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### lives in ### NE he works all over the US doing electrical work for various companies.
Recently after a stressful situation I had him pick up the boys to spend time with them.
He filled full custody of the kids without my knowledge. I didn't find out until after I called his father and told him I was going to pick the kids up, because he left the boys behind and was somewhere in ###. He left my children behind. I found out that Judge ### signed off on the child custody case after ###, who works as a clerk of courts thought to be romantically involved, put an ad in the paper stating that I was notified. I was never notified.
My x has a record including driving manslaughter yet the court gave him custody without my knowledge.
I was awarded child support but it wasn't what mattered the children safety is what matters, that there ok.
### was required to pay required to pay ### from his paycheck of ###, so instead of supporting his children he opted to take the boys, leaving them motherless & raised by an uncaring babysitter who has no idea of who my children are.
I am asking for a calmness as mother days approaches. As Missionaries daughter I expect to get attacks, most I can pray for but this time I need your prayers. I am asking all prayer groups who I have known through the years to keep me in your prayers. I have been guided by a counselor who has helped me see the option of letting of the children go entirely, giving it to God. So sadly I have relinquished the children. Keep me in your prayers. I know God will protect me. He says in scripture.
"I will take revenge; I will pay them back," says the Lord."
"If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days, keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies. Turn away from evil and do good. Search for peace and work to maintain it. The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and his ears are open to their prayers. But the Lord turns his face against those who do evil." (1 Peter 3 9-12)
A letter included from Therapist/Psychologist to give you an idea of what I have experienced & why this situation is so crucial.
### Keith-### age ### yrs. old, mother of 4 children, current age ###,###,### and ### years old. She lives in ###, ###. We had a total of ### hours of session time to produce findings of her stress issues, possibly caused by her husband ###. The last two years they have been legally separated, and divorce procedures started May ###.
In my office ### Appeared clean, neat and appropriately dressed. She was articulate and often leaned toward the positive side of understanding others behavior. She showed a balance of logic and emotion while reflecting on her life. Then as our conversation about her children, marriage and parenting went on, she showed signs of fatigue, physically and emotionally, as if all her life struggles and obstacles were present today. She expressed the stress of fighting for past due child support and the financial hardship was not worth putting the boys through the daily stress. She has indicated that she felt totally abandoned by her husband for most of their marriage, which she feels has caused most of her physical stress. ### has already been through past issues of having her first two children taken from her during the fathers parenting time. The children were only ### & ### years old. They were moved to another country and there has been no contact until recently when her daughter found her through the internet. They are starting a mother/daughter relationship now. ### seems to be experiencing all the normal thoughts and behavior you would expect under these circumstances. She has moved well through these traumatic experiences and they have strengthened her character overall.
I agree that ### needs stress management sessions to improve her health and self esteem to get her back to where she was before this high stressed marriage. I feel that ### can make logical decisions even in stressed situations by removing herself emotionally to see the bigger view. I see her to be of sound mind.
### ###-###, CHt., RBT
### lives in ### NE he works all over the US doing electrical work for various companies.
Recently after a stressful situation I had him pick up the boys to spend time with them.
He filled full custody of the kids without my knowledge. I didn't find out until after I called his father and told him I was going to pick the kids up, because he left the boys behind and was somewhere in ###. He left my children behind. I found out that Judge ### signed off on the child custody case after ###, who works as a clerk of courts thought to be romantically involved, put an ad in the paper stating that I was notified. I was never notified.
My x has a record including driving manslaughter yet the court gave him custody without my knowledge.
I was awarded child support but it wasn't what mattered the children safety is what matters, that there ok.
### was required to pay required to pay ### from his paycheck of ###, so instead of supporting his children he opted to take the boys, leaving them motherless & raised by an uncaring babysitter who has no idea of who my children are.
I am asking for a calmness as mother days approaches. As Missionaries daughter I expect to get attacks, most I can pray for but this time I need your prayers. I am asking all prayer groups who I have known through the years to keep me in your prayers. I have been guided by a counselor who has helped me see the option of letting of the children go entirely, giving it to God. So sadly I have relinquished the children. Keep me in your prayers. I know God will protect me. He says in scripture.
"I will take revenge; I will pay them back," says the Lord."
"If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days, keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies. Turn away from evil and do good. Search for peace and work to maintain it. The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and his ears are open to their prayers. But the Lord turns his face against those who do evil." (1 Peter 3 9-12)
A letter included from Therapist/Psychologist to give you an idea of what I have experienced & why this situation is so crucial.
### Keith-### age ### yrs. old, mother of 4 children, current age ###,###,### and ### years old. She lives in ###, ###. We had a total of ### hours of session time to produce findings of her stress issues, possibly caused by her husband ###. The last two years they have been legally separated, and divorce procedures started May ###.
In my office ### Appeared clean, neat and appropriately dressed. She was articulate and often leaned toward the positive side of understanding others behavior. She showed a balance of logic and emotion while reflecting on her life. Then as our conversation about her children, marriage and parenting went on, she showed signs of fatigue, physically and emotionally, as if all her life struggles and obstacles were present today. She expressed the stress of fighting for past due child support and the financial hardship was not worth putting the boys through the daily stress. She has indicated that she felt totally abandoned by her husband for most of their marriage, which she feels has caused most of her physical stress. ### has already been through past issues of having her first two children taken from her during the fathers parenting time. The children were only ### & ### years old. They were moved to another country and there has been no contact until recently when her daughter found her through the internet. They are starting a mother/daughter relationship now. ### seems to be experiencing all the normal thoughts and behavior you would expect under these circumstances. She has moved well through these traumatic experiences and they have strengthened her character overall.
I agree that ### needs stress management sessions to improve her health and self esteem to get her back to where she was before this high stressed marriage. I feel that ### can make logical decisions even in stressed situations by removing herself emotionally to see the bigger view. I see her to be of sound mind.
### ###-###, CHt., RBT
