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I love my ex ### ### I want him to relax he loves me
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We understand the deep emotions you’re experiencing, and we want to address this with both compassion and truth from God’s Word. First, let us gently remind you that love, as defined by Scripture, is not merely an emotion but a commitment rooted in obedience to God. The Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, *"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."*
Your heart is clearly longing for reconciliation, but we must ask: is this relationship honoring to God? If this man is your *ex*, it suggests the relationship has already ended, and we must consider why. Were there unresolved sins, such as fornication (sex outside marriage), emotional or spiritual unfaithfulness, or a lack of shared faith in Christ? Scripture warns us in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If he is not a believer, or if the relationship was built on ungodly foundations, we must pray for God’s will—not our own desires.
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom *all* prayers must be offered. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). True peace and reconciliation—whether in relationships or in our hearts—can only come through surrender to Christ. If you have not yet repented and placed your faith in Him alone for salvation, we urge you to do so today. *"If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9).
If this man is a believer, and if the relationship was pure and God-honoring, then we can pray for restoration—but only if it aligns with God’s will. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Right now, your focus should be on seeking God’s face, not manipulating circumstances to get what *you* want. Ask the Lord to reveal His will, to heal your heart, and to prepare you for the spouse He has for you—if this man is not the one.
As for your ex "relaxing," we cannot control another person’s heart or emotions. Only God can soften hearts (Ezekiel 36:26). If this man is stressed or distant, it may be God’s way of protecting you both from further pain. Pray for *his* walk with Christ above all else. If he is not saved, pray for his salvation. If he is saved but struggling, pray for his spiritual strength.
Let us pray together:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this sister to You, knowing that You see her heart and her pain. Lord, we ask that You would draw her closer to Yourself above all else. If there is any sin in this situation—whether fornication, idolatry of this relationship, or unbelief—we ask for conviction and repentance. Cleanse her heart, O God, and align her desires with Your perfect will.
If this relationship was not pleasing to You, give her the strength to let go and trust Your plan for her life. If there is a godly future here, restore what was broken—but only in a way that honors You. Soften his heart, Lord, but more than that, soften *her* heart to surrender fully to You.
We rebuke any spirit of lust, control, or emotional dependency that may be at work here. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Remind her that You are her first love (Revelation 2:4) and that no earthly relationship can satisfy like You can.
If this man is not the spouse You have for her, prepare her for the godly husband You *do* have in store—a man who will lead her spiritually, love her sacrificially, and cherish her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). Give her patience to wait on Your timing.
We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone can heal and restore. Amen."*
Sister, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, especially in Psalms for comfort and Proverbs for wisdom. Surround yourself with believers who can speak truth into your life. If this relationship was impure, confess it to God and turn away from it. He forgives and redeems! (1 John 1:9). And remember: *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4)—but only when your greatest desire is *Him*. Stay strong in the Lord.
Your heart is clearly longing for reconciliation, but we must ask: is this relationship honoring to God? If this man is your *ex*, it suggests the relationship has already ended, and we must consider why. Were there unresolved sins, such as fornication (sex outside marriage), emotional or spiritual unfaithfulness, or a lack of shared faith in Christ? Scripture warns us in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If he is not a believer, or if the relationship was built on ungodly foundations, we must pray for God’s will—not our own desires.
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom *all* prayers must be offered. There is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). True peace and reconciliation—whether in relationships or in our hearts—can only come through surrender to Christ. If you have not yet repented and placed your faith in Him alone for salvation, we urge you to do so today. *"If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9).
If this man is a believer, and if the relationship was pure and God-honoring, then we can pray for restoration—but only if it aligns with God’s will. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Right now, your focus should be on seeking God’s face, not manipulating circumstances to get what *you* want. Ask the Lord to reveal His will, to heal your heart, and to prepare you for the spouse He has for you—if this man is not the one.
As for your ex "relaxing," we cannot control another person’s heart or emotions. Only God can soften hearts (Ezekiel 36:26). If this man is stressed or distant, it may be God’s way of protecting you both from further pain. Pray for *his* walk with Christ above all else. If he is not saved, pray for his salvation. If he is saved but struggling, pray for his spiritual strength.
Let us pray together:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift up this sister to You, knowing that You see her heart and her pain. Lord, we ask that You would draw her closer to Yourself above all else. If there is any sin in this situation—whether fornication, idolatry of this relationship, or unbelief—we ask for conviction and repentance. Cleanse her heart, O God, and align her desires with Your perfect will.
If this relationship was not pleasing to You, give her the strength to let go and trust Your plan for her life. If there is a godly future here, restore what was broken—but only in a way that honors You. Soften his heart, Lord, but more than that, soften *her* heart to surrender fully to You.
We rebuke any spirit of lust, control, or emotional dependency that may be at work here. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Remind her that You are her first love (Revelation 2:4) and that no earthly relationship can satisfy like You can.
If this man is not the spouse You have for her, prepare her for the godly husband You *do* have in store—a man who will lead her spiritually, love her sacrificially, and cherish her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). Give her patience to wait on Your timing.
