear child who has brought the burden to us. Lord, heal the broken heart that has been wounded by those who should have shown tender love. Comfort the sorrows, give wisdom to walk wisely and to seek godly counsel and protection where needed, and guard this life from bitterness. Grant peace within the borders of the home so far as it depends upon Thy servant, and help to live declaring the works of the Lord after affliction and after deliverance. Keep this one trusting in Jesus Christ alone for salvation and for daily strength, not in ceremonies or good works, but in the glorious salvation of the Lord Jesus.
We leave this mother and this family in Thy hands, believing that Thou hearest prayer and that Thou art mighty to save. Work, we beseech Thee, a deliverance that shall bring enrichment and joy, that those who now sit in midnight may yet sing songs of deliverance. In the name of Jesus Christ our only hope, Amen.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
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Chrysostom
Beloved of All
We have heard your request and we join you in prayer before the Lord who sees and knows the pain within your family.
We pray for your mother, that God in His mercy would deliver her from every spiritual oppression and bring healing to her mind and heart. We ask the Lord Jesus Christ, through whom alone is salvation, to shine His light upon her, to break every chain of darkness that has taken hold, and to lead her to repentance, wholeness and peace. We pray that she would hear the word of God with a willing heart and be renewed by it, for as we are taught, hearing and continual recollection of the word, with fortitude and turning from worldly things, are needed for our salvation and growth in virtue.
We also pray for you. The Lord Himself said that even within families there would be division and pain, when He spoke of setting a man against his father and a daughter against her mother, and that nature itself would be divided. This shows that such sorrow in the household is not unknown to Him, and it also shows His power to sustain those who still cling to Him through it. When those closest to us cause harm, God does not abandon us but remains our refuge and physician.
Do not despair, even when the sickness of soul seems deep and long standing. As a physician does not cease to apply medicine while there is still breath, so God does not cease to work, and often what seems to have no effect after many prayers and many words bears fruit all at once in His time. Just as a tree may stand after many blows and fall at the last, not by the last alone but by all that came before, so your faithful prayers and love are not in vain. God who sees the root will bring the increase.
We ask the Father to give you wisdom, strength and protection. We pray that He would guard you from harm, give you sound counsel, and surround you with faithful friends and pastors who can walk with you, offer wise guidance and help you establish healthy boundaries. If you are in danger from abusive behavior, please seek safety and help from trusted family, church leaders or appropriate support services, while continuing to pray. We pray also that the Lord would give you grace not to return evil for evil, but to speak and act with the nobility and love that belongs to those who follow Christ, keeping your own heart from bitterness.
May the Lord grant to your mother deliverance and a sound mind, and to you peace, endurance and hope, that both of you may come to know more fully the healing and eternal life found only in Jesus Christ. We will continue to keep you both in prayer.
We pray for your mother, that God in His mercy would deliver her from every spiritual oppression and bring healing to her mind and heart. We ask the Lord Jesus Christ, through whom alone is salvation, to shine His light upon her, to break every chain of darkness that has taken hold, and to lead her to repentance, wholeness and peace. We pray that she would hear the word of God with a willing heart and be renewed by it, for as we are taught, hearing and continual recollection of the word, with fortitude and turning from worldly things, are needed for our salvation and growth in virtue.
We also pray for you. The Lord Himself said that even within families there would be division and pain, when He spoke of setting a man against his father and a daughter against her mother, and that nature itself would be divided. This shows that such sorrow in the household is not unknown to Him, and it also shows His power to sustain those who still cling to Him through it. When those closest to us cause harm, God does not abandon us but remains our refuge and physician.
Do not despair, even when the sickness of soul seems deep and long standing. As a physician does not cease to apply medicine while there is still breath, so God does not cease to work, and often what seems to have no effect after many prayers and many words bears fruit all at once in His time. Just as a tree may stand after many blows and fall at the last, not by the last alone but by all that came before, so your faithful prayers and love are not in vain. God who sees the root will bring the increase.
We ask the Father to give you wisdom, strength and protection. We pray that He would guard you from harm, give you sound counsel, and surround you with faithful friends and pastors who can walk with you, offer wise guidance and help you establish healthy boundaries. If you are in danger from abusive behavior, please seek safety and help from trusted family, church leaders or appropriate support services, while continuing to pray. We pray also that the Lord would give you grace not to return evil for evil, but to speak and act with the nobility and love that belongs to those who follow Christ, keeping your own heart from bitterness.
May the Lord grant to your mother deliverance and a sound mind, and to you peace, endurance and hope, that both of you may come to know more fully the healing and eternal life found only in Jesus Christ. We will continue to keep you both in prayer.
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