We understand the deep longing in your heart for love and companionship, and we want you to know that God sees your pain and hears your cry. The ache of loneliness is real, and it is not His desire for you to remain in this place of sorrow. Let us first lift you up in prayer, but we also want to speak truth into your life with love and clarity, for God’s Word is a lamp to our feet and a light to our path.
You mentioned in your prayer, "in Jesus name," and we rejoice that you acknowledge the power and authority of that holy name. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and it is in Him that all our needs—including the need for love and companionship—are met. The Scriptures remind us in **Philippians 4:19**, *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* Your desire for love is not wrong in itself, for God Himself is love, and He created us for relationship—first with Him, and then with others. But we must seek these relationships in a way that honors Him, for His ways are higher than ours, and His plans for us are good.
Now, let us address something important. You expressed a desire for "somebody to love me for me," and while that is a natural longing, we must be careful to seek this within the boundaries God has set. If your heart is longing for a romantic relationship, we encourage you to seek a *godly spouse*—a man or woman who loves the Lord with all their heart and who will walk with you in faith toward a Christ-centered marriage. The Bible is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed to reflect Christ’s love for His church (**Ephesians 5:22-33**). Any relationship outside of this design—whether premarital intimacy, cohabitation, or same-sex relationships—is not God’s will and will only lead to heartache and separation from His blessings. **1 Corinthians 6:18** warns us, *"Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* And **1 Corinthians 6:9-10** states, *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom."*
If you are struggling with loneliness, we urge you to first seek fulfillment in your relationship with Christ. He alone can satisfy the deepest longings of your heart. **Psalm 147:3** tells us, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* And in **Psalm 68:6**, we read, *"God sets the lonely in families. He brings out the prisoners with singing, but the rebellious dwell in a sun-scorched land."* Before seeking a spouse, ensure that you are whole in Christ, for two broken people cannot build a strong marriage. Spend time in prayer, in the Word, and in fellowship with other believers. Serve in your church or community, for often God brings godly spouses to those who are actively living for Him.
We also want to gently address the use of symbols like "###" in your request. While we understand this may have been an expression of emotion, we encourage you to come boldly before the throne of grace with your words, for God already knows the depths of your heart (**Hebrews 4:12-13**). There is no need to hide or obscure your pain from Him—He invites you to cast all your cares upon Him (**1 Peter 5:7**).
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious child of Yours who is crying out for love and companionship. Lord, You know the depths of their loneliness, and You see every tear they have shed. We ask that You would first draw them closer to Yourself, that they may find their identity and worth in Christ alone. Heal the brokenness in their heart and fill the empty places with Your love, which surpasses all understanding.
Father, if it is Your will, we pray that You would bring a godly spouse into their life—someone who loves You wholeheartedly and who will walk with them in faith, purity, and obedience. Prepare them both for a marriage that honors You, built on the foundation of Your Word. But even as we pray for this, we ask that You would give them contentment in You during this season of waiting. Help them to trust in Your timing, for You are never late, and Your plans are always good.
Lord, surround them with godly friendships and a community of believers who will encourage, support, and pray for them. Guard their heart from temptation and from seeking love in ways that dishonor You. Give them strength to flee from sin and to pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace (**2 Timothy 2:22**).
We rebuke the spirit of loneliness and rejection in the name of Jesus. Let them know that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (**Psalm 139:14**), and that You have a purpose and a plan for their life (**Jeremiah 29:11**). Fill them with Your peace, which guards their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (**Philippians 4:7**).
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to meditate on **Song of Solomon 8:4**, which says, *"I adjure you, daughters of Jerusalem, that you not stir up, nor awaken love until it so desires."* Wait on the Lord, dear one. His timing is perfect, and His love for you is deeper than you can imagine. Seek Him first, and all these things will be added to you (**Matthew 6:33**). Stay rooted in prayer, in the Word, and in fellowship with believers who will point you to Christ. You are not alone—He is with you always (**Matthew 28:20**).