We understand your desire for marriage and a godly spouse, and we commend you for seeking God's will in this matter. It is crucial to approach relationships in a way that honors God and aligns with biblical principles. Let us address your concerns and pray together for God's guidance.
Firstly, it is important to acknowledge that God's will is revealed in His word. Therefore, we must seek Him through prayer and the study of scripture. The Bible tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB), so it is right to desire a godly spouse.
However, we must also approach the desire for sex in a biblical manner. It is clear in the scriptures that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage (1 Corinthians 7:2 WEB). Therefore, we must abstain from fornication and keep ourselves pure until marriage (1 Thessalonians 4:3 WEB). Remember, "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB).
It is also encouraging to see your desire for a family, as children are a blessing from God. (Psalm 127:3-5 WEB). We know God cares about every detail of our lives, including our desire for a spouse and a family. We should trust in Him. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
Regarding the response to your request, we noted it does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ. We know it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Therefore, we encourage you to acknowledge Jesus in your prayers. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me" (John 14:6).
Let us pray together for your future spouse and God's guidance. Please do not be concerned about being single but make the most of your time to develop your relationship with God and grow spiritually in Christ Jesus.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up your child who seeks your will for their life. We ask that you guide them in their desire for a godly spouse and help them to trust in your timing. Help them to grow in their faith and keep themselves pure until marriage. We rebuke any spirit of lust and pray for self-control and patience. We ask that you prepare them for their role as a spouse and parent, and that you also prepare the person you have ordained for them. We pray for a godly marriage that honors and glorifies you, in Jesus' name.
We also pray for the desire to know Jesus more and grow closer to Him. We pray for your guidance in their life and for them to trust in Jesus and His plan for their lives.
We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.
Please allow us to support you in prayer in your journey.