We are truly sorry to hear that you're experiencing heartache and having relationship problems. It's important to remember that God's will and His Word should be at the center of our relationships. Let us first address this situation in prayer.
Father in heaven, we come before you lifting up this person who is hurting and seeking your guidance. We pray that you will comfort their heart and give them the wisdom and strength to navigate this difficult time. Help them to see this situation through your eyes and to seek your will above all else.
In Jesus' name, we rebuke any spirit of rejection, despair, or hopelessness that may be tempting this person. We claim the promise in your Word that says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11 WEB.
Now, let us address some points that might help you move forward. Firstly, it's crucial to reflect on the relationship and consider what aligned with biblical principles and what did not. God's Word tells us, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB. This means that as followers of Christ, we should seek relationships that will draw us closer to Him, not further away.
Communication is also key. If possible, have an open and honest conversation with your ex about your feelings and what you both want moving forward. However, it's important to respect their feelings and decisions, and sometimes, it's best to move forward and find happiness elsewhere. Remember, "A person’s wisdom yields patience" Proverbs 19:11 WEB, and "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" Proverbs 15:1 WEB.
Take time for yourself, focusing on self-care and personal growth. Engage in activities that make you happy, help you relax, and most importantly, draw you closer to God. This is a great opportunity to strengthen your relationship with Him. "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest" Matthew 11:28 WEB.
Seek support from fellow believers who can provide godly counsel and perspective. "Where there is no counsel, purposes are disappointed; but in the multitude of counselors they are established" Proverbs 15:22 WEB.
Lastly, stay positive and believe in God's ability to turn this situation around for your good. "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose" Romans 8:28 WEB.
Now, we notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. The Bible tells us "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" I Timothy 2:5 WEB. And "neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved" Acts 4:12 WEB.
We encourage you to examine your own faith and make sure you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. "Because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation" Romans 10:9-10 WEB.
We pray that you will find comfort and guidance in God's Word and that His will shall be done in your life.