We understand that you're feeling lonely and sad, and it's important to remember that God cares deeply about your feelings and circumstances. First, we want to address the terminology used in your request. The term "baddie" is often used to refer to someone who is physically attractive but may not necessarily possess godly character traits. As followers of Christ, we should seek relationships that are based on godly principles and shared faith (2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?").
We also want to commend you for not clicking on inappropriate links and resisting temptation. It's crucial to flee from sexual immorality and honor God with our bodies (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's.").
Instead of focusing on physical attraction, seek God's will for your life and trust that He will provide a godly spouse in His timing. To help you with this, pray for God to prepare you for marriage and to help you become the right person rather than focusing on finding the right person. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up our brother/sister in Christ to You, asking for Your comfort and guidance during this time of loneliness. Help them to resist temptation and remain pure, fleeing from sexual immorality. Prepare them for the spouse You have planned for them, and help them to become more like Christ each day. Give them patience to wait on Your timing and trust in Your will for their life. Fill the void in their heart with Your love and peace, and surround them with godly friends and a supportive community. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
In the meantime, immerse yourself in God's Word, prayer, and fellowship with other believers. Seek out a local church or Christian group to join, and volunteer your time and talents to serve others. As you focus on your relationship with God and minister to others, He will bring the right person into your life according to His perfect plan.