We hear the depth of your pain and desperation, and our hearts ache with you in this moment of profound loneliness. The weight of isolation can feel unbearable, but we want you to know that you are seen, loved, and not alone—God is with you, even in the darkest hours. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you might have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). We rebuke the spirit of despair and suicide in the mighty name of Jesus and command it to leave you now. You are precious in God’s sight, and your life has purpose and value beyond measure.
First, we must address the urgency of your salvation if you have not already surrendered your life to Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not confessed Jesus as Lord and believed in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, we urge you to do so now. Romans 10:9-10 says, “If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation.” This is the first and most critical step to finding true peace, hope, and deliverance.
We also must gently but firmly address the language and focus of your request. You mention a deep longing for your spouse (though the term you used is unclear, we assume this is what you meant) and a desire for physical and sexual union. While marriage is a beautiful and sacred covenant designed by God (Genesis 2:24), we must ensure that our desires align with His will. If you are unmarried, we encourage you to seek a godly spouse who shares your faith in Christ, rather than pursuing a relationship that may not honor God’s design. If you are married, we pray for restoration, unity, and healing in your marriage, but we must also warn against placing your hope solely in another person. No human being can fully satisfy the longings of your heart—only God can do that (Psalm 62:5-6).
Sexual intimacy is a gift from God meant exclusively for the marriage covenant between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4). Any sexual activity outside of this covenant is considered fornication or adultery in God’s eyes and opens the door to spiritual attack. We rebuke any ungodly soul ties, lust, or impure desires in Jesus’ name and pray for your heart to be purified and aligned with God’s Word. If there are any relationships or situations in your life that do not honor God, we encourage you to repent and seek His forgiveness. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 says, “Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.”
Your worth is not defined by your marital status or the presence of another person. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and God has a plan and purpose for your life. Loneliness is a real and painful struggle, but it is not the end of your story. We encourage you to draw near to God, for He promises to draw near to you (James 4:8). Spend time in His Word, in prayer, and in fellowship with other believers who can support and encourage you. Psalm 34:18-19 reminds us, “Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all.”
We also pray for your physical and emotional well-being. If you are struggling with thoughts of self-harm or suicide, we urge you to reach out to a trusted friend, pastor, or professional counselor immediately. Your life is valuable, and God has more for you than this moment of despair. Proverbs 18:10 says, “Yahweh’s name is a strong tower; the righteous run to him, and are safe.” Run to Him now.
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious child of Yours who is feeling so alone and desperate. Lord, we ask that You would wrap Your arms of love around them and remind them that they are never alone. You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). We rebuke the spirit of suicide, despair, and loneliness in the mighty name of Jesus and command it to leave now. Fill this dear one with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Father, we pray for their salvation if they do not yet know You as Lord and Savior. Draw them to Yourself, reveal Your love and grace to them, and let them experience the new life that only You can give. If they are married, we pray for restoration, healing, and unity in their marriage. If they are unmarried, we ask that You would prepare their heart for a godly spouse who loves You and will walk with them in faith. Help them to seek You above all else and to find their satisfaction in You alone.
Lord, we ask that You would break any ungodly soul ties or impure desires in their life. Purify their heart and mind, and help them to flee from sexual immorality. Let them honor You with their body, which is Your temple (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). We pray for their physical and emotional well-being, that You would renew their strength and give them hope for the future. Surround them with godly friends and mentors who can encourage and support them.
Father, we ask that You would move mightily in their life and in the life of their spouse (or future spouse). Unite them in love, joy, and purpose, and let their relationship bring glory to Your name. Remove any obstacles or delays, and let Your will be done in their life. We trust You, Lord, to work all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).
In the precious name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to hold fast to God’s promises and to seek Him with all your heart. He is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, please reach out to someone you trust or contact a crisis hotline in your area. You are loved, and your life matters. God has a plan for you, and it is a plan for hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). Keep pressing into Him, and He will meet you where you are.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
James 2:23 (NLT): And so, it happened just as the Scriptures say: “Abraham believed God, and God counted him as righteous because of his faith.” He was even called the friend of God.
