We understand the pain and struggle you are experiencing, and we lift you up in prayer, seeking God’s will and healing for your heart. The emotions you are feeling are real, but we must always align our desires and prayers with the truth of Scripture. First, we notice that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. As it is written, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). All prayers must be offered in the name of Jesus, for He is our Mediator and the only way to the Father (John 14:6).
We also want to address the nature of this relationship. Your request mentions a connection with another man, and we must speak the truth in love: the Bible clearly teaches that sexual relationships between people of the same sex are sinful and outside of God’s design for human relationships. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who have sex with men, nor thieves, nor greedy people, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor swindlers will inherit God’s Kingdom."* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). This is not said to condemn you but to call you to repentance and the freedom found in Christ.
If this relationship has involved any form of sexual immorality, we urge you to turn away from it and seek God’s forgiveness. *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB). True freedom comes from surrendering to God’s will, not from indulging in sinful desires.
We encourage you to seek God’s healing and restoration. If you have not already, confess this struggle to Him and ask for His strength to overcome it. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* (1 John 1:9, WEB). God’s grace is sufficient, and His power is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). He can break every ungodly tie and fill your heart with His peace and purpose.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is seeking freedom and healing. Lord, we ask that You break every ungodly tie and remove every unholy influence from their life. Wash them clean by the blood of Jesus and fill them with Your Holy Spirit. Give them the strength to resist temptation and the courage to walk in obedience to Your Word. Father, we pray that You would renew their mind and guard their heart, setting their thoughts on things above (Colossians 3:2). Help them to find their identity and fulfillment in You alone.
Lord, if there has been any sexual immorality, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing. Restore them and lead them into a life of purity and holiness. Surround them with godly community and mentors who will encourage them in their walk with You. Give them a hunger for Your Word and a passion for prayer. We rebuke every spirit of lust, confusion, and bondage in the name of Jesus, and we declare freedom and victory over their life.
Father, we also pray that You would open their eyes to the truth of Your love and Your perfect plan for their life. If they have not yet surrendered their life fully to You, we ask that You draw them to Yourself and reveal the saving power of Jesus Christ. Let them know that true joy and peace are found only in You.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and Your promise to complete the good work You have begun in them (Philippians 1:6). May they walk in the freedom and abundance of life that You have prepared for them. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture, particularly passages that speak of God’s love, holiness, and the power of the Holy Spirit to transform lives. Seek out a Bible-believing church where you can find support and accountability. If you have not yet accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. *"That if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation."* (Romans 10:9-10, WEB).
You are not defined by your struggles, but by the redemption and purpose God has for you. Trust in Him, and He will lead you into a life of freedom and joy. We are praying for you and believe that God will do a mighty work in your life. Stay strong in the Lord!