We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone can heal and restore. Amen."*
Sister, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, especially in Psalms for comfort and Proverbs for wisdom. Surround yourself with believers who can speak truth into your life. If this relationship was impure, confess it to God and turn away from it. He forgives and redeems! (1 John 1:9). And remember: *"Delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4)—but only when your greatest desire is *Him*. Stay strong in the Lord.
We're here with you, love. We understand the depth of your feelings, but let's remember that love, as defined by God, is more than just emotion - it's a commitment rooted in obedience to Him. It's patient, kind, and always seeks what's best for the other person, not just what makes us feel good.
We're wondering, though, is this relationship honoring to God? If this man is your ex, it suggests the relationship has ended, and we should ask why. Were there unresolved sins, like fornication or emotional unfaithfulness? Or perhaps a lack of shared faith in Christ? The Bible warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14).
We also noticed that your request doesn't invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom all prayers must be offered. True peace and reconciliation can only come through surrender to Christ. If you haven't yet repented and placed your faith in Him alone for salvation, we urge you to do so today.
If this man is a believer and the relationship was pure and God-honoring, then we can pray for restoration, but only if it aligns with God's will. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). Your focus should be on seeking God's face, not manipulating circumstances to get what you want.
As for your ex "relaxing", we can't control another person's heart or emotions. Only God can soften hearts (Ezekiel 36:26). If he's stressed or distant, it might be God's way of protecting you both from further pain. Pray for his walk with Christ above all else. If he's not saved, pray for his salvation. If he's saved but struggling, pray for his spiritual strength.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up this sister to You, knowing that You see her heart and her pain. Lord, we ask that You would draw her closer to Yourself above all else. If there's any sin in this situation, convict and help her to repent. Cleanse her heart, O God, and align her desires with Your perfect will...
Sister, we encourage you to spend time in God's Word daily, especially in Psalms for comfort and Proverbs for wisdom. Surround yourself with believers who can speak truth into your life. If the relationship was impure, confess it to God and turn away from it. He forgives and redeems! Remember, delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart (Psalm 37:4) - but only when your greatest desire is Him. Stay strong in the Lord.
We're wondering, though, is this relationship honoring to God? If this man is your ex, it suggests the relationship has ended, and we should ask why. Were there unresolved sins, like fornication or emotional unfaithfulness? Or perhaps a lack of shared faith in Christ? The Bible warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14).
We also noticed that your request doesn't invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom all prayers must be offered. True peace and reconciliation can only come through surrender to Christ. If you haven't yet repented and placed your faith in Him alone for salvation, we urge you to do so today.
If this man is a believer and the relationship was pure and God-honoring, then we can pray for restoration, but only if it aligns with God's will. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). Your focus should be on seeking God's face, not manipulating circumstances to get what you want.
As for your ex "relaxing", we can't control another person's heart or emotions. Only God can soften hearts (Ezekiel 36:26). If he's stressed or distant, it might be God's way of protecting you both from further pain. Pray for his walk with Christ above all else. If he's not saved, pray for his salvation. If he's saved but struggling, pray for his spiritual strength.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up this sister to You, knowing that You see her heart and her pain. Lord, we ask that You would draw her closer to Yourself above all else. If there's any sin in this situation, convict and help her to repent. Cleanse her heart, O God, and align her desires with Your perfect will...
Sister, we encourage you to spend time in God's Word daily, especially in Psalms for comfort and Proverbs for wisdom. Surround yourself with believers who can speak truth into your life. If the relationship was impure, confess it to God and turn away from it. He forgives and redeems! Remember, delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart (Psalm 37:4) - but only when your greatest desire is Him. Stay strong in the Lord.
Antitypogeo
Beloved of All
I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for trusting us with this deeply personal request, and we’ve been lifting you up in prayer with hearts full of compassion. Love is a powerful and sometimes painful journey, and we know how much it means to you to see peace and reconciliation in this relationship. We’ve been asking the Lord to soften hearts, to bring calm where there is tension, and to guide both of you into His perfect will—whether that means restoration or a new path forward.
If you’ve seen even the smallest shift—a moment of kindness, a softened word, or a sense of God’s peace in your own heart—we’d love for you to share it with us as a praise report. Even the tiniest answers are worth celebrating, because they remind us that God is at work. And if this burden still feels heavy, please don’t hesitate to share it with us again. We’re here to stand with you in prayer for as long as it takes, trusting that the Lord hears and cares deeply for you both.
May you feel His presence wrapping around you like a comfort, reminding you that you are never alone in this. He sees your heart, and He is faithful. We’re continuing to pray for wisdom, healing, and a supernatural peace that only He can provide.
In Jesus Name.
If you’ve seen even the smallest shift—a moment of kindness, a softened word, or a sense of God’s peace in your own heart—we’d love for you to share it with us as a praise report. Even the tiniest answers are worth celebrating, because they remind us that God is at work. And if this burden still feels heavy, please don’t hesitate to share it with us again. We’re here to stand with you in prayer for as long as it takes, trusting that the Lord hears and cares deeply for you both.
May you feel His presence wrapping around you like a comfort, reminding you that you are never alone in this. He sees your heart, and He is faithful. We’re continuing to pray for wisdom, healing, and a supernatural peace that only He can provide.
In Jesus Name.
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